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im still questioning god's existence myself >< i've had a big scar in my childhood that i could never forget and i really liked someone like 2 years ago but he completely rejected me -> ended up crying everyday for a week? but whatever, unhappiness and loneliness dont last forever, something good will happen to you and it'll help bring you back up to your feet.

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im still questioning god's existence myself >< i've had a big scar in my childhood that i could never forget and i really liked someone like 2 years ago but he completely rejected me -> ended up crying everyday for a week? but whatever, unhappiness and loneliness dont last forever, something good will happen to you and it'll help bring you back up to your feet.



it does last forever.....it doesnt heal it stays 4ever
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I am sure that at ONE point in everybody`s life they have thought about "suicide" or wanting to die.
But i don`t think it is your only option.
Another way to look at it is:
I saw a movie called The Suicide Club (aka Suicide Circle) and I THINK the message in it is:
if your mom dies; you still have a connection with her.
if your dad dies; you still have a connection.
but if YOU died would you still have a connection with yourself?
I am not sure if this was the point of the movie, but if you don`t have a connection with yourself you are better off dead?
It is a way to look at it, but my beliefs are still solid in thinking suicide isn`t good.
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some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................
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some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.
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tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........
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tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.
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tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.


its not that im a bad person or iv done bad things.....i just dont beleive in living
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tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.


its not that im a bad person or iv done bad things.....i just dont beleive in living


why not? everyone has hard pasts but that is the point when you must hold your head high, trust God, and continue living to the fullest.
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ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.


its not that im a bad person or iv done bad things.....i just dont beleive in living


why not? everyone has hard pasts but that is the point when you must hold your head high, trust God, and continue living to the fullest.


there are 3 reasons i dont believe in life 1.the girl i love is dead 2.i cant legally enjoy myself 3.because there is no hope
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tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.


its not that im a bad person or iv done bad things.....i just dont beleive in living


why not? everyone has hard pasts but that is the point when you must hold your head high, trust God, and continue living to the fullest.


there are 3 reasons i dont believe in life 1.the girl i love is dead 2.i cant legally enjoy myself 3.because there is no hope


I am sorry that you have gone through the pain of losing a loved one, and I will pray for you. But would the girl you loved want you to end your life and quit? Or would she want you to live on and be joyful? And how can you not legally enjoy yourself? If you are talking about drinking and smoking (because you are underaged) then I will say that those things don't help. I used to drink and smoke when I struggled with suicide, and all it did was drown the pain, the pain always came back even stronger. Substances do not heal, the just dampen the problem and let it fester until it becomes even worse. And there is always hope. As a Christian I believe that we were all created for a purpose that God has ordained for us even before we were born. It's up to us to accept it and become children of God or to reject it and reject salvation. In my depression I turned to God, and about 7-8 months later God gave me my calling for life in serving in ministry. Happiness is conditional upon or circumstances, but joy is knowing that God is in control and trusting Him. Believe me, I had tried to give up many times, I tried milking others for pity, I tried alcohol and smoking, I tried suicide... nothing worked and only made things worse. Jesus is the healer of hearts, He heals brokenness and makes it into something joyful and beautiful that will glorify Him. When I cried to God He saved me, and He taught me how to deal with pain and to trust Him. All people can attain this hope, and it's free to all who repent in Jesus Name and ask for it God loves you with all His Heart, and He wants to have a relationship with you. The One who created our hearts can heal them, the one who destroys our hearts (satan) wants to prevent us from being healed and born again. There is always One Hope, and that is Jesus Christ who loves you enough to die for you and heal your brokenness.
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digs wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.


its not that im a bad person or iv done bad things.....i just dont beleive in living


why not? everyone has hard pasts but that is the point when you must hold your head high, trust God, and continue living to the fullest.


there are 3 reasons i dont believe in life 1.the girl i love is dead 2.i cant legally enjoy myself 3.because there is no hope


I am sorry that you have gone through the pain of losing a loved one, and I will pray for you. But would the girl you loved want you to end your life and quit? Or would she want you to live on and be joyful? And how can you not legally enjoy yourself? If you are talking about drinking and smoking (because you are underaged) then I will say that those things don't help. I used to drink and smoke when I struggled with suicide, and all it did was drown the pain, the pain always came back even stronger. Substances do not heal, the just dampen the problem and let it fester until it becomes even worse. And there is always hope. As a Christian I believe that we were all created for a purpose that God has ordained for us. It's up to us to accept it or not and become children of God. In my depression I turned to God, and about 7-8 months later God gave me my calling for life in serving in ministry. Happiness is substantial, but joy is knowing that God is in control and trusting Him. Believe me, I had tried to give up many times, I tried milking others for pity, I tried alcohol and smoking, I tried suicide... nothing worked and only made things worse. Jesus is the healer of hearts, He heals brokenness and makes it into something joyful and beautiful that will glorify Him. When I cried to God He saved me, and He taught me how to deal with pain and to trust Him. All people can attain this hope, and it's free to all who repent in Jesus Name and ask for it God loves you with all His heart, and He wants to have a relationship with you. The one who created our hearts can heal them, the one who destroys our hearts (satan) wants to prevent us from being healed and born again. There is always One Hope, and that is Jesus Christ who loves you enough to die for you and heal your brokenness.


