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Posted 3/11/08 , edited 3/13/08
i dont know if you believe in karma but there is a saying that if you done something good, good things will bestow upon u...if you do something bad, something similar to those bad things will come to you.

So.. if you are single and there is a girl/guy confess to you... and you do know her or him just not sure of your feeling toward that girl/guy, or even u dont love her/him, would you give her a chance to go out with u or would u reject her/him right away?
Base on the sentence above and answer the question after u give urself a serious thought.
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Posted 3/11/08
hmm, let's see. If a guy confess to me i will maybe give him a chance. After going out with him for a while, if i still do not have any feelings for him then i will break up with him as there is no point in staying as his girlfriend.

But if u got some one u like, it better not to go out with that person that has confessed to you as your heart may not have space for that person as your heart is now filled with the person you like.

haha, someone chasing you it's?? haha, it's look like it :P

yap, so i have answer your question. Hope this answer is useful for you >_<

By the way, if u do something good, nt all the time sometime good will happen to u

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Posted 3/11/08
Hey, i forgot to say something above. It hard to break up with somebody as you may feel guilty so it better that u do not go out with the person that have confessed to you if u do not one to hurt that person or u are someone who is very emotion.

U should reject him/her straight away as you will not hurt her as much as u reject her after u try going out with her

That all i can say, signing off again

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Posted 3/11/08
but dont u think giving up before even trying is kinda sad for the other party? as u may know that opportunities dont come forever and u may never find another..... as u are giving up without even trying..... THAT maybe the best partner u ever find. u may end up regretting... there is a saying something like "The fish u throw back into the sea turns out to be a Mermaid"
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Posted 3/11/08
if someone i knew asked me out and i was unsure if i felt the same way, i'd probably think long and hard about whether or not i can see a future with us together... if not, then i probably would reject, but more for their sake... i wouldn't want them to wait for me... however, if my feelings somehow change later on, then i'd be the one to ask them and see if they still feel the same way...
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Posted 3/11/08
i forgot to add something... i know that what i said is probably a little mean, but i really don't think that i'm the best person to fall in love with, at least not as i am now...
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Posted 3/12/08
actually that did happen to me once.
theres this boy that rides in my bus..and in the same P.E. period as me. and one day in the bus...two other guys , that i know, said he likes me and he asked if i want to go out with him....and i didnt really give it though but i said no.
i had no interest toward him...and aboslute no interest in going out...lol..but i kinda feel sorry for him. i wonder if it's a good or bad karma?
oh well.....i dont think i got any bad karma happen to me yet.......
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Posted 3/13/08
beware wixie .... someone u ask out with say no to u .. :-D so i guess ... u shouldnt ask at all just to prevent that happen hhaha .. just let the guy ask u out is good enough ..since girls dont usually ask the guy anyway ..
but think of this.... put urself in that guy's shoes.... if u ask someone and he say no right away.... dont u think that is sad and u deserve a chance? or are u gonna think "aah wth, i can go find other guys" ..:-D
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Hey, if u all don't really know whether u all like that person then why don't u all just ask the person whether they want to try going out with you first.

And that you will give them the final answer about your feelings towards them after you all have go out with that person for a week or so.

So that the person would not feel sad as they were not immediately rejected or cheated as u all have already warn them that u may not like them in the end.

so what do u all think of this???

haha, is this better???


JY HERE!!!
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Posted 3/16/08
wht glimmaiden said is a gd idea but still that person that likes u might put his/her hopes up and at the end when u say ure rejected it will still hurt them.

if a guy actaully confesses 2 me ill try 2 go out and get 2 know him better there might be a posibility that ill fall in love with him. its not nice 2 reject someone in the first sec they confessed 2 u. and besides u want loose anything if u ended up going out with that person. if u ended up not likin that person then its best u reject before u continue playing games with the person and make him/her believe that u truly love them which of course is a lie and ull end up breakin their heart even more.

life is not easy everybody gets rejected and everybody gets hurt its the way we live and if we dont get hurt once in a while well never learn. and as for karama its really not true. nowdays the nice ppl r the ones that end up gettin bad things. it all depends on luck.
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Posted 3/19/08
well....if someone confess 2 me...then i got 2 think very hard about it...coz i got 2 know my feeling towards tat person...but if i got already got someone in my mind...then probably better reject the person...after all..we can still be fwen!!!and fwen last longer....^^
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oh...and ryuugan...wat u said about the karma...yeah...i believe it..i mean..if u did something bad 2 someone...u will get punishment 4 it...just don't know when....and if u did somethig good..then u will be bless with gud luck...^^
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Posted 3/24/08
if i hav someone in mind i would reject right away but if i hav some feelings for the person i would try to go out with her n get to noe her better althought tis would NV happen to me lolx
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hey.. i've experienced that.. there was this guy, he was our neighbor since i was in grade2 but then we transfered house during my 4th yr in high school, when i was in 2nd yr he was my 1st suitor(and the last..as of the moment). he courted me til 3rd yr.. you know i rejected him.. not right away though.. i thought, having a little xperience of being courted myt help me sumday.. but im not the type who thinks about relationship.. i think nothing else but anime anime anime.. and at that time too, i had a crush( he is the closest guy to me in my class.. i can even say were best frnds.. and we still are today) so i rejected him. he stopped for a short while but then started courting me again in 3rd yr but this time, i rejected him right away.. i know why he was courting so i wasnt bothered if i hurt his feelings(haha.. cold hearted am i..?).. during that time, he was depressed bec the girl he likes(one of his classmates) hates him.. and also, i reminded him that when we were young he promised not to court me... and i promised (when his mother teased us about us ending up w/ one another) that i'd never be in a relationship w/ him.. so that's it.. it ended there.. heheh.. he knew hu my crush was and i knew hus the girl he lyks... its funny to hav remembered that.. i was so nervous & frightened wen i became aware that he was actually courting me.. i even remember not going out of the house so that i wouldnt bump into him anytime.. hahaha.. its also funny ,for me, because he told me that i was so into anime-since the time he knew me until now. it was him hu made me realize how into anime i was.. he told me that his rival is not my crush but is actually anime, and that he felt bad becoz he did not lose to a person but to anime... hahahaha...

hahah.. long talk.. my answer wud be.. to think things first.. i'd measure things and look into this persons background.. he myt be a playboy/playgirl and you just didnt know...(but maybe.. 4 sum1 lyk me.. i wouldnt think twice on rejecting him.. but i make xur he understands why)
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