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How do you make friends?
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Being alone is also good. If I’m soo stressed out, I’d prefer to be in solitude and off my friends. Sometimes, we really need space. But on your case, you really have to think of a solution. Ok, accepted that you’re a 'secluded' type of person and because of that, you have lesser friends or I should say, you really don’t have one which is so odd.). Now, if you're willing to change that attitude and will bring positive results then why don’t you try it? It doesn't mean that you're not being you if you change a bit. As a person, we also need to evolve. We always have a space for improvements. I'll use Kelly Clarkson's song to give you an advice, "Take a risk, Take a chance, Make a Change.. and breakaway!"
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Make them become your friends, by force.
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LOL. Like what you did to me, right Naruto?! (We're definitely friends.)
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AHH I had a big thing written up but I wasn't logged and it didn't save my text, but so I'll just quote Jeff Hardy, "Showcase, the skills you were given at birth. Live your life here for what it's worth. Show-off the style you perfect in life. Show all, the way to make it right." Basically showcase your talents and show-off your interests, aspirations, etc. Of course, start off by saying 'hey' or 'what's up?' Personally, I have a hard time saying 'hi' since I don't smile a lot and it just wouldn't convince the person that I really want to talk to them lol.

Like the topic creator said, try to find something you two have in common. You don't necessarily have to do this right when you meet the person, unless you two have a really long conversation or something. I'm a huge wrestling fan, but a lot of my friends harrass me about how it's fake and what not. I don't let it bother me. I usually just talk to them about things they're interested in, even if I'm not remotely interested in it. Then sometimes I eventually dig what they like. Always be open minded on things, unless it's something bad. Hope that helps.

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LOL. Like what you did to me, right Naruto?! (We're definitely friends.)


Why are you smiling?! Obviously, you need to be put back into the cage again. :)

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I agree. I absolutely met a new friend cos of a certain vacation spot we both been to visit. So, we talked everything about it and surprisingly, we even occupied the same room of different dates(I’ve been there in December, she’s been there in March). It was amazing. We talked something in common. So, we became friends and we were friends up to now.
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huh? I just write random threads on whats on my mind,



That's what was great about CR before the mods.
The freedom that you can't enjoy anywhere else.
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Rules are rules, Strat. It exists everywhere. Without MODs, everything will mess up. And I guess if you're Shinji, you'll eventually do the same. Freedom also has limitations. So, we have to deal with that.
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me since i am the quiet guy i just seat there and people walk up and ask if i want to become friends
don't know why maybe because i just cool that way
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^is a magnet, same here, i meet people from my other friends, and we become friends that easy
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^ yup.. i became friends with himiko cause she seemed friendly on the threads. A^^ she's a real poeple magnet. =D
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you just have to use your inner charm...there is another way as good as walking up to people.the hard part is making friends w/ the one you love (nervous)...i win friends by just sitting in my chair (in class)..no one talks to me like that...then people will say he's weird...lets get to know him!..works for me.
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Friends.......what kind of friends? Even if you are shy people are just people. Just like you and I. They wanted to be treated normal so treat them the same way. Chat when you want, depending on where you are, many people are very social as the society itself is based on it. I leave everyone alone, so no on really bugs me too much. For some reason though...some people do tend to just talk to me and keep doing so almost everyday. I guess its cause I don't say much and just sit there n listen most of the time.

Inner charm? really that stuff works? sitting in a chair? Hell I sit on the floor all by myself during break in HS and it was like....I had a boundary circle around me that ppl would always avoid. Weird stuff. Where I am....seems like people are scared as hell when it comes to quiet people. They think they are suicidal. Seems there might be a history to it I guess. I dont quite know.
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Who needs friends when you got enemies!
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Easier to find the same type of you.

Example: "Hey!!! pal, listen up, I'm lolicon/gay/sadism/maso/les/bi/otaku/F/G/M/K/etc.(what you are) and i need some comrades to join me....blah blah blah"
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