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What if it hurts to have sex?
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kendra_dolores wrote:

that is total bull if he does it the right way it dont hurt at all believe me i know


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I know that there are multiple forums about sex and virginity ... but here's what I thought while taking a shower.

People who have sex with no intentions of reproducing have sexual intercourse for enjoyment...
Some how the actions causes the nerves to, I dunno react and thus making one feel good.
So here's what I think. What If it hurts to have sex? Not due to sickness or STD whatsoever... It hurts no matter who you are or what you have.

Well there won't be any problems such as pregnant teens, or underage sex, rape etc.

If it hurts to have sex, then people who truly wish to have children would bear the pain and thus creating a child.... the original purpose of sex would still remain..... and of course, the pornographic industry would collapse..... marriages might not fail that easily as well.....I'm not talking about first time sex... I'm saying that what if
sex = does not make you feel good

What do you think about this?



I dont think it's a good idea. Remember sex is one of the most effective way to express love. Who wants to show some love if it's painful ?! Or you only wanna touch and feel and that's it ?!! How lame. C'mon, go have sex with someone you love and see already.
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If sex hurt like cutting yourself then mabye more emo's would be into it.
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makimaki_sataandagi wrote:

I know that there are multiple forums about sex and virginity ... but here's what I thought while taking a shower.

People who have sex with no intentions of reproducing have sexual intercourse for enjoyment...
Some how the actions causes the nerves to, I dunno react and thus making one feel good.
So here's what I think. What If it hurts to have sex? Not due to sickness or STD whatsoever... It hurts no matter who you are or what you have.

Well there won't be any problems such as pregnant teens, or underage sex, rape etc.

If it hurts to have sex, then people who truly wish to have children would bear the pain and thus creating a child.... the original purpose of sex would still remain..... and of course, the pornographic industry would collapse..... marriages might not fail that easily as well.....I'm not talking about first time sex... I'm saying that what if
sex = does not make you feel good

What do you think about this?



I dont think it's a good idea. Remember sex is one of the most effective way to express love. Who wants to show some love if it's painful ?! Or you only wanna touch and feel and that's it ?!! How lame. C'mon, go have sex with someone you love and see already.


But it is because of sex, that so many people suffer
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I think if sex hurt then we would be just like most other animals on the planet, and by that I mean that we would only do it for reproduction. Sex is one of the few things that separates us from the rest of the animal kingdom, it causes pain for a lot of people but it also does good for a lot of people. The fact that it hurts and heals is sort of a representation of humanity itself. There have been many people who have done good things throughout history but also people who have done bad things. If sex wasn't pleasurable then the only difference between us and other organisms would be our intelligence, and that border seems to be getting thinner and thinner as time passes...

So overall I think sex without pleasure would be bad for everyone.
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makimaki_sataandagi wrote:


HeatherHanderson wrote:
I dont think it's a good idea. Remember sex is one of the most effective way to express love. Who wants to show some love if it's painful ?! Or you only wanna touch and feel and that's it ?!! How lame. C'mon, go have sex with someone you love and see already.


But it is because of sex, that so many people suffer



Not as many as the people who enjoy it
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You know, sure, if sex brought about pain no matter when/why/how... it might deter people from doing it for pleasure...

but then it'd be used more as torture.
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I asked my girl friend which I had my first sex experience,
Back then, She told me it was painful, because it was her first time too, and I need to stop just to make her (Kitty kat kat) get used to my (Sausage) XD. Anyway, after that, we didn't have the chance to do it again for a couple of months. I asked her if we can do it again, since once you experience it, there's a crave to it. Its not that great to the extent that you do it everytime you see your girlfriend, but you crave for it when you have this heavy feeling in your chest, and when you do sex, its like your chest is getting light, and you get happy! (Its based on what I feel) and you get tired, but satisfied XD. My girlfriend also told me that, and its not painful like it was before, and actually enjoying it! I asked her what she feels about it, and she told me that it was an explainable feeling, a warm feeling something like that. XD

We did it when we're just 16 years old, 4th year high school. I know I know, its Premature sex, but hopefully, nothing serious happened after we did it. Like 10 times, and we tried several positions lol but i wear condom after our first 2 sexperience. XD And I don't feel any pain at all. XD

But, if sex gets painful, Then no one would actually do it. Only masochist and sadist can practice it... But hey, the world will have less population! XD
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makimaki_sataandagi wrote:


kendra_dolores wrote:

that is total bull if he does it the right way it dont hurt at all believe me i know


read the first post


haha i guess that girl is kinda right i mean still though it dont hurt for me anyway even if it is rough haha i guess everyones different hahaha so just depends on you
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kendra_dolores wrote:


makimaki_sataandagi wrote:


kendra_dolores wrote:

that is total bull if he does it the right way it dont hurt at all believe me i know


read the first post


haha i guess that girl is kinda right i mean still though it dont hurt for me anyway even if it is rough haha i guess everyones different hahaha so just depends on you


You are 14....
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kendra_dolores wrote:


makimaki_sataandagi wrote:


kendra_dolores wrote:

that is total bull if he does it the right way it dont hurt at all believe me i know


read the first post


haha i guess that girl is kinda right i mean still though it dont hurt for me anyway even if it is rough haha i guess everyones different hahaha so just depends on you


You are 14....


yes im 14 haha why do you ask?
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Is it just me who finds that a bit sinister? It sounds like you want to make a drug that makes sex painful for everyone... for the greater good, or some rubbish like that!

Besides, i think your being quite naive. If it hurt to have sex, people would have more children to show how hard they are.
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Is it just me who finds that a bit sinister? It sounds like you want to make a drug that makes sex painful for everyone... for the greater good, or some rubbish like that!

Besides, i think your being quite naive. If it hurt to have sex, people would have more children to show how hard they are.


haha that is a good one hahahahahahahahahahaha your kinda right
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