when u noticed something about your mate, don't jump into conclussion, ask him/her... if that thing does'nt work, don't think anymore, just split up!... joke! what am trying to say is that, ask question of what your misunderstandings about, and when you feel him/her is having an affair, investigate further before doing a move, and if have proven right, talk to each other CALMLY as possible, tel him/her what you plan to do after what happened... and everthing will work out just fine...
DON'T NEVER, EVER show him/her weakness...
-he/she might use it against u
DON'T NEVER, EVER cry in front of him/her
-he/ she might think that its a big deal for you, or he/she night think your affected, be casual in your conversation...stay CALM
DON'T FREAK OUT
-he/she migth think that you're crazy and use it as a reason for you to split up
DON'T NEVER, EVER show your affected, that its as if he/she's your world
It's okay to feel bad after break-ups just don't let him/her see how you can get affected of what's just happened, their are other people in the world, just remember ONE AT A TIME, and NEVER THINK OF USING OTHER JUST FOR REVENGE or HAVING REVENGE ALONE!
THANK YOU and HAVE A LOVELY WEAK AHEAD!
2nD yEar, 1sT SEm....waaaa!!! xD