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Well im not sure how i should approach this...this is my first time in this situation... well i like one of my friends but we ended up being better then norm friends... she always says BFF and stuff... Well What im saying is If i ask her out and she doesnt like me back we might not be friends anymore.... This is my first time ever in this place and i dont know what i should do... can anyone give some help? thanks
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well that would be if u trust ureself nd ure friend, nd has the courage to do it then u dont have to worry about that good luck ^^
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Don't ask her out yet. Gather information if she likes you or not. If your conclusion is she doesn't, drop her.
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I say tell her your feelings. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, if you too are true friends, everything will stay the same.
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Go see a peer mediator, no personal threads. Try asking your buddies.

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Lamak wrote:

I say tell her your feelings. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, if you too are true friends, everything will stay the same.


i hope so.... and i guess ill gather some info.... i got a lil bit she calls me love a lot.... does that mean anything?
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Heya Jingoseng,

I believe you won't know until you try. As how the friendship relationship ends if all goes wrong, it all depends on how you approach her when you are asking her. I recommend that you let her know your position, and tell her that if she is to refuse you, that you still want to keep on being friends regardless. You never know, she might be feeling the same way for you, even though it seems like ya are a bit young :P, but age shouldn't be an issue since eventually you'll both grow up now wont ya?

My ex gf was my best friend before we started dating, and if I had never asked her out, I would have never experienced the great moments we had together --that is why I have no regrets, even though its over.

So I'll encourage you, go for it ! --Just be smart about it, try to understand her position as well.
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Jingoseng wrote:


Lamak wrote:

I say tell her your feelings. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, if you too are true friends, everything will stay the same.


i hope so.... and i guess ill gather some info.... i got a lil bit she calls me love a lot.... does that mean anything?
Younger girls like to play games, so I think you shouldn't worry about things she says if it sounds too playful. I say think about what will change between you guys, then decide if you want to take things further.

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june_151996 wrote:

Go see a peer mediator, no personal threads. Try asking your buddies.

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whatever i got some info that could be useful....
Posted 3/22/08
Aw mate, that sucks for you.
Honestly if you want to keep her then remain being friends with her because if you do go out
one of you is bound to get hurt. When bff go out in real life it doesn't work out..
You can find out if she likes you just ask one of her girlfriends.
I recommend you watch 9 End 2 Outs..it's the same situation as you.
Keep us informed.

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y r u going to random ppl on an internet forum for this?

stop clogging up the forums w/ this relationship shit.
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lestat85 wrote:

Heya Jingoseng,

I believe you won't know until you try. As how the friendship relationship ends if all goes wrong, it all depends on how you approach her when you are asking her. I recommend that you let her know your position, and tell her that if she is to refuse you, that you still want to keep on being friends regardless. You never know, she might be feeling the same way for you, even though it seems like ya are a bit young :P, but age shouldn't be an issue since eventually you'll both grow up now wont ya?

My ex gf was my best friend before we started dating, and if I had never asked her out, I would have never experienced the great moments we had together --that is why I have no regrets, even though its over.

So I'll encourage you, go for it ! --Just be smart about it, try to understand her position as well.


thats really well thanks! should i go with a direct approach on monday or txt her right now?
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Jingoseng wrote:


june_151996 wrote:

Go see a peer mediator, no personal threads. Try asking your buddies.

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whatever i got some info that could be useful....


Good, you got enough info.
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lol you're hopeless you're asking for relationship advice on crunchyroll
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Sorry friend, the forum doesn't like personal threads. Good luck with your relationship problems though
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