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Not many of us have happy exprience. Even perfect people have been hurt in love and relationships. Being hurt is just normal because you will learn from it. You tend not to do the same thing in the future to avoid being hurt and suffer. But let us talk about something that are heartbreaking experience and how we coped and survived with it.
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I experience unrecquieted love when I was in high school. I had a crush on my classmate for almost a year. I almost followed him everywhere and was very timid and very shy when he was near. I thought at first he was also attacted to me coz he looks timidly at me sometimes. But then, I found out oneday, he was courting a girl from another section and was a freshman. I was so gutted and heartbroken that I almost wanted to destroy the other girl. It was so shameful to have high hopes on him liking me as well. It really hurt my feelings. I soon learned how to cope and survive when I thought of all his bad personalities. Well, better forget than risk having your heart broken again.
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I experience unrecquieted love when I was in high school. I had a crush on my classmate for almost a year. I almost followed him everywhere and was very timid and very shy when he was near. I thought at first he was also attacted to me coz he looks timidly at me sometimes. But then, I found out oneday, he was courting a girl from another section and was a freshman. I was so gutted and heartbroken that I almost wanted to destroy the other girl. It was so shameful to have high hopes on him liking me as well. It really hurt my feelings. I soon learned how to cope and survive when I thought of all his bad personalities. Well, better forget than risk having your heart broken again.


ohhhh,my girl..i;m glad that u succeeded to get over him!!!
hehe...what hurted me the most..well...i have many stories..for this subject...but i;ll choose..the most recent one
i have a good friend that works in another country..and his situation is not one a great one..he;s having a tough time there
but what pissed me off the most was that his bro who;s there also..doesn't care about him..while he;s having great time..visiting new places..having fn with his wife...
My friend is there for 3 months now ..but they didn't met yet...i mean if family doesn;t help u then whom??
It hurts me seeing him like that..i want him to come back home but i know that;s not what he wants..so all i can do for him is to advice him and support him..but even this isn;t enough.
i feel so powerless(sp) everytime when he's telling me about how the things are there..
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you're right headmistress... it does hurt liking/loving someone so much for a long time thinking that there's a chance, then all of a sudden you see him/her with someone else.. my story is kind of similar, but different.

my story is..

i've liked one of my childhood friend ever since i saw him again when i returned to the phil. last 2003. when i returned in the phil. last 2006 to celebrate my debut, my feelings for him grew stronger, and he said he liked me too.. so while i was there, we would always be together as if we were a couple. after i left the phil. we communicated through text, chat, and sometimes i would buy a phone card to call him.. i did everything i can to keep our communication going, but 3 weeks after i left the phil. our communication stopped, i kept leaving him a message asking him whats wrong but he never answered.even though we stopped communicating, i still didn't give up, i was still waiting.. i even told one of my friends here that i would give up any guy just to be with him.. and i did, all the guys that would ask me out, i would turn down. after 7 months i found someone, though its wrong, i know i liked the other guy because i saw some of the qualities of my childhood friend in him.. when i went back to phil. last 2007 to celebrate my sister's debut.. he seemed to be a different guy, my sister kept it from me, but i found out anyways.. that the guy i'd been loving for so long likes her. they would text each other all the time, i was jealous, but i kept it in. i didn't tell my sister that i knew what was going on. i know i should move on but honestly, i am still in love with the same guy for 5 years now

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you're right headmistress... it does hurt liking/loving someone so much for a long time thinking that there's a chance, then all of a sudden you see him/her with someone else.. my story is kind of similar, but different.

my story is..

i've liked one of my childhood friend ever since i saw him again when i returned to the phil. last 2003. when i returned in the phil. last 2006 to celebrate my debut, my feelings for him grew stronger, and he said he liked me too.. so while i was there, we would always be together as if we were a couple. after i left the phil. we communicated through text, chat, and sometimes i would buy a phone card to call him.. i did everything i can to keep our communication going, but 3 weeks after i left the phil. our communication stopped, i kept leaving him a message asking him whats wrong but he never answered.even though we stopped communicating, i still didn't give up, i was still waiting.. i even told one of my friends here that i would give up any guy just to be with him.. and i did, all the guys that would ask me out, i would turn down. after 7 months i found someone, though its wrong, i know i liked the other guy because i saw some of the qualities of my childhood friend in him.. when i went back to phil. last 2007 to celebrate my sister's debut.. he seemed to be a different guy, my sister kept it from me, but i found out anyways.. that the guy i'd been loving for so long likes her. they would text each other all the time, i was jealous, but i kept it in. i didn't tell my sister that i knew what was going on. i know i should move on but honestly, i am still in love with the same guy for 5 years now



