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Your life or your friend?
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24 / M / somewhere in the...
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well,if it's a girl who wants me to change,then I'll change!
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my life of course, hahaha
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Me. Easily.

Alot of people make good points in this thread, its like You're stuck with you at the end of the day. If you're not being real, you've always got that gut feeling. You're always paranoid you'll never amount, or they'll find out thats not really you. Its never ending. Its good to have someone you can always be completly honest with, if you change for somebody, you're not being honest. And that's not very much of a friendship is it? Even if you have flaws, just like its somebody out there for everyone; its a friend out there for everyone too lol one or 100 it doesn't matter. I've learned to deal with my best friends flaws, as they have learned to deal with mine.

In a nutshell, if you're trying to change for somebody else, it won't work. But if you do it for yourself , you'll find it less difficult and much more rewarding.
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26 / F / Irreplaceable you...
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Posted 9/10/07
i agreed with all the previous post written a true friend should accept for who you are.
friends or friendship is not perfect,much like we are not perfect.But,a true friend will point out your weaknesses and tell you your strengthness as well.

1. It is not for the sake of your friend but is for your own sake.
2. Your friend wants to help.Friend help you to improve yourself,make you to become a better person.If you say you don't need to change for anybody because you are happy and satisfied with what and who you are right now.Then,go ahead.But do remember,you change for yourself and not others.
3. I don't understand the question.Sorry,i couldn't answer it.
Posted 9/10/07
nah my friends doesnt want to me change so direct if I changed I'am a different person then.
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28 / F / I'm in my happy p...
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Yes i would change and im sure that my friend just want the best for me, but there is if she really is a friend she would accept me as i am. If the time comes that i can't resist smoking for example she should just remind me to stop it- not avoid me and stuff. For a person to change some people need their friends. Friends dont leave friends hanging alone- by themselves.
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22 / F / in shou's bed
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Posted 9/10/07
If my friend told me to do something that would make me better, I might do it. If she/he want's me to do something for their own selfish reason, they wouldn't really be my friend and I wouoldn't listen to them.
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24 / M / cleveland ohio
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Posted 9/10/07
1.i wouldnt find my self in that position be cause if i did any of that stuff my dad would see to it that i didnt exsist any more yeah so i would even consider it

2.no, i wouldnt change my life like that for anyone besides it isnt any of there d@#$ buisness any way

3.if it was the best thing to do at the time i guess i would take there advice but if it wouldnt do me any good then no i wouldnt
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Hmmm...? I don't have friends, and I'm not a complete moron so I don't do drugs or anything... Well, if they're saying those things to look good then I'd tell them to screw themselves. If, however, I feel they are really trying to do their best for me I'd understand and try my best to return their concern.
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24 / M / in your soul
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Posted 9/10/07
Hm, this is difficult, becuase sometimes there are thigns you really should change.....like maybe laziness, or fear of heights or somethign like that

But changin your peronality is a big no no. Tell them

"I'f you like my good points you'll have to live with the bad ones, otherwise leave."
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30 / F / NYC, NY
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Posted 9/10/07
idk its kind of hard, but I'd say mine because its all about my future anyway
Posted 9/10/07
i do what i want when i please and if some asshole doesnt like it, rot in hell. besides, i wouldnt do something as stupid as drugs, chewing, smoking, underage drinking etc...
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24 / M / NY
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Posted 9/10/07
If your friend asks you to change a non threatning habit, then they can't really be your friend can they? I have a bunch of dorky friends, then I have some cooler ones.
Nobody asks me to change, because they realize that nobody can be perfect.
However if it is life threatning, then by all means change that habit. It's for the best after all.
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22 / F / A place far far away
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Posted 9/10/07
NO i wouldn't change myself if my friends don't like me the way i am then there not my friends because they wouldn't want me to change ^_^
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24 / F / Virginia
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Posted 9/10/07
okay...well it kinda depends...
but hey! i wont change for anyone just to be accepted or anything and if a friend wont accept me for who i am..well then ok, bai-bai. have a good life bitch.
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