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There are alot of relationship problems for many reasons, but heres one possible theory.
The type of person that we are attracted too are not actually the one's that we want a relationship with.Is this true.

If it is,why. Nature wants to preserve life, happiness leads to better state of life. If we had less relationship problems, then we would be happier and do better work.
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what?
could you please clarify the question and purpose of this thread?
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You need to rephrase that.
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artgeek707 wrote:

what?
could you please clarify the question and purpose of this thread?


I saying, does sexual attraction not match what you want in a relationship. and if it doesn't why has nature created in this way, because it would make more sence if they did match.
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One word: sex
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what is wrong with how its worded.
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another relation ship thread. wow you people suck at having a relationship. heres an idea. ;eave the computer and go places where you can meet girls.
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PurpleWasabi wrote:


artgeek707 wrote:

what?
could you please clarify the question and purpose of this thread?


I saying, does sexual attraction not match what you want in a relationship. and if it doesn't why has nature created in this way, because it would make more sence if they did match.


Okay thanks, well I think that because nature isn't perfect a lot of people have this problem. And sometimes it does match. My parents have been happy with eachother for a very long time now with no huge fights or anything.
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PurpleWasabi wrote:


artgeek707 wrote:

what?
could you please clarify the question and purpose of this thread?


I saying, does sexual attraction not match what you want in a relationship. and if it doesn't why has nature created in this way, because it would make more sence if they did match.


Like anyone here or anywhere is supposed to know why the universe is created like it is or why people have so many conflicts with there own emotion..or why the universe was created in a way that made it so people would have conflicts with their own sel being and blah blah blah
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PurpleWasabi wrote:

what is wrong with how its worded.


What exactly do you mean "Difference"?
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another relation ship thread. wow you people suck at having a relationship. heres an idea. ;eave the computer and go places where you can meet girls.


i'm not trying to get advice. I'm acyually just question nature's machanics. Like just for philosophical purpose.
Posted 3/31/08
Hmm if I understand your question then it's probably because people tend to look for characteristics in others that they want themselves. For example someone who's naturally shy will find themselves naturally inclined towards someone who's maybe more extrovert.
So for that reason you become attracted to people who's personality does not neccessarily match your own.
The whole opposites attract thing.

Was this an answer to your question? ^^
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artgeek707 wrote:


PurpleWasabi wrote:


artgeek707 wrote:

what?
could you please clarify the question and purpose of this thread?


I saying, does sexual attraction not match what you want in a relationship. and if it doesn't why has nature created in this way, because it would make more sence if they did match.


Okay thanks, well I think that because nature isn't perfect a lot of people have this problem. And sometimes it does match. My parents have been happy with eachother for a very long time now with no huge fights or anything.


Why was the first wording confusing. It said the same thing.
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PurpleWasabi wrote:


artgeek707 wrote:


PurpleWasabi wrote:


artgeek707 wrote:

what?
could you please clarify the question and purpose of this thread?


I saying, does sexual attraction not match what you want in a relationship. and if it doesn't why has nature created in this way, because it would make more sence if they did match.


Okay thanks, well I think that because nature isn't perfect a lot of people have this problem. And sometimes it does match. My parents have been happy with eachother for a very long time now with no huge fights or anything.


Why was the first wording confusing. It said the same thing.


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