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If you think pretty girl or handsome guys are mean,think again!
Posted 10/10/07
if someone is mean to you all you can do is be mean to them
try sticking up for yourself instead of going emo

ps. friends are only to help control boredom
you don't need friends.. concentrate on your school work and think ahead
when you are older do you think you will still keep in touch?
you will walk buy your enemy in the streets in 10 years time and probably not even notice


i need friends though.. to protect myself being popular stops immature comments
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Posted 10/10/07
I think this only happens in dramas....I have lots of good-looking friends, (women and men) they're not mean at all. (some conceited ones, but not mean,)
Posted 10/10/07
If your ugly = do not get to interact with so call hot females at all.
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Posted 10/10/07
I think we must measure ppl by their personality not by their looking
because the mean of beauty is the heart beauty
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Posted 10/10/07
I don't think you should ever judge someone before you meet/know them...

That being said, I think the reason behind this trend is that a person behaves differently when they are good-looking. They get more attention, they are more confident, they can even be a little vain/conceited...

I'm not saying this is true for all good-looking people...I'm just saying that I think this might be where it stems from...
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Posted 10/10/07
everybody can be both mean and kind to others. when i was a child i had bully who would beat everyday steal my things, it even went as far as beating me in the face with a hockey stick, but at one point i saw him playing with his sister and being very kind to her, this confused me, how could somebody i thought to be evil be nice? i recently met him again in a book store and it turns out the reason he hated me was because he always saw me playing with my mother at the park. being an orphan who's adopted parents beat him, caused him to be jealous of me. it doesn't mean he was right to beat me, it just means that he was taking out his anger at his adoptive parents on me.

as for looks being any way to tell whether someone is mean or not, i think the entire idea of it is stupid.

the difference between who is ugly and who is beautiful is all in there self image. thus someone who thinks of them self as ugly will automatically see the person they are being bullied by as beautiful since they consider them self ugly, and thus blame it on beautiful people. The same goes for people who think they are beautiful they see there tormentor as ugly because they are convinced that they are beautiful.

i know this is not always the case because peoples self images are not always so extreme, but i think my theory can be applied to the majority of cases successfully.
Posted 10/10/07
uh, I don't see what you mean. In most movies, anime, and dramas everyone's good looking. Not just the mean people.
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Posted 10/10/07

noodles1631 wrote:

this thread is a load of bull


then why don't you leave?
Posted 10/10/07

harunekoneko wrote:


noodles1631 wrote:

this thread is a load of bull


then why don't you leave?


lol yeah i was gonna say that
all threads are actually "bull" but when you are bored it kind of satisfy you a bit
that's why you are here right?
you wouldn't be awfully busy and come check out the forums
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Posted 10/10/07

BubbleGumx wrote:

No I don't think its true either, but sometimes it can be. Some people can think they're so pretty, that they don't notice how vain they're acting or how insulting they can be to people.

You shouldn't judge a book by its cover.

^ Yep I totally agree.

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Posted 10/13/07
Me too.
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25 / F / Hell
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Posted 10/13/07
im a pretty girl (or so they say) but im not mean. i like hanging out with everyone! no body should get left out or shunned just because of being who they are.

stereotyping is a main cause of misunderstandings and problems
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Posted 10/13/07
Darlingdeathangel, you seem pretty obsessed with the occult to me haha...
your display picture and hell??
I guess being caring and ones own preferences are not mutually exclusive.
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Posted 10/13/07
People just have insecurities I guess and lash out at others to make themselves feel better...
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Posted 10/13/07
I hate popularity,it makes some people feeling unequal.
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