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Posted 8/23/12
Killing yourself is just the easy way out.
In the end you are literally destroying the person who loves you the most.
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Posted 9/18/12
I think about it pretty often..I just believe that one day I'll find the "secret" or "meaning" or life..if I'm no longer needed then, I'll just end my life because I'll believe in something bigger. I don't want to die of an accident, I wanna leave this world when I'm ready for it, when? I don't know...

I won't kill myself out of depression or sadness. Just from happiness with the best memories possible.
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Posted 9/18/12
Scuicide is a sin and very sad, families who may have experienced this required our endless sympathy and mental help as this scars friends and relatives for life.
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Posted 9/18/12 , edited 9/18/12
Suicide is selfish. There is nothing else to it.

When I was younger, I lived in foster care with no connection to my family, I felt alone. I tried but luckily I never succeeded. Even though I couldn't see those who meant a lot to me, if I had of killed myself, the pain I would have inflicted on those people would be horrific.

Losing a friend or a family member is a heart breaking experience, and for you to put that experience on someone else is as selfish as it comes.

Life is hard, there is never going to be an easy way for most people. You need to stop being a sook, grow a pair, and take life head on. Persevere. The world doesn't care about problems, it's an unforgiving place. But if you're strong enough to suck it up and push on, it will get better.


Also @ ispy12

My mate did that, he left a letter saying that he's done everything he could ever want to do, and that he was ready to move on.

He left his Wife, kids, friends and his family without him because he was a selfish moron who thought that the best was over with.

I think both you and him are idiots.
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Posted 9/18/12

deejayvee wrote:

Suicide is selfish. There is nothing else to it.

When I was younger, I lived in foster care with no connection to my family, I felt alone. I tried but luckily I never succeeded. Even though I couldn't see those who meant a lot to me, if I had of killed myself, the pain I would have inflicted on those people would be horrific.

Losing a friend or a family member is a heart breaking experience, and for you to put that experience on someone else is as selfish as it comes.

Life is hard, there is never going to be an easy way for most people. You need to stop being a sook, grow a pair, and take life head on. Persevere. The world doesn't care about problems, it's an unforgiving place. But if you're strong enough to suck it up and push on, it will get better.


Also @ ispy12

My mate did that, he left a letter saying that he's done everything he could ever want to do, and that he was ready to move on.

He left his Wife, kids, friends and his family without him because he was a selfish moron who thought that the best was over with.

I think both you and him are idiots.


sorry for your loss. I know I might leave people behind, I might never find what I'm looking for and die of old age too. I want more than your friend. It's not being selfish to decide to die, it's being selfish to retain someone in this world...I'm not saying suicide is a good or bad thing...my mind is just open to anything
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Posted 9/18/12
I don't need your sympathy, I'm a big boy.

Is it selfish for people to want to keep you here as this may be your ONLY chance. The only time you get to live on this earth, the only time you'll get the chance to do anything, learn as much as you can to see everything you can.

It isn't just about losing someone close to you, it's about the person as well. You may think one day that you've done everything you ever wanted, but hell in another year you could have changed your mind, instead you'll be dead.

That is stupid, I don't agree with you at all, live till you die naturally, because if god doesn't exist, if life after death doesn't exist, then that's it. You'll have no conscious. Your world will go black and that's it, no thinking no nothing. Fuck that.

My mate isn't just an idiot for giving his family and friends heart ache, he's an idiot because he just gave up his only chance to do anything more.
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Posted 9/18/12

deejayvee wrote:

I don't need your sympathy, I'm a big boy.

Is it selfish for people to want to keep you here as this may be your ONLY chance. The only time you get to live on this earth, the only time you'll get the chance to do anything, learn as much as you can to see everything you can.

It isn't just about losing someone close to you, it's about the person as well. You may think one day that you've done everything you ever wanted, but hell in another year you could have changed your mind, instead you'll be dead.

That is stupid, I don't agree with you at all, live till you die naturally, because if god doesn't exist, if life after death doesn't exist, then that's it. You'll have no conscious. Your world will go black and that's it, no thinking no nothing. Fuck that.

My mate isn't just an idiot for giving his family and friends heart ache, he's an idiot because he just gave up his only chance to do anything more.


I understand that you don't agree and it's fine...I might even change my mind one day who knows, that's how I am. Everyone is different and people have to accept that.
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Posted 9/18/12

ispy12 wrote:


deejayvee wrote:

I don't need your sympathy, I'm a big boy.

