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What if it hurts to have sex?
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Posted 3/31/08

AgentChaos wrote:


O_oStefferzO-o wrote:

Okay,
this sounds like a duplicate and I could've been discussed in the sex thread.
I've never had sex so I would not know what it feels like but all my friends
who have say it hurts the first time.
If it hurts after the first time you're probably having it too rough.
Hope this helped a little.
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well (iam not a perv) all my freinds say (yes girls and boys) that grisl bleed the first time they have sex 0.0!!(i wouldnt know iam still a virgin)


Apparently, not all girls bleed the first time they have sexual intercourse. The most it's suppose the hurt for a girl's first time is about a slight pinch to a slight lingering pain before it eventually subsides. And if the guy is not being too rough and is being cautious, it shouldn't be too painful.

Then again, that's just what my sexuality professor told us in class one day. I'm a virgin, so I wouldn't know how it would feel.
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hold on a sec if it hurts to have sex nobody would get sexually stimulated and nobody would be able to get an erection. No erection=sux for you your not having any children
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the way i am seeing it is that u are not saying that sex hurts but that its not satisfying, assuming that would mean that not only would birth rates drop, but so would rape, and many other things that are not completely affected by sex but still be affected by it, u would also have to remove a persons lust to stop them from having sex, lust is natures way of making ppl reproduce, if u are meaning it by it physicaly hurts than it would have nearly the same affects, but it would also raise the seriousness of sex, ppl would only do it to show devotion to each other and devotion to having a child, which in many cases this would make the world just a little better if there was a controling facter on one of the worlds problems, the problems i speak of are mainly rape, and over population, having control over these would lower tha amount of homeless, and amout of foster children.


Well I meant physical pain and I agree with what you said...lots of problem we see today has to do with lust which originates from sex...
If sex isn't satisfying at all, then well the world would be in a much safer state...If people thinks that well men/women would suffer , but if having sex hurts physically, the word lust would have never been invented
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o_o....*shudders at the thought of sex being painful* NOOOO YOU CAN'T DO THIS TO ME!

On a more serious note, sex is pleasurable because it encourages human beings to reproduce. If it wasn't....we'd have a noticeable decreased population...some very grumpy people...and some VERY unhappy porn stars.

I've also seen the question a lot about whether sex hurts women the first few times. The pain comes from 1) the breaking of the hymen and 2) the pressure of the penis in the vagina. The pain really isn't that bad...although oral sex and masturbation give a lot more pleasure than vaginal sex.
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it hurts the girl the first time because when the penis penatrates it breaks the hymen and make them bleed a lil bit. The women though have orgasms to the extreme which is pleasureful. But for the guys its all nice and easy
Posted 4/1/08

independent_2_the_grave wrote:

i'm still a virgin but i know for the girls the first few times it is supposed to hurt....the pleasure goes mainly for the guys >.>


Yeah but ive also heard that girls also experience multiple orgasm as well as wet squirting ones that really give them most pleasures and greatly drains thier energy in bed...
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it hurts the girl the first time because when the penis penatrates it breaks the hymen and make them bleed a lil bit. The women though have orgasms to the extreme which is pleasureful. But for the guys its all nice and easy


There's no actual "breaking" involved. If the hymen were actually covering the enterance of the vagina like a barrier, it would make menstrating very difficult for females. The hymen surrounds or partly [not completely] covers the entrance of the vagina, and when something is inserted, such as the penis, the hymen will stretch and in most cases, will tear slightly in order to accomodate the penis.
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I believe everybody who has posted on this forum have something to say themselves, but please try not to go off topic...
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no idea about this topic....maybe because im young...
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independent_2_the_grave wrote:

i'm still a virgin but i know for the girls the first few times it is supposed to hurt....the pleasure goes mainly for the guys >.>



haw. your virgin is showing.

to tell you the truth, it's mutually painful for both parties. even if a guy busts the hymen during coitus, it still doesn't mean it's smooth sailing. girls are tight. TIGHT! you ever try stuff a bratwurst into a bottle? like that tight, with vagina muscles tightening around your dick. admittedly not a very pleasant experience for your first time, but it gets better, as long as you don't go crazy with it.

wow, this really is a board of kids.
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sex is not suppose to hurt!!
its for pleasure n reproduction!
or for whores for money!
but i don't think sex will hurt!
not if u love tht person!
am i going off the topic?
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Posted 4/1/08

applexchan wrote:


Fresh_Def wrote:

it hurts the girl the first time because when the penis penatrates it breaks the hymen and make them bleed a lil bit. The women though have orgasms to the extreme which is pleasureful. But for the guys its all nice and easy


There's no actual "breaking" involved. If the hymen were actually covering the enterance of the vagina like a barrier, it would make menstrating very difficult for females. The hymen surrounds or partly [not completely] covers the entrance of the vagina, and when something is inserted, such as the penis, the hymen will stretch and in most cases, will tear slightly in order to accomodate the penis.


I get it but when I do it wid virgins they always bleed. Some more than others but blood is always clear
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Lol, if sex didn't feel good you'd see that there would be a huge stop in the population growth.

Yeah crimes involving sex would definitely either cease completely or close to it.
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Posted 4/1/08
that would really suck. i think that sex feels good so that we naturally want to reproduce. just the way we evolved
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AzN-Pridee wrote:

sex is not suppose to hurt!!
its for pleasure n reproduction!
or for whores for money!
but i don't think sex will hurt!
not if u love tht person!
am i going off the topic?


Well I don't know whether sex would hurt for a first timer but.... this topis is What If?? It does no matter you're a virgin or not... it just hurts physically no matter how many times you have had it... its WHAT IF
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