OMG..that really sucks...i mean ur sister..i don't know..maybe i would have done the same thing as u ...but still...the one in fault here is first ur childhood friend..but in the same time ur sister too..i mean she shouldn't kept it from u...hehe..i hope u;ll get over it soon and don't forget u can always count on us if u need support or an advice^__^
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uniquexroses wrote:

you're right headmistress... it does hurt liking/loving someone so much for a long time thinking that there's a chance, then all of a sudden you see him/her with someone else.. my story is kind of similar, but different.

my story is..

i've liked one of my childhood friend ever since i saw him again when i returned to the phil. last 2003. when i returned in the phil. last 2006 to celebrate my debut, my feelings for him grew stronger, and he said he liked me too.. so while i was there, we would always be together as if we were a couple. after i left the phil. we communicated through text, chat, and sometimes i would buy a phone card to call him.. i did everything i can to keep our communication going, but 3 weeks after i left the phil. our communication stopped, i kept leaving him a message asking him whats wrong but he never answered.even though we stopped communicating, i still didn't give up, i was still waiting.. i even told one of my friends here that i would give up any guy just to be with him.. and i did, all the guys that would ask me out, i would turn down. after 7 months i found someone, though its wrong, i know i liked the other guy because i saw some of the qualities of my childhood friend in him.. when i went back to phil. last 2007 to celebrate my sister's debut.. he seemed to be a different guy, my sister kept it from me, but i found out anyways.. that the guy i'd been loving for so long likes her. they would text each other all the time, i was jealous, but i kept it in. i didn't tell my sister that i knew what was going on. i know i should move on but honestly, i am still in love with the same guy for 5 years now



OMG..that really sucks...i mean ur sister..i don't know..maybe i would have done the same thing as u ...but still...the one in fault here is first ur childhood friend..but in the same time ur sister too..i mean she shouldn't kept it from u...hehe..i hope u;ll get over it soon and don't forget u can always count on us if u need support or an advice^__^


thank you so much.. well i guess my sister just doesnt want me to get hurt.. coz she kept telling me before that i should just forget about my childhood friend.. but its easier said than done.. actually right now me and my childhood friend message each other at friendster, but as friends.. i had to lie to him telling him i have moved on and that im over him.. so that i could keep him near.. i dont wanna drive him away again because of my feelings toward him.
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uniquexroses wrote:

you're right headmistress... it does hurt liking/loving someone so much for a long time thinking that there's a chance, then all of a sudden you see him/her with someone else.. my story is kind of similar, but different.

my story is..

i've liked one of my childhood friend ever since i saw him again when i returned to the phil. last 2003. when i returned in the phil. last 2006 to celebrate my debut, my feelings for him grew stronger, and he said he liked me too.. so while i was there, we would always be together as if we were a couple. after i left the phil. we communicated through text, chat, and sometimes i would buy a phone card to call him.. i did everything i can to keep our communication going, but 3 weeks after i left the phil. our communication stopped, i kept leaving him a message asking him whats wrong but he never answered.even though we stopped communicating, i still didn't give up, i was still waiting.. i even told one of my friends here that i would give up any guy just to be with him.. and i did, all the guys that would ask me out, i would turn down. after 7 months i found someone, though its wrong, i know i liked the other guy because i saw some of the qualities of my childhood friend in him.. when i went back to phil. last 2007 to celebrate my sister's debut.. he seemed to be a different guy, my sister kept it from me, but i found out anyways.. that the guy i'd been loving for so long likes her. they would text each other all the time, i was jealous, but i kept it in. i didn't tell my sister that i knew what was going on. i know i should move on but honestly, i am still in love with the same guy for 5 years now



