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Posted 4/5/08 , edited 4/5/08
you know the time you said that you weren't... but you couldn't escape it...
me, it took over 3 years to get out of the denial stage... mostly because of others around me and I was unsure on alot of things that I know I shouldn't talk about...
Posted 4/5/08
so... you want us to tell about OUR denial stages?
Posted 4/5/08
well... it took some time... but i think i still dont know just yet... i like them but then i dont like them... it's undeterminable...
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Posted 4/6/08

dIECHERS wrote:

so... you want us to tell about OUR denial stages?


yes ^_^
Posted 4/6/08

houck wrote:

yes ^_^


Very well then, for me the denial stage was actually quite short. maybe about a week. I've always been really open with my feelings.
Posted 4/6/08
it took me 4 years to geet out of the denail stage
Posted 4/11/08 , edited 4/12/08
not in denial since i was 13 hehehe just took me about a year
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Posted 4/14/08
never had one, i was always into both, i really think the denial stage is based on your surrounding environment. cus where i live it's pretty open, but a friend i know just got over hers and where she came from had very closed minded thinking...

that's just my opinion though!
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Posted 6/27/08
well i have known for a while though it took me a really long time to get my thoughts straight...i was really confused. i haven't told anybody that i know because i m afraid of their reactions. i have a lot of conservative people in my family who are really oppinionated on these matters.
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Posted 7/22/08
i wasn't in denial, just confused i think, i told my sister how i felt and she said it would go away, but three years i still felt the same so i said screw her, i know what i am
Posted 8/2/08
i was never in denial i always knew since i was little i was gonna be bi (even when i never knew what bisexual ment ) i just love the freedom XD
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Posted 8/3/08
well this is...interesting. denial? my entire life, always knew though thought it was "wrong" and well like 3 months ago i said to hell with it, and said i'm bi though not really i ended up being gay, lol.
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LOL I actually never went through a denial stage...I'm so naive and innocent some times - i freak out about myself recalling it -- LOL @___@ I was like 11 when i realize i could be attracted to girls, and the theory to tell others never came to my mind O_o; other than to tell the girl that I liked (my best friend =_=;) that i liked her, which I did, the following night >_>; LOL, and then like, 2 months later, i started guessing i was lesbian, which it is what i am....and i just accepted it a month afterwards O_O; I was never in the denial stage saying 'no way, this is wrong, immoral, I couldn't, i shouldn't' any of those LOL, even my coming out was my accident (i was 13 almost 14) LOL @__@ my friends was asking me for the name of my crush, and I couldn't think of a name to lie fast enough and I just told them O_o; the theory of fear never came to me, the theory of rejection never occurred to me.... O___O; (everything went fine btw, LOL, but there's no way i'd tell my parents before they pay for my university fees xD hahahahahahahahahahahaha)
Posted 8/7/08

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LOL I actually never went through a denial stage...I'm so naive and innocent some times - i freak out about myself recalling it -- LOL @___@ I was like 11 when i realize i could be attracted to girls, and the theory to tell others never came to my mind O_o; other than to tell the girl that I liked (my best friend =_=;) that i liked her, which I did, the following night >_>; LOL, and then like, 2 months later, i started guessing i was lesbian, which it is what i am....and i just accepted it a month afterwards O_O; I was never in the denial stage saying 'no way, this is wrong, immoral, I couldn't, i shouldn't' any of those LOL, even my coming out was my accident (i was 13 almost 14) LOL @__@ my friends was asking me for the name of my crush, and I couldn't think of a name to lie fast enough and I just told them O_o; the theory of fear never came to me, the theory of rejection never occurred to me.... O___O; (everything went fine btw, LOL, but there's no way i'd tell my parents before they pay for my university fees xD hahahahahahahahahahahaha)


=_=.....u r soooooo lucky.......my experience is the exact opposite of urs..EXACT opposite....
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