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how does one become charismatic
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Posted 3/14/08
i mean...i wanna be charasimatic, not in an "isolated sage" kind of way either

and i need all sorts of advice...which do not include the ONLY phrase "time..age", cmon, people my age or younger are allready charismatic to some.

and i mean in the way that things come easily to you like *snap*..but not as some kind of fift from heaven...more like something you aquire with learning or something.
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Just try to talk to everyone even people you dont know. Unfortunately it takes TIME and sometimes comes with AGE so dont bitch about it if people say it.
Posted 3/14/08
yeah pretty much what sypris said.
Here's a tip- be the type of person you would like to befriend or the
person you admire.
Charisma takes time but I'm sure you'll get there.
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Posted 3/14/08

sypris wrote:

Just try to talk to everyone even people you dont know. Unfortunately it takes TIME and sometimes comes with AGE so dont bitch about it if people say it.


i said, the only phrase, its not like i'm bitching about it, chill ^_^

so the first step's talking to everyone...hrmm... do you have experiance with all the ways?, i'm sure even if it takes time, it's explainable.
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Posted 3/14/08
it comes naturally to me. u just got to learn not to care and express urself.
how r u isolated? if there's people, u should be socializing. that's all to it.
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Posted 3/14/08
agreed with the 2 people up there ^o^ ....... and yes >.> im just invading this forum thread~ cause T_T i dunnno~ dw youll have the charismatic aura sooooon o.o rmr to take a bath everyday ^.^
Posted 3/14/08
It's been decided from the day you were born. It's immutable.
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Eudd wrote:

It's been decided from the day you were born. It's immutable.


meh, i wouldn't ask if it was like that, its not >_>, one of my friends became suddenly charismatic in two months after being taught in a bundeled up version of the experience his freind had, but even as he teaches me, i still wanted to know from others =_=

and for the guy who invaded the thread.........don;t be self concious about it maaaan, it's okay
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Posted 3/14/08
well, just joke and bullshit a lot (without hurting others of cos).. and give each person special attention.. even if it's a wink, a smile, or an exaggerated flattery.. and actually i think charisma doesn't necessarily come with looks.. and personality is an acquired skill to a large extent..

for me, i just insert the right joke at the right time.. heh..
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Posted 3/14/08
im not ToT im just..well >>; bored~ as u can see~
Posted 3/14/08

Axel7 wrote:


Eudd wrote:

It's been decided from the day you were born. It's immutable.


meh, i wouldn't ask if it was like that, its not >_>, one of my friends became suddenly charismatic in two months after being taught in a bundeled up version of the experience his freind had, but even as he teaches me, i still wanted to know from others =_=

and for the guy who invaded the thread.........don;t be self concious about it maaaan, it's okay


Actually, if you think about it, charisma has a lot to do with your looks, personality, demeanor, voice, figure, and articulation. Although it's not 100% immutable, it's still pretty hard to change your innate self. I might sound like a cocky brat, but I'm pretty confident in my own charisma. Good luck to you man.

Posted 3/14/08
you need to relax, have good body language and good eye contact, view everyone as equals but most of all you must listen!
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Posted 3/14/08
I didn't think it was possible to become charismatic. I thought you either were or you weren't and that was where it ended.
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Posted 3/14/08
Depends how well you roll and the amount of points you put in that category. Personally, I think strength and dexterity are more important in the long run.

PS: You are extrordinarily good looking, so play it up and grow some self confidence. That's where charisma comes from!
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Charisma is overrated
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