OMG..that really sucks...i mean ur sister..i don't know..maybe i would have done the same thing as u ...but still...the one in fault here is first ur childhood friend..but in the same time ur sister too..i mean she shouldn't kept it from u...hehe..i hope u;ll get over it soon and don't forget u can always count on us if u need support or an advice^__^


thank you so much.. well i guess my sister just doesnt want me to get hurt.. coz she kept telling me before that i should just forget about my childhood friend.. but its easier said than done.. actually right now me and my childhood friend message each other at friendster, but as friends.. i had to lie to him telling him i have moved on and that im over him.. so that i could keep him near.. i dont wanna drive him away again because of my feelings toward him.


well that's hard to do..cause as long u'll have feelings for him even if u pretend not to have it...u'll be the hurted one..if i was in ur position..i would cut it off with that guy..but remember that's the way i deal with that kind of situations...well for me is so hard to face the person once hurted me..cause maybe i'll become weak and show him my true feelings..guess i'm the type who needs to pass time for get over it...
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OMG..that really sucks...i mean ur sister..i don't know..maybe i would have done the same thing as u ...but still...the one in fault here is first ur childhood friend..but in the same time ur sister too..i mean she shouldn't kept it from u...hehe..i hope u;ll get over it soon and don't forget u can always count on us if u need support or an advice^__^


thank you so much.. well i guess my sister just doesnt want me to get hurt.. coz she kept telling me before that i should just forget about my childhood friend.. but its easier said than done.. actually right now me and my childhood friend message each other at friendster, but as friends.. i had to lie to him telling him i have moved on and that im over him.. so that i could keep him near.. i dont wanna drive him away again because of my feelings toward him.


well that's hard to do..cause as long u'll have feelings for him even if u pretend not to have it...u'll be the hurted one..if i was in ur position..i would cut it off with that guy..but remember that's the way i deal with that kind of situations...well for me is so hard to face the person once hurted me..cause maybe i'll become weak and show him my true feelings..guess i'm the type who needs to pass time for get over it...


hihihi... actually im not like this before.. i mean im the kind of person who belive in "once it is over.. its over!" i just dont know why with this guy its so different, im willing to sacrifice for him.. everynight i would try to remember everything that had happened last 2006 where all the happy memories were at, and i would smile with a smile on my face.. maybe he's the one for me, he just doesn't know it yet.. hihihi.. he's my real life example for the quote "love means loving an imperfect person perfectly"
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OMG..that really sucks...i mean ur sister..i don't know..maybe i would have done the same thing as u ...but still...the one in fault here is first ur childhood friend..but in the same time ur sister too..i mean she shouldn't kept it from u...hehe..i hope u;ll get over it soon and don't forget u can always count on us if u need support or an advice^__^


thank you so much.. well i guess my sister just doesnt want me to get hurt.. coz she kept telling me before that i should just forget about my childhood friend.. but its easier said than done.. actually right now me and my childhood friend message each other at friendster, but as friends.. i had to lie to him telling him i have moved on and that im over him.. so that i could keep him near.. i dont wanna drive him away again because of my feelings toward him.


well that's hard to do..cause as long u'll have feelings for him even if u pretend not to have it...u'll be the hurted one..if i was in ur position..i would cut it off with that guy..but remember that's the way i deal with that kind of situations...well for me is so hard to face the person once hurted me..cause maybe i'll become weak and show him my true feelings..guess i'm the type who needs to pass time for get over it...


hihihi... actually im not like this before.. i mean im the kind of person who belive in "once it is over.. its over!" i just dont know why with this guy its so different, im willing to sacrifice for him.. everynight i would try to remember everything that had happened last 2006 where all the happy memories were at, and i would smile with a smile on my face.. maybe he's the one for me, he just doesn't know it yet.. hihihi.. he's my real life example for the quote "love means loving an imperfect person perfectly"


hehe..that's true..but don't we all love an imperfect person perfectely..and in the same time..maybe we are also loved like that too...that;s love...an abstruse feeling without we can't live..hehe..now i feel so smart..hehe..i can't believe i said such a meaningful sentence..hehe j/k but it's true^__^
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uniquexroses wrote:


alexya4u wrote:


uniquexroses wrote:


