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What if it hurts to have sex?
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n_n303 wrote:

if that were to happen my life would be ruined x.x
It seems to me like life revolves around sex and that pleasure that sex gives.
If you were to take that away, what other pleasures would be left? Only ones that make you smile and be happy in general.
If you take away something so intimate and amazing i think life would be........... missing something...and would be..kinda dull >.>


omg i just got the biggest urg for something ¬.¬

ok it does hurt for girls the first few times (1-3 times) the male well he wont feel any pain at all
plus later on in life sex isnt that big of a thing (not like it is to 13 year olds going omg no never id never have sex eww...) but yeah its natural and makes every1 feel good and if your having sex with some1 you love then its even better. oh and if there wasent a thing such as sex well to say the least the world would be a very angry place
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Well, it would obviously suck, and more people would be drab and dull.
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If it were to hurt then somehow I don't think humans would be in existence right now. Pain is our bodies way of telling us to "stop what we're doing", and that would compromise our way of reproducing. So the human specie back in history wouldn't have been structured to be a lasting race, since their way of reproduction is PAAIN (do not want).
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geeeez.is this true?
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kaorustrikes wrote:

geeeez.is this true?


... you think??
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Yeah, if reproduction was painful during conception, our species would not be alive today. But then again, look at the praying mantis male... that guy only gets to do it once while his head is being chewed off, and the female gets a full course meal while the make tiny mantis babies..
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I supposed, then IVF would be the way to make babies. Before it was invented, humans will only have sex for the sake of having children. They would have also been applauded for saying that they had sex. There would be no worries about STDs, premarital sex or extra-marital affairs xD
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makimaki_sataandagi wrote:

So it got me thinking, if it hurts to have sex, then not only will woman be on the losing side, man for once have to suffer some pain. men too might appreciate women more.


Most of them do . It`s their job to work and tend to their pregnant wives .
It`s mainly their job to put food on the table . It`s their job to take care of
their sick children too . They don`t really suffer from pain . They suffer form
the annoying voices of their children . If their child got pregnant , who usually deals with it ?
The father does . Who gives long speeches about anything ? The fathers do .


So does this mean my mum is actually my dad? She's usually the one who takes care of all that stuff... of course, it could just be that you're stereotyping and my family doesn't conform to that. stereotyping = bad. Don't do it.
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abel89 wrote:

I have never really been interested in the act myself, I try to avoid ANY activity that would put me less than 4 feet from another human


thats a good thing. stay a safe distance from others =) make it 5 feet neh? XD safer.

oO i think this is a weird topic but. i guess it has the common answer. humans wont be here if it hurt. oO glad im here XD
Posted 3/30/08

insane_killer_bunny wrote:


snow-chibi wrote:

Most of them do . It`s their job to work and tend to their pregnant wives .
It`s mainly their job to put food on the table . It`s their job to take care of
their sick children too . They don`t really suffer from pain . They suffer form
the annoying voices of their children . If their child got pregnant , who usually deals with it ?
The father does . Who gives long speeches about anything ? The fathers do .


So does this mean my mum is actually my dad? She's usually the one who takes care of all that stuff... of course, it could just be that you're stereotyping and my family doesn't conform to that. stereotyping = bad. Don't do it.


Nooope . Not really stereotyping . I`ve thought of the ' missing fathers ' .
I love my mom .
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Posted 3/30/08
pick another hole then
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the way i am seeing it is that u are not saying that sex hurts but that its not satisfying, assuming that would mean that not only would birth rates drop, but so would rape, and many other things that are not completely affected by sex but still be affected by it, u would also have to remove a persons lust to stop them from having sex, lust is natures way of making ppl reproduce, if u are meaning it by it physicaly hurts than it would have nearly the same affects, but it would also raise the seriousness of sex, ppl would only do it to show devotion to each other and devotion to having a child, which in many cases this would make the world just a little better if there was a controling facter on one of the worlds problems, the problems i speak of are mainly rape, and over population, having control over these would lower tha amount of homeless, and amout of foster children.
Posted 3/30/08
If sex hurt, then we'd all just have to eat ice cream instead and we'd all become morbidly obese. BUT, we wouldn't care if we were ugly due to morbid obesity because we wouldn't be interested in sex anyway.
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makimaki_sataandagi wrote:

I know that there are multiple forums about sex and virginity ... but here's what I thought while taking a shower.

People who have sex with no intentions of reproducing have sexual intercourse for enjoyment...
Some how the actions causes the nerves to, I dunno react and thus making one feel good.
So here's what I think. What If it hurts to have sex? Well there won't be any problems such as pregnant teens, or underage sex, rape etc.

If it hurts to have sex, then people who truly wish to have children would bear the pain and thus creating a child.... the original purpose of sex would still remain..... and of course, the pornographic industry would collapse..... marriages might not fail that easily as well.....I'm not talking about first time sex... I'm saying that what if
sex = does not make you feel good

What do you think about this?


hmmm it would acclly be a good thing i think no more rape teenage preg ETC and best of all parents that love their child MAN what would i give! too have a bit of that...
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Posted 3/31/08

O_oStefferzO-o wrote:

Okay,
this sounds like a duplicate and I could've been discussed in the sex thread.
I've never had sex so I would not know what it feels like but all my friends
who have say it hurts the first time.
If it hurts after the first time you're probably having it too rough.
Hope this helped a little.
:)


well (iam not a perv) all my freinds say (yes girls and boys) that grisl bleed the first time they have sex 0.0!!(i wouldnt know iam still a virgin)
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