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What if it hurts to have sex?
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I know that there are multiple forums about sex and virginity ... but here's my opinion.

People who have sex with no intentions of reproducing have sexual intercourse for enjoyment...
Some how the actions causes the nerves to, I dunno react and thus making one feel good.
So here's what I think. What If it hurts to have sex? Not due to sickness or STD whatsoever... It hurts no matter who you are or what you have.

Well there won't be any problems such as pregnant teens, or underage sex, rape etc.

If it hurts to have sex, then people who truly wish to have children would bear the pain and thus creating a child.... the original purpose of sex would still remain..... and of course, the pornographic industry would collapse..... marriages might not fail that easily as well.....I'm not talking about first time sex... I'm saying that what if
having sex = does not make you feel good, brings no pleasure at all, causes pain

I'm not talking about just a specific case here or a condition I'm facing. I'm saying that 'What if sex hurts?' As in it brings no pleasure to anybody regardless of what your gender is, whether or not its your first time, whether or not you're normal or sick or healthy. It brings no pleasure but pain instead every single sexual intercourse even though you're a completely healthy person regardless of gender instead you would feel pain


What do you think about this?
Posted 3/29/08
Okay,
this sounds like a duplicate and I could've been discussed in the sex thread.
I've never had sex so I would not know what it feels like but all my friends
who have say it hurts the first time.
If it hurts after the first time you're probably having it too rough.
Hope this helped a little.
:)
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O_oStefferzO-o wrote:

Okay,
this sounds like a duplicate and I could've been discussed in the sex thread.
I've never had sex so I would not know what it feels like but all my friends
who have say it hurts the first time.
If it hurts after the first time you're probably having it too rough.
Hope this helped a little.
:)


I've not have sex but, what I'm saying is that, well sex is supposed to feel good, I mean from what we've known from society. what I mean is that.... what if there isn't pleasure in having sex..... like it doesn't make you feel good but instead, you'll feel pain.... if that was the feeling you receive then lots of [problems would be solved
Posted 3/29/08
i'm still a virgin but i know for the girls the first few times it is supposed to hurt....the pleasure goes mainly for the guys >.>
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independent_2_the_grave wrote:

i'm still a virgin but i know for the girls the first few times it is supposed to hurt....the pleasure goes mainly for the guys >.>


Do you even read the first post?? I'm not talking about the first time whatsoever. I'm saying that....... argh
Please read first post or 3rd post
Posted 3/29/08
Then people wouldn't have sex out of desire for it. The would only do it for the sake of having children.

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Sogard2 wrote:

Then people wouldn't have sex out of desire for it. The would only do it for the sake of having children.



Finally I have someone who understood what I wrote...
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makimaki_sataandagi wrote:

Finally I have someone who understood what I wrote...


I understood what you said as well .But , if it would hurt , how many people would you think do that ?
People don`t like pain in general . Would people , mainly women think it`s worth bearing the pain
of sex and pregnancy ? Being pregnant is hard my mom says . I take her word for it .
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snow-chibi wrote:


makimaki_sataandagi wrote:

Finally I have someone who understood what I wrote...


I understood what you said as well .But , if it would hurt , how many people would you think do that ?
People don`t like pain in general . Would people , mainly women think it`s worth bearing the pain
of sex and pregnancy ? Being pregnant is hard my mom says . I take her word for it .


So it got me thinking, if it hurts to have sex, then not only will woman be on the losing side, man for once have to suffer some pain. men too might appreciate women more.
Posted 3/29/08

makimaki_sataandagi wrote:

So it got me thinking, if it hurts to have sex, then not only will woman be on the losing side, man for once have to suffer some pain. men too might appreciate women more.


Most of them do . It`s their job to work and tend to their pregnant wives .
It`s mainly their job to put food on the table . It`s their job to take care of
their sick children too . They don`t really suffer from pain . They suffer form
the annoying voices of their children . If their child got pregnant , who usually deals with it ?
The father does . Who gives long speeches about anything ? The fathers do .
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I think there would be much less of an incentive to have (recreational) sex in the first place, there would be ALOT less STD infections, AIDS would most likely have stayed in an African jungle for many more years at least, less teenage/unwanted pregnancies, people will likely be more goal oriented, having no need to go out trolling for "tail", relationships will be based mostly on infatuation (or love as you humans foolishly call it), also there would be less maltreated children in the world, since the parents would have likely been more thoughtful of bringing one into the world, in short, there would be some serious improvements in the human race actually

I have never really been interested in the act myself, I try to avoid ANY activity that would put me less than 4 feet from another human
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n_n303 wrote:

if that were to happen my life would be ruined x.x
It seems to me like life revolves around sex and that pleasure that sex gives.
If you were to take that away, what other pleasures would be left? Only ones that make you smile and be happy in general.
If you take away something so intimate and amazing i think life would be........... missing something...and would be..kinda dull >.>


well thank God that sex = feels good
If it didn't your pooh would be alot grumpier than it already is
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it better stay that way,
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n_n303 wrote:
It seems to me like life revolves around sex and that pleasure that sex gives.

That's called being a hedonist.

If sex were always painful all the time, then the human race would die out. The only real instinct left to drive reproduction would be women's "biological clock" and then the woman would have to beg some guy to have sex with her, and he'd only do it if he wanted to be nice.

As you can probably imagine, this would probably mean that people would die at a rate faster than they were being born.
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do we still get to orgasm at the end?

and what's the level of pain from 1-10?
10 being deadly, and 1 being.."tis, but a scratch"

if it's one of those feelings that you got punched on your stomach repeatedly until the end of the intercourse, then count me out. sure, i can handle punches. lots of people can.. but repeatedly.. for like ATLEAST 30 minutes.. man.. that's like a boxing workout lol

wait.. do we have the ability to like reduce the pain the more we do it? kinda like when you gain more muscles, you get stronger and tougher to put down. anything like that? kuz then i'd probably still go at it, if i can find a woman that can handle it ==__==;;

if not. then i guess all men are stuck to masturbating. err, that should be most men, since some are masochists/sadists..

oh, if the orgasm is the one that hurts or hurts the most.. then fuck that.. and say goodbye to the world.








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