Is it selfish for people to want to keep you here as this may be your ONLY chance. The only time you get to live on this earth, the only time you'll get the chance to do anything, learn as much as you can to see everything you can.

It isn't just about losing someone close to you, it's about the person as well. You may think one day that you've done everything you ever wanted, but hell in another year you could have changed your mind, instead you'll be dead.

That is stupid, I don't agree with you at all, live till you die naturally, because if god doesn't exist, if life after death doesn't exist, then that's it. You'll have no conscious. Your world will go black and that's it, no thinking no nothing. Fuck that.

My mate isn't just an idiot for giving his family and friends heart ache, he's an idiot because he just gave up his only chance to do anything more.


I understand that you don't agree and it's fine...I might even change my mind one day who knows, that's how I am. Everyone is different and people have to accept that.


I know everyone is different, but that doesn't make me think what you're saying is any less idiotic. Just so you know.
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Posted 9/18/12
:P
Ok, is all I have to say
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Posted 9/20/12 , edited 9/20/12
I almost did when I was 13. I was being bullied by many for being the new kid in the Christian school (ironic, that). Over that year it added until I was almost to a point I did take my life, but didn't.

Looking back, I'm glad I'm alive but I can understand the hurt others go through.

Anyone who says people are weak and sad for such obviously live very sheltered lives with their mommy and daddy over-watching them.
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Posted 9/22/12

LynnTerra wrote:

I almost did when I was 13. I was being bullied by many for being the new kid in the Christian school (ironic, that). Over that year it added until I was almost to a point I did take my life, but didn't.

Looking back, I'm glad I'm alive but I can understand the hurt others go through.

Anyone who says people are weak and sad for such obviously live very sheltered lives with their mommy and daddy over-watching them.


That's bull, I never grew up with my parents, I have never been sheltered, I to had suicidal tendencies when I was young. And I still think it's weak and cowardly. I'm not hypocritical, I think I was being a coward as well.

Posted 9/22/12
This particular subject sparks alot of feelings, both good and bad...

I did attempt suicide once in my life some 3 years ago I believe, I was discovered in time luckily and brought to the hospital by my mom. All I could think of afterwards was what the hell had i just done to myself, to my family, those who love me... Not only did I attempt the easy way out of my problems, but I hurt the ones I love in the process. I hated myself because of that, but I also realized I had to change my life in order to get back on my feet.

I know all too well what it feels like to be in so much mental pain that the only way out seems to be death, but from going through certain things most people learn that the pain will pass sooner or later, things WILL get better. When you think of suicide it's a sign that your resources for coping with your pain, your problems, is running out. If more and more "weight" is continuesly added to a person's shoulders they will colapse sooner or later. That's why it's so important to not be walking down that road alone and get help.

I understand the pain which leads to suicide for some people, but that doesn't make it right. I've encountered alot of people with my own problems and they all had or was going through suicidal tendencies.

I never attempted suicide since, but I thought about it countless of times. What always stops me from going through with it, is picturing my mom finding me lifeless. Never will I put my loved ones through that kind of pain. Remember that... the utter sadness and despair you will put your loved ones through by killing yourself.

So if you're reading this and you find yourself on that very brink, I can only advise you to seek help, as soon as possible. Distract yourself with things that soothes you. Unload on someone that can bear it and understand what you're going through. I know all too well it's easy to say, but remember that your pain will pass. In time things will change - at one point you have to be the one reaching out for change. No one but YOU is there to reach out for life and hold on to it. Believe me, you will be grateful later for holding on. One day you'll wake up as from a nightmare and see just how full of life and color the world really is.
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Posted 9/24/12 , edited 9/24/12
I think of suicide as the most revered way to get out of reality or accept that you're defeated (bushido code, heheh) and i find people who are able to kill themselves - inflict the most terrible pain to their bodies, very courageous.
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Posted 9/25/12 , edited 9/25/12
It's courageous to run from your problems? I don't think so.

In my opinion. I think you're a deadset idiot to even think that. I mean honestly, if your family or friends did this, what the hell would your first thought be "Oh they were very courageous to do that, I applaud them!" No way.

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Posted 9/26/12
I've considered doing it out of boredom. Even the best things in life I find I can't enjoy and I have to force myself to look like I'm having 'fun'. If this is as good as it gets then...well. I suppose death is like the time before you were born, doesn't seem so bad.

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