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Why Adults?
Posted 3/24/08 , edited 3/24/08
i dont know if this topic was already on going or this is just a duplicate,..if so just report it to the mods,..and if not pls share your thought or ideas and enjoy!

why adults particularly our parents can say bad words to us--the younger one?,..why cant we answer them in a little high tone voice?,..i know most family value respect but sometimes they say some words that you know kinda~,..then when we were heard saying bad words they'll get angry?,..do they only have the rights?,.

*people that value the respect among parents--please dont be offended just sharing some thoughts*
Posted 3/24/08
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dude, you aint seen nothing my dad imagrated to canada 10 years ago and this is how he talks... "eh, hello eh, dis is a nick, can you go telled eh ted about ze new set of eh blueprint..."
Posted 3/24/08
Respect.. i think that is what we call them... We have to respect the elderly and they don't care about us O_O
Well my parents don't swear at me... It's not like they have the rights or not. You too have the rights but it's just that they not happy with it. So yea it's kind of like understand ur position and don't act selfishly and unset people and so on.
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Posted 3/24/08

theonlyme_26 wrote:

i dont know if this topic was already on going or this is just a duplicate,..if so just report it to the mods,..and if not pls share your thought or ideas and enjoy!

why adults particularly our parents can say bad words to us--the younger one?,..why cant we answer them in a little high tone voice?,..i know most family value respect but sometimes they say some words that you know kinda~,..then when we were heard saying bad words they'll get angry?,..do they only have the rights?,.


well i dont know about the "parent rights".....i think they use bad words because they dont know what to do with us or they really just dont know how to express their feelings and they get angry because they dont want us learn to reatly use those words.......so i guess parents are parents and we can forgive their foul mouthness,right?
Posted 3/24/08
I rebel in the most annoying way . I talk back , I yell , etc ...
Call me evil but I will not be disrecpeted by my own parents . I
will not be told I`m stupid or whatever they have in mind .
I respect them , of course . But respect is earned .
How would I respect anyone if they don`t even respect me in the first place ?
I know it`s wrong and I`ll understand it when I have kids but I won`t be a pushover
just because they`re my parents .
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UGH! i know exactly what you mean!
like i have that kind of relationship with my mom
its so annoying! bc i can't retaliate in any way whatsoever
but i dont need to respect my stepdad really, because he doesnt even remotely show me respect so my mom doesn't even stop me when i start yelling at him
i take out all of my anger for my mom out on him hahah
i dont even feel bad because he's such a jerk hahaha
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Respect them no matter what. Zero Tolerance.
Posted 3/24/08

snow-chibi wrote:

I rebel in the most annoying way . I talk back , I yell , etc ...
Call me evil but I will not be disrecpeted by my own parents . I
will not be told I`m stupid or whatever they have in mind .
I respect them , of course . But respect is earned .
How would I respect anyone if they don`t even respect me in the first place ?
I know it`s wrong and I`ll understand it when I have kids but I won`t be a pushover
just because they`re my parents .


you rock!!!,..completely right!
Posted 3/24/08

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you rock!!!,..completely right!


Hahaha , not to my parents . That`s why I get a lot speeches about my behaviour . >.>
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i do that too...i really talk back exactly..hmm..i'm just saying what i'm thinking..what are my feelings..there's no bad or disrespect bout that right? i guess parents must understand us too..ways of disciplinary actions on past generations can't really be applied now a days..am i right?
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Posted 3/24/08
You are supposed to respect your mum and dad, thats a given. Do you not want to thank them after using at least 18 years of their lives to take care of you and bring you up...
Well, I respect my mum and dad and try not to yell back at them (key word: try), but I can't help it if they're being unreasonable.
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Posted 3/24/08

snow-chibi wrote:

I rebel in the most annoying way . I talk back , I yell , etc ...
Call me evil but I will not be disrecpeted by my own parents . I
will not be told I`m stupid or whatever they have in mind .
I respect them , of course . But respect is earned .
How would I respect anyone if they don`t even respect me in the first place ?
I know it`s wrong and I`ll understand it when I have kids but I won`t be a pushover
just because they`re my parents .


QFT im like that too
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Posted 3/24/08
I ignore them.
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Posted 3/24/08
because they are older.
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