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Girls and Guys probably have different opinions. But if you ONCE had a relationship with a girl where u guys were closeee friends. very cute with eacch other. But now you arent. You made friend with this girl when u had some troubles and she helped you out. She became your number one and you trusted her whole-heartedly, you told her EVERYTHING which was not good since this invovled opinions bragging about other girls and other crap (sometings are better left unsaid). It was an innoccent mistake though, you were just inexperienced. In time, you start tripping for her, and since i was all new at this. I didnt know how to handle it. I lose breath when she came near and when she sits next to me, my heart skips a beat. Along with my talking about other girls... she became in disblief when i told her i liked her and such (i tink she mistook some jokes earlier and didnt take me seirously) and itt ruined things and i ignored her simply cause no words could've have came out. all that time of silence and negligence made you drifted. She purused you always asking where are you and why dont we hang out and such. Everytime she asked, i just wanted her to pursueme even further, all the way to the extreme to get the satisfication she really wants to be with me. (this part is confusing, poor esteem and confidence causes this...)

Your simple rejections pushed her away. Months pass and even half a year went by, you forget aobut her sumtimes and she probably about you. However, when you start tinking aobut her. you fall all over in love again. In all those times passed, you gain enough confidence to ask her. One day, hanging out with some people. I took her aside and talked with her. .. Forget what i was going to say and threw random things at the top of my head. SOOO next night, on the phone i told her, i like her and that was it. Than .. i avoided her and she avoided me.. i tink for awhile.

From very good friends to.. simple acquaintences and strangers. Sad.. especially i was the jerk in the situation.

Its her birthday now though, April 1st. She invited me... but i tink its only cause my other friends are invited and she didnt want me left out. what would you do ? you dont even know ur relationship with her. She thinks your an idiot and simply weird. How would you feel if u were the girl ? you once tried to get close to a guy and did and than the guy started acting all weird.. most important question.. would you go ? its soo awkward =\

I am 16. Close friends with her.. in umm almost 2 years ago. This is her 1st birthday after i told her. shes just turning 14. we all soo young, and so sad for me to hurt some1 so young >.<
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Posted 3/20/08
fuck!!!that is way to much to have to read

make it short and sweet!
Posted 3/20/08
Omg I should get ten points for reading all this. Haha no I'm kidding hunn.
It was very touching.

Just go to her party and try to have fun. Try to get to know her all over again and don't expect so much so soon.
14 isn't that young..I get what you mean though.

Im curious to see how this turns out so keep us all informed!
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Seems like this girl moved on, but you haven't. Stop acting all paranoid, it'll make things worst.
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Go to the party.
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Posted 3/20/08
twin,

1st of all, you didn't hurt her.
2nd, she didn't answer you, she might actually like you, she's just afraid to say it.
3rd, She invited you, so, maybe she has something to say. (i'm not trying to build your hopes up and trash it down, i'm just trying to relate)
4th, your not being a jerk, your just being true to yourself
5th, She's young, well, not that young, but shes just confuse... (I mean, whoever dumps my twin will suffer from "i regret dumping Andrew" disease... ok...

bye, i hope i helped.. well, more over, i hope i made sense O_o
Posted 3/20/08
dengg; she's younger than i am
anywho, i feel badd for her. you should apologize to her and try to set things straight between you two. Because im sure she's confused and hurt. And get her a really nice gift too(:
Posted 3/20/08

wolzen wrote:

fuck!!!that is way to much to have to read

make it short and sweet!


okay he wants to do a 14year old and he wants a yes or no.
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CoExist wrote:

Flat out tell you like her and you want to be her boyfriend and that before you were a dumbass prick.


hey! people get stupid in that topic (love)... if you didn't , well, you don't know how to love at all. Not trying to be mean or something, but calling someone a "dumbass prick" wasn't very nice of you. I'm not trying to argue, I'm just trying to relate.
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Honestly, I say you should go to the party and tell what you did wrong, and what you want to happen between you guys. (If something is still there) Who knows, you may regret not doing something for the rest of your life, so take the opportunity.
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blablabla9876 wrote:


wolzen wrote:

fuck!!!that is way to much to have to read

make it short and sweet!


okay he wants to do a 14year old and he wants a yes or no.


lol.. good explaining XD
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Lamak wrote:

Honestly, I say you should go to the party and tell what you did wrong, and what you want to happen between you guys. (If something is still there) Who knows, you may regret not doing something for the rest of your life, so take the opportunity.


tnx.. Lamak, i love you XD hahahahahaha
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quynhie wrote:

dengg; she's younger than i am
anywho, i feel badd for her. you should apologize to her and try to set things straight between you two. Because im sure she's confused and hurt. And get her a really nice gift too(:


mhm.. i been getting her manga volumes of fruit basket.. first birthday was volume one, 2nd birthday volume 2 and so on~
i'll just continue the chain lawl.

my bad, its pretty hella long to read. probably wouldnt have read sumting like that anyways.. i apologize already and admitted my faults. it only helps that much, actions will speak louder than words and i thats what i need to work on. hard to be comfortable and romantic when ur not trying to scrrew up. but thhankx. i'll consider fixing it. shes moving to texas and i to california in summer. People work better under pressure i hope
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Posted 3/20/08

CoExist wrote:


diana91 wrote:


CoExist wrote:

Flat out tell you like her and you want to be her boyfriend and that before you were a dumbass prick.


hey! people get stupid in that topic (love)... if you didn't , well, you don't know how to love at all. Not trying to be mean or something, but calling someone a "dumbass prick" wasn't very nice of you. I'm not trying to argue, I'm just trying to relate.


Toying with someone's heart just to feel wanted? Yeah thats a dumbass prick move. Also I never said I was "nice"



lol. no need. ur entitled to your own opinion. people who are of little value to me have opinions that are no value to me. I'll pick up and neglect the advises. I know its hella foolish. i only have age and inexperience as an excuse
Posted 3/20/08
Oh dude, just explain the suiation to her and tell her u were wrong and that u like her alot. If she don't want a relationship u just got to be friends and hook up with another girl :sweatingbullets:. Just go to the party and have fun, it would look bad if u didn't
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