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hitting no..but i think slap is ok...
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25 / F / hallway
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I dont think so, my parents only lecture me when i do something wrong, form of respect..
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"Beating" is kind of an extreme word

I think a whipping isn't wrong. I got that growing up (alot hahaa). I don't mean to bring race into this, but my mother is Black and she did the whippings. My father (white) always resorted to other things.. I never got one from him. And being around my nephews/nieces on my fathers side.. Its a waay different method of punishment, but at the same time they turn out fine lol on my mothers side.. it is alot alot more physical. But I mean then again my friend Chris, he's white and his parents don't play lol I brought it up because alot of people turn it into that. Just have a discussion or survey people.. I bet it'll come out that way. Its just the way it is.

LOL I mean I don't have any emotional problems or scarring or anything like that. I know damn well to respect my parents/grand parents all of that. I say "Ma'm" without realising it. Like people turn it into something huge. "Beating" is where theres blood or bruising.. or just to a higher extreme. Which I don't believe in, thats abuse to me. My sister whip her kids. As does my aunt.. and they're fine. its just how it was in my family. Believe it or not, you'll find yourself favoring your parents more than you know.

I mean I look back on my whippings and laugh. I learned not to lie to my parents, I learned not to steal. I learned quick too lol Everyone has different views, I mean. I plan to adopt and have kids of my own. Who knows I might favor my father and use talking and other forms of punishment. I DO however, think it should be done in a manner where its reasonable. I could do something, and get a whipping and that be it. If you're not letting them have dinner/no tv for a month/grounded/no cell I mean damn lol you already kicked my ass. AND as I grew, I learned how it changed. My mother didn't use switches (off trees [its NOT as bad as it sounds lol]) and belts.. but she would square up with me and just use her hands like she was fighting me -_- like i said thou i learned my lessonss.. But everyones fam is diff.

I typed alot but blahhh =P

EDIT: oh yeah. And My mother always said, she was NEVER angry when she whipped us. And I never understood when I was younger, but I realised.. she would calm down and then instead of putting her feelings into it and getting extreme and over the top.. she treated it where it was something that I was actually learning from, instead of her taking her frustrations out.. its hard but w/e
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depends, if the child did something really naughty then yes, but if small bad things, then just a small slap, that's what my parents did to me, and i'm now a good boy
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my parents spanked me, made me do the splits, the horse stand, the head stand and yea, anything else related to martial arts and i turned out fine.

spank to get the point across, not full out abuse just for the hell of it. otherwise, i'd be a goner by now.
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I don't agree with "beating" children, but at the same time I think sending kids off into their room where all their games and books are is a piss-poor punishment. Personally, I'm into forced labor. When I did something wrong, my mom made me move about 200 pounds of stone.
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25 / M / Bulacan
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watch poso in you tube, if beating means that, it is a big no no
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27 / F / In Valhalla.
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Well, beating a child is never a good thing, but a little "discipline" never hurt anybody. If the child never recieved any kind of punishment, then how is the child suppose to learn from his or her mistake? "Billy, what did we agree on? Hitting Mommy is a biiig No No!" I don't think this will work, do you?
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If anyone hit the kids, the kid will looks like your avatar after grow up lol




LmaonadeLOL wrote:


balthazaar21 wrote:

Do you believe parents should hit theire kids as a punishment?

NO NO NO NO NO! Hitting children is WRONG.


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OFC NOT HITTING KIDS! exept if they diserve it
Posted 9/17/07

LuckyStar37 wrote:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nn5jlrxcpkI
really funny, but sorta racist, about beating your kids.


Bahaha! i was thinking of exactly teh same thing =3

Anyways... personally i think its alright, my parents used to do it and i hated it, but as i grew, i found out, they werent doing it because they hated me or anything, just for disciplining o.O

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30 / M / Finland
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mmmyah, I'm into kickin' some babies, sure.
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32 / M / a little place I...
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depends on what my kid's do
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when i was young a slap for being naughty never did me any harm and serves as a warning to never to do it again!
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severe beatings = no. smack round the ear = hell yes. that's what i got and i turned out okay ^_^
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