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What is love?
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SummerKiss wrote:


Pigeon309 wrote:


SummerKiss wrote:

In my opinion, love is more than just a feeling or an emotion. Its a choice. When you "feel" that connection with that person, you choose to give your heart to him or her. You choose to be honest and trusting to that person. I just cant buy the whole "love is what you feel" thing as well as the love at first sight nonsense....

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I disagree. I know I do not choose to love people. How can people possiblychoose what to feel? I will admit that we have a choicein our ACTIONS, but,no matter what you do, that won't change the fact that you feel the love you do for others.


Well I am glad that you disagreed with me in a civilized manner...I was afraid I was going to get flamed for my post but I respect your opinion. I understand your opinion and I somewhat agree with you. I think I shouldve been more clear on what I said. You are right that you cannot choose what you feel (that was dumb of me to think that) for a person. I was trying to say that love isnt just this feeling or emotion that we often see it as, because when we see it only as that we tend to confuse it with infactuation. I was trying to say that it is full of something more...your choice in actions and deeds define how much you feel for a person. I hope I made it much more clear
Oh, right, now I understand. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Yeah, I can see what you mean now.
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love is a chemical reaction
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lol well love varies depending on the person so somebody may say that it's just crap that wuss feels or others may say that love is when u can't stop thinking about them but for me i have no clue yett since i haven't fallen in love yett but i do have crush but it's different than love i think when you really love someone you will wanna be with them, when you see them with someone else your jealous, when your not with them the you just want to die, and when they die you die... nahh! i don't really know it's just hard to explain love exactly... so i don't think you can explain it and IBeHops lol i think ur justt stealing the words out of everyone's mouth aren't ya
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Love is basically the ability to put up with each other's flaws.
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love is pain
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love is everything and anything.
it can be good and it can be bad
you can get happy smiles and happy moments
but you can also be in pain, sadness and depression
only YOU can define love once you finally have it.
only then will you know what the true meaning of love is
you may not be able to define it
but you know how it feels inside your heart, maybe too good for words, or too bad to say in words
until then, for me love is just something that breaks and aches the heart, so you tell me
what is love?
"love is like a ghost, many are talking about it, but few have seen it."
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love...is a chemical imbalance which leads to irrational behavior that hinders common, everyday activities where one is swept away by a passing breeze as thoughts of the person he/she loves whispers into their ears sweet incoherences....love is fake....an illusion...an excuse to reason lustful intents with righteous, ambiguities...love is the reason for global warming: the infinite sighs of love-struck fools contributes to the melting of the ice caps (which could also serve as a metaphor for the melting in their hearts)...that is love, imo...
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love is an intimate feeling you share with the other person.
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Its a song

"What is Love?
Baby don't hurt me
Baby don't hurt me....no more."


http://charliestereo.imeem.com/music/5Rb4bvP0/haddaway_what_is_love/
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I don't know if this has been said (probably), but when it comes to biology love is just a bunch of chemical reactions that help us find a partner with a set of genes that best matches with ours to increase the chance of producing an ideal child most suited to our environment.

But when it comes to emotion, I think love is the willingness to sacrifice your own happiness to make your loved one(s) happy, and seeing them happy would make you happy.
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Love is a Katok(Crazyness) that affect your Toktok(Head) and make your heart Tibok-tibok(Pump)
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...LOVE is a Wonderful feeling that makes the world go round... ^_^...
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pain in disguise
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Love Is Something Selfish Ppl Blame You For T hat But You CAn't Blame Urself Love Is Something That Makes You Happy And Sad
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Love is ---

Being so alright and comfortable in your own skin that you are able to go outside of yourself and do what is best for the beloved - not because you will get something in reward, not to hold it over their heads for payback, just because it is the right thing to do.

Love is being able to adapt, to change yourself for the better, to see the good in somebody else and want that goodness. Love is being able to say, "I see the goodness in you, and I choose the good in you for the rest of my life."

And it's as simple as that.

Love is not jumping into everybody's bed.
Love is not jealous, or selfish, or masochistic, or cold.

Love is warm, like a hug.

Love is not, "I'll try this for twenty years, and then jump on a new train."

Love is not, "I'll love my wife today, but tomorrow, I don't know if I'm up for it."

Love is being consistent, being capable, being adaptable, being dependable, and being predictable, so you can be there for the beloved and any children you may have together.

Love is knowing the good in someone better than they do; Love is knowing the bad in someone and helping them deal with it, caring about them regardless of their falls("while my eyes a thousand errors see... it is my heart that loves.." or whatever, Shakespear, pretty)

Love is the willingness to settle down and be comfortable in this moment, to share the peace of this moment with someone for the rest of your life.

Love does not give up(which is why I do not believe in divorce) - Real love does not give up, and if you can find it in your hearts to be honest and good people, to help one another and always remember that you love, you can make miracles happen.

Be absolutely certain, as certain as you can be, before you take that vow, before you pack your bags to move in, before you say 'yes' to that fifth or sixth date. Don't get so caught up in the feeling of "oh, he likes me, he likes me, oh, I must be in love, oh, I have butterflies" feelings that you forget your own head. Never lose yourself completely before you can be sure that he/she'll catch you when you fall, regardless of the distance).

Love is not fleeting - Love is not always that lovey-dovey, let's snuggle by the fireplace and giggle feeling you experience when you first meet. Love is not always so new and exciting - The burning passion you feel initially may die down to the soothing and consistant warmth of a fireplace, always embracing and warming, always there to comfort you.

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