the reason i cant legaly enjoy myself is because all i enjoy is blowing stuff up(although i do smoke ALOT of pot) but there is still no hope
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tofu330 wrote:


digs wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.


its not that im a bad person or iv done bad things.....i just dont beleive in living


why not? everyone has hard pasts but that is the point when you must hold your head high, trust God, and continue living to the fullest.


there are 3 reasons i dont believe in life 1.the girl i love is dead 2.i cant legally enjoy myself 3.because there is no hope


I am sorry that you have gone through the pain of losing a loved one, and I will pray for you. But would the girl you loved want you to end your life and quit? Or would she want you to live on and be joyful? And how can you not legally enjoy yourself? If you are talking about drinking and smoking (because you are underaged) then I will say that those things don't help. I used to drink and smoke when I struggled with suicide, and all it did was drown the pain, the pain always came back even stronger. Substances do not heal, the just dampen the problem and let it fester until it becomes even worse. And there is always hope. As a Christian I believe that we were all created for a purpose that God has ordained for us. It's up to us to accept it or not and become children of God. In my depression I turned to God, and about 7-8 months later God gave me my calling for life in serving in ministry. Happiness is substantial, but joy is knowing that God is in control and trusting Him. Believe me, I had tried to give up many times, I tried milking others for pity, I tried alcohol and smoking, I tried suicide... nothing worked and only made things worse. Jesus is the healer of hearts, He heals brokenness and makes it into something joyful and beautiful that will glorify Him. When I cried to God He saved me, and He taught me how to deal with pain and to trust Him. All people can attain this hope, and it's free to all who repent in Jesus Name and ask for it God loves you with all His heart, and He wants to have a relationship with you. The one who created our hearts can heal them, the one who destroys our hearts (satan) wants to prevent us from being healed and born again. There is always One Hope, and that is Jesus Christ who loves you enough to die for you and heal your brokenness.


the reason i cant legaly enjoy myself is because all i enjoy is blowing stuff up(although i do smoke ALOT of pot) but there is still no hope


There are other ways to enjoy ourselves, destruction only causes pain to those involved and those around us. There is always hope if we believe and accept the Truth. You are only 15 and have a full life ahead of you, right now life may be excruciatingly painful, but its up to us to choose if we want to go through it alone and allow ourselves to lose the battle. Suicide is never the answer and only hurts those around us and prevents us from living the life God intends for us to live. Does smoking pot and blowing things up really help? Do they really give you joy and correct the problems within? Or do they cause consequences that leave you worse than before?
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digs wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


digs wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.


its not that im a bad person or iv done bad things.....i just dont beleive in living


why not? everyone has hard pasts but that is the point when you must hold your head high, trust God, and continue living to the fullest.


there are 3 reasons i dont believe in life 1.the girl i love is dead 2.i cant legally enjoy myself 3.because there is no hope


I am sorry that you have gone through the pain of losing a loved one, and I will pray for you. But would the girl you loved want you to end your life and quit? Or would she want you to live on and be joyful? And how can you not legally enjoy yourself? If you are talking about drinking and smoking (because you are underaged) then I will say that those things don't help. I used to drink and smoke when I struggled with suicide, and all it did was drown the pain, the pain always came back even stronger. Substances do not heal, the just dampen the problem and let it fester until it becomes even worse. And there is always hope. As a Christian I believe that we were all created for a purpose that God has ordained for us. It's up to us to accept it or not and become children of God. In my depression I turned to God, and about 7-8 months later God gave me my calling for life in serving in ministry. Happiness is substantial, but joy is knowing that God is in control and trusting Him. Believe me, I had tried to give up many times, I tried milking others for pity, I tried alcohol and smoking, I tried suicide... nothing worked and only made things worse. Jesus is the healer of hearts, He heals brokenness and makes it into something joyful and beautiful that will glorify Him. When I cried to God He saved me, and He taught me how to deal with pain and to trust Him. All people can attain this hope, and it's free to all who repent in Jesus Name and ask for it God loves you with all His heart, and He wants to have a relationship with you. The one who created our hearts can heal them, the one who destroys our hearts (satan) wants to prevent us from being healed and born again. There is always One Hope, and that is Jesus Christ who loves you enough to die for you and heal your brokenness.


