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why is looks so important always when making relationship?
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I dont know. I guess people are shallow as hell these days.
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tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:

LOL. you really like making threads regarding relationship eh? well. 1st impression counts. though i think looks aint as important as character.

whats so bad about it?^^.......
i do them because i really am not good making other threads^^
but why everyonme justignores me?......when i help them in bad situations........
i try to be noice but everyone ignores me and says "whatever","you look ugly go home etc.".........


and to you my little emo friend here. They might be ignoring you cause you dint show how keen you are. Start some casual conversations about little things and start friendships from there. :)

.....i have been doing so this far but when tjhey get know me better they arew affraid of my 3 personality mind^^


explain. :D


okay i will.......one loves everything in this world and wants to protect it and everyone inside it,second wants to destroy everything and make everything know the pain of losing something great importance or someone important person because of others great luck etc. and third just wants to do work and work until i pass out^^

edit:but i would give my life if i could protect even litte innocent child from the worlds destruction^^
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Posted 3/17/08

narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:

LOL. you really like making threads regarding relationship eh? well. 1st impression counts. though i think looks aint as important as character.

whats so bad about it?^^.......
i do them because i really am not good making other threads^^
but why everyonme justignores me?......when i help them in bad situations........
i try to be noice but everyone ignores me and says "whatever","you look ugly go home etc.".........


and to you my little emo friend here. They might be ignoring you cause you dint show how keen you are. Start some casual conversations about little things and start friendships from there. :)

.....i have been doing so this far but when tjhey get know me better they arew affraid of my 3 personality mind^^


explain. :D


okay i will.......one loves everything in this world and wants to protect it and everyone inside it,second wants to destroy everything and make everything know the pain of losing something great importance or someone important person because of others great luck etc. and third just wants to do work and work until i pass out^^


lol. That aint scary. =-= i bet people would be paying to be your friend. lol.

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Posted 3/17/08

tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:

LOL. you really like making threads regarding relationship eh? well. 1st impression counts. though i think looks aint as important as character.

whats so bad about it?^^.......
i do them because i really am not good making other threads^^
but why everyonme justignores me?......when i help them in bad situations........
i try to be noice but everyone ignores me and says "whatever","you look ugly go home etc.".........


and to you my little emo friend here. They might be ignoring you cause you dint show how keen you are. Start some casual conversations about little things and start friendships from there. :)

.....i have been doing so this far but when tjhey get know me better they arew affraid of my 3 personality mind^^


explain. :D


okay i will.......one loves everything in this world and wants to protect it and everyone inside it,second wants to destroy everything and make everything know the pain of losing something great importance or someone important person because of others great luck etc. and third just wants to do work and work until i pass out^^


lol. That aint scary. =-= i bet people would be paying to be your friend. lol.


i guess no one would want to do that i am just another miserable boy oin this earth^^
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Posted 3/17/08

narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:

LOL. you really like making threads regarding relationship eh? well. 1st impression counts. though i think looks aint as important as character.

whats so bad about it?^^.......
i do them because i really am not good making other threads^^
but why everyonme justignores me?......when i help them in bad situations........
i try to be noice but everyone ignores me and says "whatever","you look ugly go home etc.".........


and to you my little emo friend here. They might be ignoring you cause you dint show how keen you are. Start some casual conversations about little things and start friendships from there. :)

.....i have been doing so this far but when tjhey get know me better they arew affraid of my 3 personality mind^^


explain. :D


okay i will.......one loves everything in this world and wants to protect it and everyone inside it,second wants to destroy everything and make everything know the pain of losing something great importance or someone important person because of others great luck etc. and third just wants to do work and work until i pass out^^


lol. That aint scary. =-= i bet people would be paying to be your friend. lol.


i guess no one would want to do that i am just another miserable boy oin this earth^^


tsk tsk. if ure gonna continue thinking in this way.. u will be. Cheer up! confidence is the key. lol.
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Posted 3/17/08

tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


tngrqb123 wrote:

LOL. you really like making threads regarding relationship eh? well. 1st impression counts. though i think looks aint as important as character.

whats so bad about it?^^.......
i do them because i really am not good making other threads^^
but why everyonme justignores me?......when i help them in bad situations........
i try to be noice but everyone ignores me and says "whatever","you look ugly go home etc.".........


and to you my little emo friend here. They might be ignoring you cause you dint show how keen you are. Start some casual conversations about little things and start friendships from there. :)

.....i have been doing so this far but when tjhey get know me better they arew affraid of my 3 personality mind^^


explain. :D


okay i will.......one loves everything in this world and wants to protect it and everyone inside it,second wants to destroy everything and make everything know the pain of losing something great importance or someone important person because of others great luck etc. and third just wants to do work and work until i pass out^^


lol. That aint scary. =-= i bet people would be paying to be your friend. lol.


i guess no one would want to do that i am just another miserable boy oin this earth^^


tsk tsk. if ure gonna continue thinking in this way.. u will be. Cheer up! confidence is the key. lol.

