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How Do You Handle Confessions
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Posted 4/14/08
I just tell flat out that I don't see him/her I don't see them as the way they do. The chick hates my guts and the guy is still friends with me.
Posted 4/14/08
I'll smile and be gentle in saying I don't feel the same way, but then after that I'll watch everything I do just to make sure I'm not sending mixed signals his way. I'm in that situation now
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Posted 4/14/08
idk... perhaps ignore them... bwahahah! seriously, im not yet ready for a girl-boy relationship.
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Posted 4/14/08
well, usually, I talk to him and find out how he really is or so. and if there's no spark, I'll continue ot be friends with him. it doesn't hurt being friends. unless he's creepy. I told a creepy guy to never ever talk to me ever again. mhm
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Well, I've only been confessed to twice. The first time, it was via letter. I ignored it and he got the idea that I didn't want to go pass friendship. The second time, this guy I liked told me he liked me back and I totally responded by telling him that I didn't like him back.

I have horrible experience with it. -__-;
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Posted 4/14/08 , edited 4/14/08
I don't get confessions by girls I know, for the very reason I know so few girls. No, Doom just gets loads of confessions from complete strangers. I'll say this now, but even if they were super hot, I'd probably still end up rejecting them, I suck with handling confessions from strangers, I have to at least know the person a fair amount before I can even hope to consider it...Though we have already established "I know so few girls"..So...BANG goes that plan. >_>
I'm not a bad person with rejections or anything, a simple "Sorry, but I'm not interested" is enough, though the reaction is far from THAT simple. XP
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Posted 4/14/08
mm pls do not be offended but i do think 13 is too young to be in a relationship well thats my personal opinion... well if i dont like a guy and he confessed i will mostly say 'this is not the right time for me' like i dont need a bf atm or just ignore them but most of the guys never actually confessed they always sort of flirt and act in a way that tells u they like u but i can never push them away cos they dont confess.. it takes a lot to confess so the guy must have either been really brave or extremely desperate hehe..
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Posted 4/14/08 , edited 4/14/08
How do I handle confessions? Well, whenever I hear one, something happens... sort of a nervous tick really... but I do this thing where I grab a stick and start breaking multiple windshields until I figure out what to make of it.

Doesn't matter if the confession's good or bad.
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Posted 4/14/08
use the classic "lets just be friends" line.
but as for me personally.. I've been told that girls liked me but I've never been asked out ever. Its me thats usually doing the asking.
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Posted 4/14/08
hmm first time i was shot down, my older brother an me drank a whole bottle of whiskey. lolz amazing when you're feeling crappy and alcohol doesnt take effect on your depression! first time i shot down a confession heard the girl asked her sis to drink with her! but i ddnt know if they drank a whole bottle of whiskey! lolz!!!
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Posted 4/14/08
tell him that you are only interested in friend relationship.

but if he continues saying, tell him u dun like him.

dun wait too long to tell him that ur not interested.. the longer u take, the more pain u can do to his heart.

im a guy.. so i understand the pain.. i hope the girl i like, would tell me wat she feel.. but she didnt yet..
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Posted 4/14/08
I remember my friend saying "Sorry but I don't have time for this or even dating. I've already got an online wife and kids! I'm committed!"

That got us all laughing down our ass! that's like the lamest excuse somebody could ever come up with!
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Posted 4/14/08 , edited 4/14/08
I'll probably just get really awkward if I don't like them back and say that I don't feel the same way and that we should still be friends if you'd like. Then see what happens.. Of course if I like them I'll say I like them back. Not too complicated. Also, rejecting someone over a text message is horrible. The only way I would or would want someone to reject me is in person.. face to face. It's the best way. Then you can each see really how the other feels.
Edit: I posted mine and it didn't show up. It said I posted but it wasn't there. So I posted again and both comments were there. Then I deleted one, exited and the other disappeared. And it happened again. I'm so confused.. Now finally this one stays here.
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Posted 4/14/08
i tell them i'm involved with someone else/i just got out of a relationship and i'm not ready/i'm not really into commitment and therefore don't want to settle down.

one of the three

one guy thinks i've had a bf for the 1 and a half years i've known him LOL and he's still waiting for the day when we finally break up... well it ain't gonna happen! i really can't be honest about this stuff it's too hard.
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Posted 4/14/08
all you can do is apologize but still show hope for friendship xP
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