the reason i cant legaly enjoy myself is because all i enjoy is blowing stuff up(although i do smoke ALOT of pot) but there is still no hope


There are other ways to enjoy ourselves, destruction only causes pain to those involved and those around us. There is always hope if we believe and accept the Truth. You are only 15 and have a full life ahead of you, right now life may be excruciatingly painful, but its up to us to choose if we want to go through it alone and allow ourselves to lose the battle. Suicide is never the answer and only hurts those around us and prevents us from living the life God intends for us to live. Does smoking pot and blowing things up really help? Do they really give you joy and correct the problems within? Or do they cause consequences that leave you worse than before?


nothing seems to interest me.......i dont think there is a god because if there was a god would he/she be cruel enough to kill her and not me?
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tofu330 wrote:


digs wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


digs wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:


ElectricGnomes wrote:


tofu330 wrote:

some ppl are better off dead.......like me.................


I don`t think so. Everyone has something to offer, and no life is a waste.


y are ppl's lives not a waste? humans burn and destroy and steal.........i dont have anything to offer to society i dont understand y some ppl can be so happy..........


it`s all in attitude. if you TRY to be a better person then, you will become one! yeah, there are people out there who do horrible things, but you can still repent. people that are optimistic about their future can be happy. all you need to do is try and you will overcome some important obstacles.


its not that im a bad person or iv done bad things.....i just dont beleive in living


why not? everyone has hard pasts but that is the point when you must hold your head high, trust God, and continue living to the fullest.


there are 3 reasons i dont believe in life 1.the girl i love is dead 2.i cant legally enjoy myself 3.because there is no hope


I am sorry that you have gone through the pain of losing a loved one, and I will pray for you. But would the girl you loved want you to end your life and quit? Or would she want you to live on and be joyful? And how can you not legally enjoy yourself? If you are talking about drinking and smoking (because you are underaged) then I will say that those things don't help. I used to drink and smoke when I struggled with suicide, and all it did was drown the pain, the pain always came back even stronger. Substances do not heal, the just dampen the problem and let it fester until it becomes even worse. And there is always hope. As a Christian I believe that we were all created for a purpose that God has ordained for us. It's up to us to accept it or not and become children of God. In my depression I turned to God, and about 7-8 months later God gave me my calling for life in serving in ministry. Happiness is substantial, but joy is knowing that God is in control and trusting Him. Believe me, I had tried to give up many times, I tried milking others for pity, I tried alcohol and smoking, I tried suicide... nothing worked and only made things worse. Jesus is the healer of hearts, He heals brokenness and makes it into something joyful and beautiful that will glorify Him. When I cried to God He saved me, and He taught me how to deal with pain and to trust Him. All people can attain this hope, and it's free to all who repent in Jesus Name and ask for it God loves you with all His heart, and He wants to have a relationship with you. The one who created our hearts can heal them, the one who destroys our hearts (satan) wants to prevent us from being healed and born again. There is always One Hope, and that is Jesus Christ who loves you enough to die for you and heal your brokenness.


the reason i cant legaly enjoy myself is because all i enjoy is blowing stuff up(although i do smoke ALOT of pot) but there is still no hope


There are other ways to enjoy ourselves, destruction only causes pain to those involved and those around us. There is always hope if we believe and accept the Truth. You are only 15 and have a full life ahead of you, right now life may be excruciatingly painful, but its up to us to choose if we want to go through it alone and allow ourselves to lose the battle. Suicide is never the answer and only hurts those around us and prevents us from living the life God intends for us to live. Does smoking pot and blowing things up really help? Do they really give you joy and correct the problems within? Or do they cause consequences that leave you worse than before?


nothing seems to interest me.......i dont think there is a god because if there was a god would he/she be cruel enough to kill her and not me?


God allows things to happen, but He doesn't temp us to evil. Life is full of pain and trials, but God wants to help us through them and allow those times to refine us. The most polished silver is refined in the hottest fires. The Bible talks about God being a Silver Smith who refines people. My heart had a lot of pain, and God allowed depression to continue so that I can learn from things and allow Him to put the pieces of my heart back together in a joyful and beautiful way. God loves you, and He knew that your girlfriend would die (I know tis sounds harsh), but its up to you to allow the enemy (satan) to control your heart and conceive bitterness, or if you choose God who loves you and will fix your heart and give you hope if you earnestly seek Him and meditate on Him.

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