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OMG..that really sucks...i mean ur sister..i don't know..maybe i would have done the same thing as u ...but still...the one in fault here is first ur childhood friend..but in the same time ur sister too..i mean she shouldn't kept it from u...hehe..i hope u;ll get over it soon and don't forget u can always count on us if u need support or an advice^__^


thank you so much.. well i guess my sister just doesnt want me to get hurt.. coz she kept telling me before that i should just forget about my childhood friend.. but its easier said than done.. actually right now me and my childhood friend message each other at friendster, but as friends.. i had to lie to him telling him i have moved on and that im over him.. so that i could keep him near.. i dont wanna drive him away again because of my feelings toward him.


well that's hard to do..cause as long u'll have feelings for him even if u pretend not to have it...u'll be the hurted one..if i was in ur position..i would cut it off with that guy..but remember that's the way i deal with that kind of situations...well for me is so hard to face the person once hurted me..cause maybe i'll become weak and show him my true feelings..guess i'm the type who needs to pass time for get over it...


hihihi... actually im not like this before.. i mean im the kind of person who belive in "once it is over.. its over!" i just dont know why with this guy its so different, im willing to sacrifice for him.. everynight i would try to remember everything that had happened last 2006 where all the happy memories were at, and i would smile with a smile on my face.. maybe he's the one for me, he just doesn't know it yet.. hihihi.. he's my real life example for the quote "love means loving an imperfect person perfectly"


hehe..that's true..but don't we all love an imperfect person perfectely..and in the same time..maybe we are also loved like that too...that;s love...an abstruse feeling without we can't live..hehe..now i feel so smart..hehe..i can't believe i said such a meaningful sentence..hehe j/k but it's true^__^


hihihi... yup.. you're so funny
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alexya4u wrote:


uniquexroses wrote:


alexya4u wrote:


uniquexroses wrote:


alexya4u wrote:


OMG..that really sucks...i mean ur sister..i don't know..maybe i would have done the same thing as u ...but still...the one in fault here is first ur childhood friend..but in the same time ur sister too..i mean she shouldn't kept it from u...hehe..i hope u;ll get over it soon and don't forget u can always count on us if u need support or an advice^__^


thank you so much.. well i guess my sister just doesnt want me to get hurt.. coz she kept telling me before that i should just forget about my childhood friend.. but its easier said than done.. actually right now me and my childhood friend message each other at friendster, but as friends.. i had to lie to him telling him i have moved on and that im over him.. so that i could keep him near.. i dont wanna drive him away again because of my feelings toward him.


well that's hard to do..cause as long u'll have feelings for him even if u pretend not to have it...u'll be the hurted one..if i was in ur position..i would cut it off with that guy..but remember that's the way i deal with that kind of situations...well for me is so hard to face the person once hurted me..cause maybe i'll become weak and show him my true feelings..guess i'm the type who needs to pass time for get over it...


hihihi... actually im not like this before.. i mean im the kind of person who belive in "once it is over.. its over!" i just dont know why with this guy its so different, im willing to sacrifice for him.. everynight i would try to remember everything that had happened last 2006 where all the happy memories were at, and i would smile with a smile on my face.. maybe he's the one for me, he just doesn't know it yet.. hihihi.. he's my real life example for the quote "love means loving an imperfect person perfectly"


hehe..that's true..but don't we all love an imperfect person perfectely..and in the same time..maybe we are also loved like that too...that;s love...an abstruse feeling without we can't live..hehe..now i feel so smart..hehe..i can't believe i said such a meaningful sentence..hehe j/k but it's true^__^


hihihi... yup.. you're so funny


yup...thx... most of my friends tell me that..hehe..^__^ ...so i should not let them down...hehe..smile and it;s nothing that u can;t overcome..OMG what happens to me..when i become so deep..hmmm that;s odd O_o..lol
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ok.. i posted this story in another thread cuz i didnt know this thread existed

I have a boy i like in school.. then I have 3 best friends.. now.. this boy.. i cant understand him.. ok.. i understand him.. lets get to the point.. he likes one of my best friends.. RARE!!!

well, i dont care that much though.. cuz.. its only LIKE.. not Love.. but I've grown to hate him but i dont express it when im with my friends.. only with him.. i ignore/avoid him.. well, sumtimes it cant be helped but chat a lil with him becuz my friends r around.. oh and we're still grade 6.. elementary.. so.. were still 11 and 12.. we as in my friends and the boy:sweatingbullets: ..

