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Is it wrong to speak out your feelings on a subject?
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Being able to mediate between what you want and others want is an important ability. On one hand, the people who do speak out are the only ones who get to be considered; on the other, speaking out when you're a minority can get you in trouble. Still, if speaking out is problematic because of some silly reason for which others look down on you, you must consider the fact that the dynamic will not change until you take action.

A world in which everyone speaks out is dysfunctional because people can't deal with hearing others' negative opinions. A world in which no one speaks out is only superficially functional, with much oppression. Fortunately, you don't need to choose between two extremes. Utilitarianism works well for this matter: just choose whether to speak out or not based on the results of each. Of course, if your aim is to overcome the odds, to assert yourself and others like you as equal human beings deserving of respect, the results may not matter in light of your idealism.
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i dont think anything u shud sayong ur feelings juz express it wer ppl cud understand ur not blaming any1 or blaming sumbody!!
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Its stupid to get angry on someone elses opinion as you cannot correctify his\hers opinion just express your feelings by stating your opinion for instance and you have done no wrong or insulted anyone. You have the freedom of speech however but should apply by the rules of forum law and emotional law if you get my drift.

*I didn´t read the entire think,sry*
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I think it's important to speak our minds on all things. But we have to do it in the right timing. Say if someone died that you hated, it's not appropriate to say that you hated them at their funeral. Also, it's how we share our minds that is important. We can do it from two stances, pride or humility, and humility is always best. If you have pride then less people will listen, none the less take what you are saying seriously.
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Why yes it is .
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bleachanime wrote:

I express my feelings mostly...but i feel really bad when people make fun of it or laugh at me, maybe because my clueless, for that, i'm sorry, so i'm wondering if i should keep my mouth close..


seldom too... i shut my mouth...
but in my mind i am conversing with that person...

and i know i always win in the end...
and i am so thankful about it...haha^_^
Posted 5/23/08
No. Speak on what you feel is necessary but make sure you know what you're saying.
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bleachanime wrote:

I express my feelings mostly...but i feel really bad when people make fun of it or laugh at me, maybe because my clueless, for that, i'm sorry, so i'm wondering if i should keep my mouth close..


Just be yourself and learn from your mistakes. Have confidence and don't be ashamed of yourself, as long as you do the right thing and you know you're on the right road--that will be your pride. Be wise, be careful, and stay comfortable, happy and honest.
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bleachanime wrote:

I express my feelings mostly...but i feel really bad when people make fun of it or laugh at me, maybe because my clueless, for that, i'm sorry, so i'm wondering if i should keep my mouth close..


No, Fight for your right to party! I errmm...wrong speech, just say what you need to say if they make fun of it just laugh it off, there are times I said something in a serious topic and end up being laugh at even though i was angry at time, later on I thought about it and just laughed it off. Since your opinion is your own and bringing feelings into it is your decision. Thats my opinion
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I believe that it's fine to speak your thoughts, but you must think beforhand of how you say it. Also, it depends on who is listening. You don't wont to make some remark about jesus when there are fanatical christiens in the room.
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Posted 5/23/08
i don't think soo cuz your expressing yourself about that kind of subject
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Posted 5/26/08
It's good to speak your feelings.
But you need to think beforehand whether or not what you're saying is going hurt someone in any way.
Posted 6/14/08
sometimes it can cause u to get beaten up
Posted 6/14/08

music190 wrote:

Expressing your feelings is gay.


I agree its gay
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