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Rape- can it be consensual?
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chocoqueeno wrote:

Hey in like yaoi/yuri people start getting raped start liking it and enjoying it
it's really hot but can it really happen
i dont want to try it out but i mean can someone tell me what they believe


I think you're thinking about two different things here.
Rape is not to be pleasured with. It's when the other does not agree, you don't feel any pleasure there dude.

Yaoi and yuri, that's totally different. They have some sort of relationship so that's why later on they can just let it slide by.
Get it?
Anyone understand what I'm saying? Think you can help explain this a bit more clearer to this guy?
(I'm not trying to start anything up here)
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Keep in mind u are watching an animation, doesn't mean everything that happens means it's true or real. It's just for ur entertainment.
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"you can't rape the willing"
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notruthinaworldoflies wrote:

"you can't rape the willing"


You dont know me very well.


Jokes aside. Rape is the Non-consensual sex. They may enjoy it half way through but at the beginning they didnt want it.
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chocoqueeno wrote:

Hey in like yaoi/yuri people start getting raped start liking it and enjoying it
it's really hot but can it really happen
i dont want to try it out but i mean can someone tell me what they believe


That would make it worse because you know that you were violated and yet you cannot control yourself.
Maybe the question should be "Is it possible to feel good when raped?" or "Is it right to feel good when you are raped?"

It was never consensual, it will never be no matter what.
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Lamak wrote:

No, it can't be. Sure you he/she may be enjoying, but they may not want it. It's like if you have a sandwich stuffed in your mouth. You may not want it, but it is a good sandwich.


That is the best analogy ever.
Kudos to you.
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O_oStefferzO-o wrote:
The point is rape can't be consensual...if it was then it wouldn't be rape..


Exactly.


U guys read my mind
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chocoqueeno wrote:

Hey in like yaoi/yuri people start getting raped start liking it and enjoying it
it's really hot but can it really happen
i dont want to try it out but i mean can someone tell me what they believe


That would make it worse because you know that you were violated and yet you cannot control yourself.
Maybe the question should be "Is it possible to feel good when raped?" or "Is it right to feel good when you are raped?"

It was never consensual, it will never be no matter what.


it is possible for a woman to feel good during rape, even if she is unwilling
from wikipedia: A woman's physiological responses to sexual contact are involuntary and in no way imply consent. A woman can become aroused, lubricate, and even orgasm against her will during a rape. Furthermore, even if orgasm during rape is intensely physically pleasurable for the victim, it can lead to great stress afterwards if the victim comes to associate physical pleasure with the trauma of rape

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animeprincess wrote:


nta2005 wrote:


chocoqueeno wrote:

Hey in like yaoi/yuri people start getting raped start liking it and enjoying it
it's really hot but can it really happen
i dont want to try it out but i mean can someone tell me what they believe


That would make it worse because you know that you were violated and yet you cannot control yourself.
Maybe the question should be "Is it possible to feel good when raped?" or "Is it right to feel good when you are raped?"

It was never consensual, it will never be no matter what.


it is possible for a woman to feel good during rape, even if she is unwilling
from wikipedia: A woman's physiological responses to sexual contact are involuntary and in no way imply consent. A woman can become aroused, lubricate, and even orgasm against her will during a rape. Furthermore, even if orgasm during rape is intensely physically pleasurable for the victim, it can lead to great stress afterwards if the victim comes to associate physical pleasure with the trauma of rape



thanks for the answers. I'd always thought that you can only reach orgasm if you are mentally into it.
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nta2005 wrote:


animeprincess wrote:


nta2005 wrote:


chocoqueeno wrote:

Hey in like yaoi/yuri people start getting raped start liking it and enjoying it
it's really hot but can it really happen
i dont want to try it out but i mean can someone tell me what they believe


That would make it worse because you know that you were violated and yet you cannot control yourself.
Maybe the question should be "Is it possible to feel good when raped?" or "Is it right to feel good when you are raped?"

It was never consensual, it will never be no matter what.


it is possible for a woman to feel good during rape, even if she is unwilling
from wikipedia: A woman's physiological responses to sexual contact are involuntary and in no way imply consent. A woman can become aroused, lubricate, and even orgasm against her will during a rape. Furthermore, even if orgasm during rape is intensely physically pleasurable for the victim, it can lead to great stress afterwards if the victim comes to associate physical pleasure with the trauma of rape



thanks for the answers. I'd always thought that you can only reach orgasm if you are mentally into it.

that is not the case, you can be completely mentally against it, and yet your body (mostly sex organs) still can feel pleasure, and you know what i also found out, some women actually fantasize about being raped, but don't want the event to actually occur unless in some cases, through role playing

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animeprincess wrote:
that is not the case, you can be completely mentally against it, and yet your body (mostly sex organs) still can feel pleasure, and you know what i also found out, some women actually fantasize about being raped, but don't want the event to actually occur unless in some cases, through role playing


Some people like it rough but it's still consensual so mentally they are into it.

I guess the analogy of feeling physical pleasure while being rape is similar to someone tickling you, you don't want to be ticklish but you just are.
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nta2005 wrote:


animeprincess wrote:
that is not the case, you can be completely mentally against it, and yet your body (mostly sex organs) still can feel pleasure, and you know what i also found out, some women actually fantasize about being raped, but don't want the event to actually occur unless in some cases, through role playing


Some people like it rough but it's still consensual so mentally they are into it.

I guess the analogy of feeling physical pleasure while being rape is similar to someone tickling you, you don't want to be ticklish but you just are.

one of the reasons that they fantasize may be because they don't have to deal with the trauma and shame of an actual event
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Lamak wrote:

No, it can't be. Sure you he/she may be enjoying, but they may not want it. It's like if you have a sandwich stuffed in your mouth. You may not want it, but it is a good sandwich.


That is such a good analogy xD


animeprincess wrote:

one of the reasons that they fantasize may be because they don't have to deal with the trauma and shame of an actual event


True, there are lots of people who (secretly) find the idea of simulated rape exciting, just like those who like role-playing teacher and student, nurse and patient, boss and client etc etc -- in the real world they might feel shame and be looked down upon for having those fantasies, so pretending is the the next best thing ^^;
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What I have found bizarre is women that has fallen in love with and had relationship with the rapist. If theycan sexually enjoy it as well I guess it goes: sexual violation - enjoyment - relationship. Just goes to show: you don't want to think about how mad the world is. Of course it is very rare, so it's not like it's a way for a man to get into a stable realtionship, lest you count those in prison.
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No, unless you're into BDSM or something.
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