And theres another one who's going after my best friend.. the boyA and guyB are.. kind of.. fighting fighting.. lol.. boyA's biggest move is giving my best friend a bracelet ..he's kida fast y' know.. and my best friend wears it often..I also tease her bout it

oh and i didnt post this in the other thread.. i also thought he liked me cuz one time, we had a group meeting at his house.. we were bout 4 ppl there.. him included.. while the other 2 were talking talking he smiled at me.. and.. cant help but smile back.. i hate him
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you're right headmistress... it does hurt liking/loving someone so much for a long time thinking that there's a chance, then all of a sudden you see him/her with someone else.. my story is kind of similar, but different.

my story is..

i've liked one of my childhood friend ever since i saw him again when i returned to the phil. last 2003. when i returned in the phil. last 2006 to celebrate my debut, my feelings for him grew stronger, and he said he liked me too.. so while i was there, we would always be together as if we were a couple. after i left the phil. we communicated through text, chat, and sometimes i would buy a phone card to call him.. i did everything i can to keep our communication going, but 3 weeks after i left the phil. our communication stopped, i kept leaving him a message asking him whats wrong but he never answered.even though we stopped communicating, i still didn't give up, i was still waiting.. i even told one of my friends here that i would give up any guy just to be with him.. and i did, all the guys that would ask me out, i would turn down. after 7 months i found someone, though its wrong, i know i liked the other guy because i saw some of the qualities of my childhood friend in him.. when i went back to phil. last 2007 to celebrate my sister's debut.. he seemed to be a different guy, my sister kept it from me, but i found out anyways.. that the guy i'd been loving for so long likes her. they would text each other all the time, i was jealous, but i kept it in. i didn't tell my sister that i knew what was going on. i know i should move on but honestly, i am still in love with the same guy for 5 years now



ouch.. that's a major cut in your heart.. it's a good thing you didn't go ballistic and hurt your sister.. but she shouldn't have kept it secret.. i think there's is someone for you who is better than him.. you'll never know..
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uniquexroses wrote:

you're right headmistress... it does hurt liking/loving someone so much for a long time thinking that there's a chance, then all of a sudden you see him/her with someone else.. my story is kind of similar, but different.

my story is..

i've liked one of my childhood friend ever since i saw him again when i returned to the phil. last 2003. when i returned in the phil. last 2006 to celebrate my debut, my feelings for him grew stronger, and he said he liked me too.. so while i was there, we would always be together as if we were a couple. after i left the phil. we communicated through text, chat, and sometimes i would buy a phone card to call him.. i did everything i can to keep our communication going, but 3 weeks after i left the phil. our communication stopped, i kept leaving him a message asking him whats wrong but he never answered.even though we stopped communicating, i still didn't give up, i was still waiting.. i even told one of my friends here that i would give up any guy just to be with him.. and i did, all the guys that would ask me out, i would turn down. after 7 months i found someone, though its wrong, i know i liked the other guy because i saw some of the qualities of my childhood friend in him.. when i went back to phil. last 2007 to celebrate my sister's debut.. he seemed to be a different guy, my sister kept it from me, but i found out anyways.. that the guy i'd been loving for so long likes her. they would text each other all the time, i was jealous, but i kept it in. i didn't tell my sister that i knew what was going on. i know i should move on but honestly, i am still in love with the same guy for 5 years now



ouch.. that's a major cut in your heart.. it's a good thing you didn't go ballistic and hurt your sister.. but she shouldn't have kept it secret.. i think there's is someone for you who is better than him.. you'll never know..


thank you.. i hope so too..
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