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Posted 9/27/07

LuckyStar37 wrote:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nn5jlrxcpkI
really funny, but sorta racist, about beating your kids.


lmao
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Posted 9/27/07
woop their asses
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Posted 9/27/07
hit them when its needed, that's all. Kids that aren't hit as least once by their parents grow up to be damn annoying
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Posted 9/27/07
well just not too hard of a beating, and only for really bad things. i got a bit of a beaating and now i dont dare do anything wrong! same wth my pupys (^^)
Posted 9/27/07
Mmm ... beating kids , yeah , sure .
But not too much `cause that`s chold abuse .
Parents don`t usually beat their kids in countries like Canada or the US but they do in Philippines and parents don`t care if other people see it or not .
Parents look at that as an embarassment for their children , not for them .

Still , parents should stop hitting when their kids are old already .
Posted 9/27/07
My mom would beat me over the smallest things. Sometimes she would find out she had been wrong and wouldn't apologize. It probably really influenced my huge dislike of her now. So, future mothers, if you don't want your child to despise you, don't hit them over every little thing as a form of discipline. You don't know what they'll hide from you later on.

She hit me, and all I am now is afraid of her. So there're many many things she doesnt know about me. I don't know what made her think that was okay, but it isn't at all.
Posted 9/27/07
I think people use the term beat to loosely.

When I think of beating, I think of hitting them over and over. That I don't agree with that

Now, slapping them or something when they don't listen, that is fine. Hell, even slap them when they did nothing, keeps them in check.
Posted 9/27/07

Shichifukujin wrote:

I think people use the term beat to loosely.

When I think of beating, I think of hitting them over and over. That I don't agree with that


Yeah, it is a big deal when they take out a belt and hit you over and over. I do agree with people using the term too lightly, in most cases.

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Posted 9/27/07
omg a belt would hurt so much

but i think that a little physical contact is good but not over the top
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I don't believe fear of punishment is a very healthy thing to be basing all their decisions on but then again I don't think the vast majority of children mature fast enough to develop a sound empathetic sense of morality on their own. Ideally a parent would be able to nurture a child's moral standpoint by exposing them to the situations of others and helping them reflect wisely on their experiences, unfortunately however i don't think very many people, myself included, would be adept enough to do that and as such probably shouldn't try to either. As such a sensible level of punishment based discipline along side setting good moral examples is probably the safest and easiest way for most people. choosing psychological of physical punishments is a similar situation, ideally you could avoid physical punishments altogether but to do so your grasp of human psychology and consistency of use would have to be very good and in my personal opinion it is beyond the ordinary parent to do so all that effectively.
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From experience, spanking max 3 times in the butt should be enough. Definetly not in public. Then a time out. This should not be done frequently because children do become bolder, so you need to judge if the situation warrants for spanking.
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27 / M / Canada
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i hate kid, they're so ..............anyway, i don't think is good for parents to beat their kid. but is good for me to beat their kids for them , lol
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Posted 9/27/07

rreggiebryant1 wrote:

woop their asses


fuck yes
they need it
you see these dilly-bitches trying to ASK their kids to stop being pains in the ass when they should just pull out a belt and go to town on them
betcha theyd listen to you after that
and besides in the bible it says "spare the rod spoil the child"
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Posted 9/27/07

music190 wrote:

Dont belive that fat ass super nanny. Beat your kids in public if you have to. Thats how i was rasied and i turned out fine. My mom and dad dont take no shit.

HELL YES!
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Posted 9/27/07
A lot of kids nowadays really need it. Parents are too scared to discipline their children, they have trouble doing it with words, and everyone else is babying them. I support it to an extent.
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