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If you think pretty girl or handsome guys are mean,think again!
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I watched a lot of movies,and i`ve read a lot of books,and they always say that good looking people are always mean,even the anime ( not all ) is affected by that huge mistake.Oh come on,in the reality it`s the opposite.All girls from my class who are fat hate me,and can always feel confortable arround the good ones.Did you notice that feeling ?

Hey did anyone noticed that in the movies,books,anime,etc,they say that good looking people are mean?Thing about it.
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Too true man, i get called mean-lookin all the time! Nah, seriously though, its because pretty people can be arses to people and not care, whereas uglies gotta be careful who they offend. .

I aint sayin its right, or my opinion, but thats how it goes. I personally get on just as well with uglies or lookers. Its what you do that defines you. Of course there is a point beyond all reason, like REALLY fugly people.
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l don't think that all good looking ppl are mean
it's true that some of them are really mean --> l always ignore this kind of ppl to not let them beleive that they r the best because their beauty...

l have live with ppl who measure other ppl by their looking and l hate that
Posted 10/9/07
No I don't think its true either, but sometimes it can be. Some people can think they're so pretty, that they don't notice how vain they're acting or how insulting they can be to people.

You shouldn't judge a book by its cover.
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Most ugly guys hate me..haha. I mean the handsome ones were much friendlier. Not that i'm biased though. Even the uglier girls hate me too.
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Exactly, but its always fun to call the stuck-up ones ugly and rank to their face. Sometimes they cry! Ah, it gets them so worked up.
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Everyone has different personnalities.
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I think that its a matter of opinion. Has anyone actually heard of the saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder? So in effect everyone is beautiful whilst at the same time no one is.

When I was at school I was bullied for a lot of different reasons like where my parents came from, my hair, the tone of my skin etc. I think the people bullying me were both physically and mentally ugly.

Whilst I was at uni there were girls who thought they were good looking and some who thought they were ugly and both groups hated the other. I don't really understand why because in terms of looks they were all plain looking and stupid in my opinion.

I have noticed that in the media beautiful people are often portrayed as being mean but that isn't always the case for example take any of the disney princesses as examples of kind physically beautiful people. Then also look at most Korean romance dramas the lead actress is normally the best looking woman in the show and she's nearly always nice.

In real life I have found that lots of people are mean regardless of what they look like. Fat and/or ugly people seem to be diabolically clever and evil whilst thin and/or good looking people seem to think they are the best thing since sliced bread. But then maybe I just live near a lot of horrible people.
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Mocha, that prob means your good lookin and surrounded by jealous uglies. Or your a mean bitch who makes fun of them. I aint sayin thats the case, just one of two scenarios. Im sure your very pleasant and not a bitch. Though i got no clue who you are so that may not count for much.

Yeah, if someone is mean then becomes good lookin, it could just make them big-headed. Whereas i someone is mean and becomes ugly, they just get more spiteful. Either way theperson is a knob.
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I don't think it has anything to do with looks, but confidence. Though most good-looking people may be the confident ones=p

still, I don't think there's such a thing as "mean" people. At least I've never met 'em=) people are always nice to me=) ... If people act mean once in a while... it's mostly because you've hurt them. And that's not their fault, it's yours. And you're the one who can solve it too=) It's quite easy... Just smileeee
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I think in animes the good looking people usually just "pretend" to be mean, while they actually are good people at heart?
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Hey Seeing Stars, it seems like you are living in a fantasy world. People that rape and kill children or racial abuse people or batter their wives are mean / evil. People that pick on other people for whatever or no reason are mean. Actually people that take out their frustration on others are mean as well. If your having a bad day or feel bad about yourself then it's no one's fault so don't treat others badly.

I was bullied because my parents are from Barbados, I was a shy person that didn't even say anything to anyone so what exactly did I do to deserve it or to be hurt by someone else. How did I provoke them? I worked hard in school and got good grades and they bullied me for that.

People particularly children do mean nasty things because they are either insecure or jealous and that isn't the fault of the person they are attacking it's theres.

You know your statement really makes me wonder how you would justify someone turning to me in class and calling me a fake black person because I have light brown skin, when I wasn't talking to them, didn't know them didn't attack them. So what is it my fault that God made my skin lighter then theirs?

So hold on what about the little boy who got shot to death as he was walking home from soccer practice by some guy he didn't know. What did he do to deserve that? What was his neck was in the way of the bullet?

I think if you have never really experienced something like that you shouldn't comment on it because people have been the victim of mean people might find your comments that they are to blame for being attacked, hurtful and annoying.
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Eh, Nature Nurture theory tbh... Is a baby born with evil within it's heart or is Evil born through the people who interact with it?

In my opinion it's very dependent on the person in question, since everyone effectivly has a 'soul', that tendency to go left or right. It's nothing you learn it's simply something you feel.

Good looking people can be mean, they can also be nice. The same goes for anything, You can be mean, and you can be nice. Generaly everyone is equal in how much they exert each one, we just tend to pay more attention to pretty people, so of course they're noticed more.

However, thats just my opinion on the subject.
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yeah, and people who have a nice smile are the good ones
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Phoenasia wrote:

Hey Seeing Stars, it seems like you are living in a fantasy world. People that rape and kill children or racial abuse people or batter their wives are mean / evil. People that pick on other people for whatever or no reason are mean. Actually people that take out their frustration on others are mean as well. If your having a bad day or feel bad about yourself then it's no one's fault so don't treat others badly.

I was bullied because my parents are from Barbados, I was a shy person that didn't even say anything to anyone so what exactly did I do to deserve it or to be hurt by someone else. How did I provoke them? I worked hard in school and got good grades and they bullied me for that.

People particularly children do mean nasty things because they are either insecure or jealous and that isn't the fault of the person they are attacking it's theres.

You know your statement really makes me wonder how you would justify someone turning to me in class and calling me a fake black person because I have light brown skin, when I wasn't talking to them, didn't know them didn't attack them. So what is it my fault that God made my skin lighter then theirs?

So hold on what about the little boy who got shot to death as he was walking home from soccer practice by some guy he didn't know. What did he do to deserve that? What was his neck was in the way of the bullet?

I think if you have never really experienced something like that you shouldn't comment on it because people have been the victim of mean people might find your comments that they are to blame for being attacked, hurtful and annoying.



OOOK... So I guess I have allot to answer to now, don't I? Uhm... Ok I'll admit you got me on one point there. I suppose it's not always your fault if people do nasty things to you. I was thinking of it in a different setting... Hm... I still don't think there's such a thing as "bad" or "mean" people though. Those people are simply lost. There's allot of good things in them too, I'm sure. Look, I was bullied a little when I was younger too, by some guys in my class because of my stubborness mostly. (They didn't like that they weren't able to make me bow to their commands like the rest of the children). But... I don't think they were mean, because I did hurt them too. So it was more a kind of two-sided thing. All of that's solved now though=) Now I think they're nice....

I think racism is more down to ignorance than people wanting to be mean. Evil people don't exist. They just don't know any better. And it is my belief that if you just try to talk to people about why you're not getting along, it'll solve itself out eventually.

I am very well aware that some people think I live in a fantasy world, I'm told so once in a while. I guess you could say I'm naive. But I don't think so... I just like believeing in the best in people. But the fantasyworld... let me have it, I like it there=)
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