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Your life or your friend?
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26 / M / IN a Dance Studio...
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Posted 10/27/07
Ok firstly... If Ur friend really did ask you to do such a thing..That person wouldn't be a true friend...
Friends should respect who u are and not ask u to change for their sake...
And most importantly being urself is proof that ur alive and that should be enough..
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25 / M / U.S.
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Posted 10/28/07
My life is waayyy important that my friends;
cuz if i try to save their life, who knows if they'll do the same =p
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25 / F / Milky Way
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Posted 12/18/07
life first..(sry to say tht..they wouldnt do the same for us)
true friends accept who u r...i wouldnt change for a friend because i dun live for friends...
unless it's for my own good..then i'll consider it..
Posted 12/18/07
thats quite easy......
If your friend ask you to change...that means he/she is not truly your friend...
coz a friend always accepts who you are...
or your friend has a crush on you...
Posted 12/18/07
I would only give myself to my true best friend... She is my life!
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30 / F / UAE-- proud to be
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Posted 12/18/07
hey

if what am doing is wrong.. then i will shut up and do what i told

but if she dont like what am doing and am right then whatever she want i dont care

and i am what i am,, i'll do what i want

if u dont like it

i dont give a shi*

i will not change myself for stupid request
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22 / F / Bubble Teashop ;o
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Posted 12/18/07
shouldnt a friend like you the way you already are?
and friends are allowed to have their own opinion
even if one doesnt agree with the other in something wouldnt they still be friends?
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Posted 12/18/07
well.. it depends if you will choose your lyf or your frend.. if i choose my lyf it will be good but my frends are important to me.. that's why its hard or rather complicated to choose between both.. but lyf is important also and we have just only one lyf to choose right from the wrong..
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24 / M / Sleepy Land
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Posted 12/18/07
Depends, normally though,I'll do for the sake of myself. I don't change my life for friends too, unless they talk saint~
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28 / F / The Netherlands
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Posted 12/18/07
You should never change yourself for anybody. Not for friends, not for family, not for a lover, etc. You should change if you think you need to change. And that is the best advice I can give. I can not tell you what to do ne!
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Posted 12/24/07
sometimes suggestions by other people, especially if it is from people who are truely your friends are important to consider, especially if what they are telling you is stuff that is good. So in that case a closer examination of yourself is needed, followed by change, you can also consider that by changing you'll make your friends happier, and if you like your friends then you should do it
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24 / F / Intelligence Route
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Posted 12/24/07

betsumi wrote:

Oi okie so~ just wondering since an issue is coming up for me~ putting it into terms~

If your friend said i wont speak to you or talk to you if you do this~ and the thing your friend pointed out to you was not life threatening (for example it wasn't drug related//sex related or anything to do about death//smoking aka nothing horrible)

1) Would you do it for the sake of your friend? or would you make your own choice~?

2) My friend told me to change or she will never speak to me again~ change the way i don't speak up or eat much and sleep too much~ in this case would you change~?

3) Changing your life to make you a better person by avoiding everyone for a couple of months but your friend tells you that~ no support from her/him if you break down in that time you where away~ your friend tells you are running away from everyone~ but this case is to better yourself~ what would you do

not naming names or anything but yeah~ i was wondering what you would do?


Ano,... I don't really need friend in my life. I use to be my ownself and my own world. If I use to have friends , I will only choose the sincere as my real friend.

Asking your questions,
1. I actually don't do any craps my friend said. If it's really essent, I will change. But if it's just something trivial, I won't frankly.

2. In that case, I will probably change if it's really a matter to me. If she spoke to me like that " I won't talk to ya " I will just answer this. " Do I really have time to talk to ya? "

3. Changing my life is my own path. I won't ever listen to my friends's words unless they are really useful. If you are dependable, you really need a friend's support.

Anyway, someone compels you?
Don't bother that. Just take importance. Leave the craps away.
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25 / F / Peru :)
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Posted 12/25/07
a friend totally
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Posted 12/25/07
friends are fake.
so of course my life
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24 / F / Shiz University
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Posted 12/25/07
friends are just people, people are just things that can be replaced. So my life durr
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