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If you had a fight w/ your friends would you call them right after the fight and say sorry?
Posted 8/19/07
I wouldn't have a fight with my friends in the first place. If they're really friends then it would never get to fighting.
Posted 8/19/07
I don't say sorry. I don't give in easily.. i wait for them to say sorry to me =]
Posted 8/19/07
What kind of fight are you referring to? A physical one or a verbal one?

I've never had physical fights with my friends. Sometimes we disagree on some things and when some are us are in a bad mood we tend to snap at each other but we all know each other well enough to not take it personally.
In the most serious cases where if the fight was really bad then it's a case of day 1 - keep out of each other's way then day 2 - everything's fine again.

For me though, because I'm really stubborn I probably wouldn't willingly phone them up and apologise, unless it was really my fault that the fight happened in the first...although even then I'm pretty hesitant about it. ^^
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depends what the fight was bout... and whos fault it was... and who im fighting with.... most of the time... i couldnt care less bout the person im fighting with.... and i probably will avoid and ignore them till they say sorry 2 me first...then ill say sorry too^_^
Posted 8/19/07
Depends. First, I think everything over a few times. It takes two good friends to have a good fight and both usually do something to piss eachother off. Most of the time, I like to end the conflict first and will apologize (though, to be honest, I don't consider it resolved then. I only do it so things won't be awkward, because my friends and I all hang out with the same group of people) but if it's a big deal to me and I want to get my point across, I just don't. The other friend almost always offers to sit down and talk it out.

Btw..this is what you'd call an arguement. Fight just seems easier to say. 0.o I almost never get in actual "fights" with my friends.
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No, I'de find it embarrasing to phone right after a fight and make up right away, it makes you sound needy or like a loner. I would let it cool down for about 2-3 months and then go to his house and we would act as if nothing happened and never speak about it, oh well.
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Posted 8/19/07
hell no. he should just piss off. though if it was a serious fight, most likely if it came to physical violence, i wouldn't have the chance to say sorry anyways, there would be a restraining order
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Posted 8/19/07
i guess i wouldn't call at all. i'll just wait till we cool off and then eventually we'd start hanging out with each other like nothing happened. i did that alot as a child anyway. there's no apology and no loss of pride
Posted 8/19/07
no i wouldnt. they deserved what they got and i have no regrets. they can burn in hell for all i care. until theyre ready to apologize to me for provoking me, i feel nothing but contempt for them and will show only open hostility towards them.
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Posted 8/19/07

skygod333 wrote:

no i wouldnt. they deserved what they got and i have no regrets. they can burn in hell for all i care. until theyre ready to apologize to me for provoking me, i feel nothing but contempt for them and will show only open hostility towards them.

WOW!!! what happens if it was all ur fault that the fight started?

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Posted 8/19/07
depends on what the fight was about
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Posted 8/19/07

skygod333 wrote:

no i wouldnt. they deserved what they got and i have no regrets. they can burn in hell for all i care. until theyre ready to apologize to me for provoking me, i feel nothing but contempt for them and will show only open hostility towards them.


i agree to an extent.. if they started it and you fought them, yes they got what they deserved. so wouldnt that make it equal? i wouldnt apologise first but if they apologised to me i would.
Posted 8/19/07

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skygod333 wrote:

no i wouldnt. they deserved what they got and i have no regrets. they can burn in hell for all i care. until theyre ready to apologize to me for provoking me, i feel nothing but contempt for them and will show only open hostility towards them.

WOW!!! what happens if it was all ur fault that the fight started?



i dont start them but i sure as Hell finish them. i wont hit someone unprovoked.
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Posted 8/19/07
if i felt that i was in the wrong, then yes, i would call and apologise. IF, however, they were the ones to start it up, either by hitting me or doing something hurtful emotionally *glares at unnamed person* then i would never talk to them again unless they apologised first. and even then, i wouldn't trust them for a year or so afterwards...
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Posted 8/19/07
umm...probably yeah. i would.
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