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Posted 9/23/07

Michi_Michi wrote:

Leader.

To all the little "populur!!" gals at school, I have ome thing to say

Better get ready to work for me in the future.

Doesn't always have to be true.

Posted 9/23/07
Ever heard of this?!
"I won't stand infront of you because i don't want to be the leader, I won't stand behind you because i am not a follower. But i'll stand beside you and be your friend. "

:) ♥♥♥♥
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Posted 9/23/07

xiah132 wrote:

Ever heard of this?!
"I won't stand infront of you because i don't want to be the leader, I won't stand behind you because i am not a follower. But i'll stand beside you and be your friend. "

:) ♥♥♥♥

Sounds like a plan.

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Posted 9/23/07
haha. a very good question to ask. A good follower can be a very good leader as some of you may know. For me, i myself do not know which is my characteristics.

But i must say, i am more of a leader than a follower i think. Because mainly, i tend to lead in any situation be it good or bad. I state my opinion clearly and do what i think is the best.

From the position that i am standing in, even in school as a student leader, i can be very demanding (in both good and bad ways). But i must admit that at times i am not a good lead to follow(well, that is what i think though). Even with alot of experience with leading, i can say that i am not a good leader(well, others might think likewise).

But throughout all that, i tend to follow my superiors when i need to. To give a listening ear and to follow and do my task well is the most important that is needed.
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Posted 9/23/07

leBeau wrote:


xiah132 wrote:

Ever heard of this?!
"I won't stand infront of you because i don't want to be the leader, I won't stand behind you because i am not a follower. But i'll stand beside you and be your friend. "

:) ♥♥♥♥

Sounds like a plan.



i like the sound of that ^_^
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Posted 9/23/07

xiah132 wrote:
"I won't stand infront of you because i don't want to be the leader, I won't stand behind you because i am not a follower. But i'll stand beside you and be your friend. "

That's good when it applies to friendship and helping one another.

When it comes to activities, that sounds nice and all when it's about two people, but if it's a group, someone has to lead or else the group will fall apart. It doesn't have to be one person all the time, as long as there's someone keeping everyone from doing random things by themselves.

Normally, I'm a follower myself as long as the leader don't suggest anything stupid.

When it comes to group projects at school though, and noone seems to know what to do, I take charge, think of ideas, reject stupid ideas by ignoring it (By stupid, I mean people who suggest including "Your mom" jokes or that type of crap to the project. If it sounds decent enough but still a bad idea, I try to explain why the group shouldn't do it.), and also assign task to people. I can't say I'm a very good leader, but it gets the job done.
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Posted 9/23/07
follower because to much presure
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28 / M / Peru (at last here)
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Posted 9/23/07
i dun see myself as a leader... i'm a freelancer who does anything as long as i like to do it but i dun follow ppl when i dun like what they do so i dun consider myself as a "follower" in the whole sense
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Posted 9/23/07
i see myself as a leader. i like things to be efficient and orderly. i just like to make sure things are going in the right track.

i'm not really a follower. i dont like to stay in the shadows.
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23 / F / United States
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Posted 9/23/07
i'm more of a follower so i need someone to tell me wat to do..
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22 / F / New Jersey
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Posted 9/23/07
I'm mostly a follower, but sometimes, I'm a leader. =D
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F / Au pays des merve...
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Posted 9/23/07
mixture of both
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23 / F / Ireland..conas at...
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Posted 9/23/07
im more of a follower than a leader...my face goes bright red when i have to stand up and tell people what to do and stuff.. .dont really like being the centre of attention..but i suppose being a leader in a small group is ok..
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24 / M / Canada
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Posted 9/23/07
Leader, its fucking troublesome being uncoordinated. And I like leading people. :D
And you almost never hear about followers making a difference, do you?
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Posted 9/23/07
Neither or. I probably have two people at max I truly respect in the honest form. False respect lasts probably about an hour and I make that person into a villain and I don't follow villains.

Depending on the situation I'll switch as the situation unfolds. No one is a leader or follower 100%, someone else will always have some skill they do better than you or you are better than them. Limiting myself to a designated role is a weakness, why do it?
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