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What is love?
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Posted 4/8/08

SummerKiss wrote:


Pigeon309 wrote:


SummerKiss wrote:

In my opinion, love is more than just a feeling or an emotion. Its a choice. When you "feel" that connection with that person, you choose to give your heart to him or her. You choose to be honest and trusting to that person. I just cant buy the whole "love is what you feel" thing as well as the love at first sight nonsense....

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I disagree. I know I do not choose to love people. How can people possiblychoose what to feel? I will admit that we have a choicein our ACTIONS, but,no matter what you do, that won't change the fact that you feel the love you do for others.


Well I am glad that you disagreed with me in a civilized manner...I was afraid I was going to get flamed for my post but I respect your opinion. I understand your opinion and I somewhat agree with you. I think I shouldve been more clear on what I said. You are right that you cannot choose what you feel (that was dumb of me to think that) for a person. I was trying to say that love isnt just this feeling or emotion that we often see it as, because when we see it only as that we tend to confuse it with infactuation. I was trying to say that it is full of something more...your choice in actions and deeds define how much you feel for a person. I hope I made it much more clear


Agreed. You cannot choose how you feel - but you can choose what to do about it, and whether or not to act on those feelings.
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28 / F / Himitsu♥♥ ~_^
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When you can die for someone.
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Why do we need to think? i just need a dictionary. o_o
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22 / M / Tomorow...
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Posted 4/10/08
what is love?

its all you need.


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Baby don't hurt me.
Posted 4/11/08

Poopkeeper wrote:

Baby don't hurt me.


dont hurt me. no more.

lmao. thats awseome.
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Posted 4/11/08
-------------->love is like a rosary that's full of mystery...^^,
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28 / F / spinning world
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Posted 4/12/08
For me, Love is like a flower that slowly blossoms.
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Posted 4/12/08

helena91 wrote:

love is a four letter word


lol
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Posted 4/12/08 , edited 4/12/08
love is 4 stupid and idiot and retarded ppl
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Posted 4/12/08

ANonGigazz wrote:

Love is ---

Being so alright and comfortable in your own skin that you are able to go outside of yourself and do what is best for the beloved - not because you will get something in reward, not to hold it over their heads for payback, just because it is the right thing to do.

Love is being able to adapt, to change yourself for the better, to see the good in somebody else and want that goodness. Love is being able to say, "I see the goodness in you, and I choose the good in you for the rest of my life."

And it's as simple as that.

Love is not jumping into everybody's bed.
Love is not jealous, or selfish, or masochistic, or cold.

Love is warm, like a hug.

Love is not, "I'll try this for twenty years, and then jump on a new train."

Love is not, "I'll love my wife today, but tomorrow, I don't know if I'm up for it."

Love is being consistent, being capable, being adaptable, being dependable, and being predictable, so you can be there for the beloved and any children you may have together.

Love is knowing the good in someone better than they do; Love is knowing the bad in someone and helping them deal with it, caring about them regardless of their falls("while my eyes a thousand errors see... it is my heart that loves.." or whatever, Shakespear, pretty)

Love is the willingness to settle down and be comfortable in this moment, to share the peace of this moment with someone for the rest of your life.

Love does not give up(which is why I do not believe in divorce) - Real love does not give up, and if you can find it in your hearts to be honest and good people, to help one another and always remember that you love, you can make miracles happen.

Be absolutely certain, as certain as you can be, before you take that vow, before you pack your bags to move in, before you say 'yes' to that fifth or sixth date. Don't get so caught up in the feeling of "oh, he likes me, he likes me, oh, I must be in love, oh, I have butterflies" feelings that you forget your own head. Never lose yourself completely before you can be sure that he/she'll catch you when you fall, regardless of the distance).

Love is not fleeting - Love is not always that lovey-dovey, let's snuggle by the fireplace and giggle feeling you experience when you first meet. Love is not always so new and exciting - The burning passion you feel initially may die down to the soothing and consistant warmth of a fireplace, always embracing and warming, always there to comfort you.



Lol that's a nice one! I especially love the part "Real love does not give up"...I just give up all the time when things become hard, or I lose confidence in myself...I guess it wasn't love then ^^

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Love is Love. Love is War. Love is loving
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love is something i just want to xperience....
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4 mhe... l0ve is n0thing...
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