i guess so.......but what i will do whit that when i domnt really cant love anybody..........withoput getting myself hurt as well.......i swear the love........just makes me feel sad at same time it makes me happy^^
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I think to some degree you have to be physically attracted to the person you are going to be with. I think looks are important becasue it does have a role when deciding who you want to make a relationship with. However, its not the only thing that decides it. For me personally, when someone has a good personality, it makes their physical features even better. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Someone I think is attractive may not be attractive to someone else. Everyone has their own preferences and ways of looking at people. Even those people who "aren't so cool" as you put it, have people that do think they are cool.
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I think to some degree you have to be physically attracted to the person you are going to be with. I think looks are important becasue it does have a role when deciding who you want to make a relationship with. However, its not the only thing that decides it. For me personally, when someone has a good personality, it makes their physical features even better. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Someone I think is attractive may not be attractive to someone else. Everyone has their own preferences and ways of looking at people. Even those people who "aren't so cool" as you put it, have people that do think they are cool.


and when they find something which is not cool they start dislike you^^
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Tashi_Chan wrote:

I think to some degree you have to be physically attracted to the person you are going to be with. I think looks are important becasue it does have a role when deciding who you want to make a relationship with. However, its not the only thing that decides it. For me personally, when someone has a good personality, it makes their physical features even better. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Someone I think is attractive may not be attractive to someone else. Everyone has their own preferences and ways of looking at people. Even those people who "aren't so cool" as you put it, have people that do think they are cool.


and when they find something which is not cool they start dislike you^^


Thats not true. NOBODY is perfect and EVERYONE has their flaws. Its up to that person if they want to deal with it or not. You are still young and may not understand but a negative attitude like that isn't going to help you. You have to have more confidence in yourself and not let others define you or who you are. There are certain things that people don't like about me but that doesn't mean they dislike me as a person. Everyone has their idiosyncracies and their pet peeves. Not everyone is going to like you but not everyone is going to hate you either.
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Posted 3/17/08

Tashi_Chan wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


Tashi_Chan wrote:

I think to some degree you have to be physically attracted to the person you are going to be with. I think looks are important becasue it does have a role when deciding who you want to make a relationship with. However, its not the only thing that decides it. For me personally, when someone has a good personality, it makes their physical features even better. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Someone I think is attractive may not be attractive to someone else. Everyone has their own preferences and ways of looking at people. Even those people who "aren't so cool" as you put it, have people that do think they are cool.


and when they find something which is not cool they start dislike you^^


Thats not true. NOBODY is perfect and EVERYONE has their flaws. Its up to that person if they want to deal with it or not. You are still young and may not understand but a negative attitude like that isn't going to help you. You have to have more confidence in yourself and not let others define you or who you are. There are certain things that people don't like about me but that doesn't mean they dislike me as a person. Everyone has their idiosyncracies and their pet peeves. Not everyone is going to like you but not everyone is going to hate you either.


i know that i should habve positive attidute and have coinfidence..........but i still am so aware about everything i lack.......and that way i could refine myself in those things but is it worth it?.......you start being something you are not and when you are something you are not what are you?^^
Posted 3/17/08
Well there are two contradictory sayings around. 'Never Judge a book by its cover' and 'first impressions are everything'. Basically the second one is right because nobody ever listens to the first one, you WILL be judged by your 'cover' so to speak. Also there is an element of actually being attracted to someone in a sexual way. Essentially looks are far more important than personality if you want to get a girlfriend, personality only really matters if you want to make it last.
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all u need is confidence! the not so gd lookn girl always shines wen shes confident and smiley. if ur gd lookin sure that gives u an advantage cos ppl wanna talk to u, but as said b4 looks wont save u if ur personality is crap. no one wants to talk to the shy person who u can hardly talk to right??? ppl wanna talk to those who can have a conversation wether they r gd lookn r not. its just most ppl talk to gd lookn ppl and thats y gd lookn ppl have more confidence.
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Kitty_Katie wrote:

I wouldn't want to be seen hanging out with a poorly dressed guy...!!! And who likes talking to someone who you find annoying and not so attractive to look at?


it is just so harsh you know?........you cant look good and coool even if you tried your bewst and everyone ignores you so why to bother to try to be something else?^^
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It doesn't matter to me, it's really just a plus.
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all u need is confidence! the not so gd lookn girl always shines wen shes confident and smiley. if ur gd lookin sure that gives u an advantage cos ppl wanna talk to u, but as said b4 looks wont save u if ur personality is crap. no one wants to talk to the shy person who u can hardly talk to right??? ppl wanna talk to those who can have a conversation wether they r gd lookn r not. its just most ppl talk to gd lookn ppl and thats y gd lookn ppl have more confidence.


and there comes one probnlem too........i just do what i have to do with my best abilities and really dont say anything because i dont really have anything to say really^^
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