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Unrealistic views of how a boyfriend/girlfriend should act.
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Nobodies perfect its stupid to think they are, besides if a girl asked me to ride in on shineing armor I'd either be very scared and startt looking for whips and chains around her place or I'd do it...if I REALLY liked her.
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Everybody has expectations about everybody else, specially boyfriends/girlfriends, and when other people don't live up to your expectations, you feel frustrated. So I guess the trick is to have as little expectation as possible, but to have no expectations at all is practically impossible. It happens even unconsciously at the back of your head and when you dont intend to expect. And even minimizing expectations is easier said than done.

Anyway, as for me, I guess that she (referring to girlfriends in general and not to anyone in particular) would be completely understanding, patient and sympathetic to all my (crazy) behaviors. But I guess that would be unrealistic all right because every woman needs (a lot of) time when she becomes the center of the universe too.
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My only answer to that is: what the hell is perfect anyways? I mean, if you go into a relationship with an ideal of what they should be, you'll never know how good they really are, you'll just be stuck in your standards.
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Posted 4/1/08
Perfection, complete understanding of each others?

Well, unless we tear down the walls around our hearts that's never going to happen.
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26 / M / In the hellhole c...
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If everyone was perfect, relationships wouldnt be fun anymore XD
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27 / M / The World That Wa...
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Lol, god no...If my girlfriend acted like half the girls in romance anime I'd be basically babysitting her.

Watching anime though left me requiring certain aspects from a girlfriend, nothing too dire, and nothing which can be considered demanding...If anything, I have a RIGHT to expect these sorts of things.

A girl whose virgin, sweet/kind, someone who can sympathise with my hyperactive behaviour, but scorn me when i cross the line. One who'll not only be my girlfriend, but my friend, so we'll hopefully have a chance of being together till death without having to do anything serious like divorce (That's like my worst fear and everything)
Posted 4/1/08
aiii perfetion lies inside. yea they may not look so beautiful/handsome on the outside but hey, wera re going to grow old one day, tits are gonna sag, some things on men are going to sag, no more sex drive. in the end it's what's on the inside that drives the love train.

Perfection can only be achieved when two are one.
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Yeah. I expect my "future" boyfriend to be sweet, honest, stubborn, protective, and blablabla. But honestly, is there really a guy with all that kind of features? o.o
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27 / M / ohio
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Posted 4/1/08
everyone has high hopes for their eventual mates...
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uhhh, haha. i secretly wished that my boyfriend would give me a piggy-back ride around town and we can wear couples clothing and have a couples ring.. and he would buy me like thousands of roses.......


oooh~ and those amazingly cheesy lines T___T i want i want.
i've been told that my boyfriend looks like a korean actor though. so.. i'm content with that. =)
he just needs to start acting like one = =;
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Why would I hope for a perfect partner when I'm imperfect myself? Thats just idiotic.
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24 / M / Los Angeles
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Posted 4/1/08
I think often girls think of some views on how a boyfriend should act with that corny ass chainmail shit
and they tend to forget their roles
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25 / F / Devon
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Posted 4/1/08
i put up with my scary genius ex boyfriend's pianoisms and such like, i didnt mind that at all. those kind of tings shouldnt matter in a relationsip.

what I couldnt stand is being ignored and unapreciated
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