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why is looks so important always when making relationship?
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Posted 10/4/09

Tashi_Chan wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


Tashi_Chan wrote:


narutofan999 wrote:


Tashi_Chan wrote:


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I think to some degree you have to be physically attracted to the person you are going to be with. I think looks are important becasue it does have a role when deciding who you want to make a relationship with. However, its not the only thing that decides it. For me personally, when someone has a good personality, it makes their physical features even better. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Someone I think is attractive may not be attractive to someone else. Everyone has their own preferences and ways of looking at people. Even those people who "aren't so cool" as you put it, have people that do think they are cool.


and when they find something which is not cool they start dislike you^^


Thats not true. NOBODY is perfect and EVERYONE has their flaws. Its up to that person if they want to deal with it or not. You are still young and may not understand but a negative attitude like that isn't going to help you. You have to have more confidence in yourself and not let others define you or who you are. There are certain things that people don't like about me but that doesn't mean they dislike me as a person. Everyone has their idiosyncracies and their pet peeves. Not everyone is going to like you but not everyone is going to hate you either.


i know that i should habve positive attidute and have coinfidence..........but i still am so aware about everything i lack.......and that way i could refine myself in those things but is it worth it?.......you start being something you are not and when you are something you are not what are you?^^


I understand where you are coming from. However, there is a BIG difference between trying to change your actual character and trying to change to become a more positive person or changing positive aspects of your life. For example, I used to be really negative about things when I was younger but I decided for myself that I wanted to be happy and not let negative things and thoughts control me. Both bad and good things happen all the time but you can either learn from it or dwell on it. Its totally up to you. Don't try to change into something you aren't but you CAN change into something that will better yourself.


but it really does not matter what i am does it?


If it didn't matter to you, then you probably wouldn't have made this post and/or be so negative about it but as long as you are happy with yourself and who you are then it really doesn't matter and it doesn't matter what others think. As long as you are happy then thats great. If not, then I don't know what to tell you. Its just something you have to figure out. You're still young and have a lot to learn anyways. You'll be alright. ^_^



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Posted 10/4/09

tngrqb123 wrote:

LOL. you really like making threads regarding relationship eh? well. 1st impression counts. though i think looks aint as important as character.


reminded me of a chapter title of gintama, "people who looks good at the first sight usually are not good at all"
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I want my future husband to be good looking for the sake of my future kids of course.
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Sometimes when you really love someone, it's not that when you first saw them you wuz like "omg, that person is so hot" or whatever, eventually you just find yourself loving a certain person just for who and what they are. There are a lot of people out there that look good, and heaps of people with nice personalities, but there's something extra sometimes, which I think is a lot more important than either of those other two previous factors in a relationship. If that something isn't there I don't think there's any reason for a relationship to last!
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Looks are important to some, but not all. Don't stress over looks. Obviously looks are an advantage, but it's not everything. Looks are like the bait on the hook, but the personality reels them in.
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Because you don't want to have to fuck some ugly girl.
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people need an attraction in order for a relationship to prosper. as far as looks go, it's way up there. who wants to wake up to an ugly face? snort. shallow-ness aside, personality counts too-- but to be terribly honest i prefer a balance of everything (looks, personality, values, skills, etc)
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Because it's the first thing we see in a person. The looks. Only to find out later that he/she has a crappy personality.
Posted 2/9/10
well for me, I try not to focus on looks (facial appearance) cause I don't wanna be shallow, even though i kinda am lol. clothes don't matter as long as they don't have a odor that will keep me away from you... or their clothes that are tattered or when a guy is sagging on purpose.
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