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Hate and Holding Grudges
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Posted 10/13/07 , edited 1/4/08
Do you bear a grudge when someone has done something you don't like or something?

Is it good for you to hate for long?
how long does this hate of yours last for?

This might seem mean and cruel, but I hate both my 3rd oldest sister and my dad a whole lot. They really get on my nerves. Everytime we go somewhere a fight starts between them. My dad is really annoying and never shuts up, he's always talking about how bad his life is being ruined and why some of it is us kids faults.

I should mention my mom moved out with my 3 youngest siblings and my dad was the cause of it all. He started it all. It's his fault for starting this whole thing. I will never forgive him

Anyways, I realize this is not cool and all, but do you think it's really that bad?

(sorry for the repeat if it has been up already)

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Please give your opinion on this topic and just use my story as an example. I'm happy about the replies that I get on my story whether they're good or bad, but i'd like us to stick to the topic. Thank you for posting on this topic everyone.
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Posted 10/13/07
Yes, why not?
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I can't help but hate a handful of people.

It is my nature.
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I don't really hate people, your just hurting yourself for thinking of it too much, so you have to take action and get it over with.
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I need to hate people, or else I'd be too nice. >_>
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If you have the inability to hate then you are indeed a pushover and worthless.

Trevor (OP)
Posted 10/13/07
I totally hate my dad. Since my mom died, he's been more naggy, abusive and a shitty price of crap. I know you may think Im a punk but you have to meet that son of a gun to understand how Im feeling.
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24 / F / Eau Claire, WI, US
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Posted 10/13/07

Crunchy_RolI wrote:

Yes, why not?


which question are you answering?
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27 / M / Canada
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Posted 10/13/07
Sure hate is good.. sometimes? =\
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28 / M / North Carolina
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I hate humanity as a whole
Ironically, I love hate, keeps the mind focused, and keeps the body warm
and gives you hope
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29 / M / Earth
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Posted 10/13/07
awww 5foryou my family life is kinda like urs, we have much to discuss lolz
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27 / M / Canada
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Posted 10/13/07
unleash your anger,.............and you path to the dark side will be complete.
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no b/c if you hold a petty grudge for too long and something happens to that person you will regret it a hell of a lot. i know that for a damn fact
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5foryou wrote:
This might seem mean and cruel, but I hate both my 3rd oldest sister and my dad a whole lot. They really get on my nerves. Everytime we go somewhere a fight starts between them. My dad is really annoying and never shuts up, he's always talking about how bad his life is being ruined and why some of it is us kids faults.

I should mention my mom moved out with my 3 youngest siblings and my dad was the cause of it all. He started it all. It's his fault for starting this whole thing. I will never forgive him

lol i think ur not wrong to hate that old guy

but personally i dont bear grudge.....or something so loser like that
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24 / F / usa,wisconsin
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Posted 10/13/07

Jeremy_N wrote:

Umm…and who are you living with? Your father or mother?

In the case that you were living with your father,
Maybe your dad isn’t that bad…maybe it’s because you missed your mother and sisters a lot and you take it out on your father under the form of hatred…Beside, if you really hate him that much, why did you chose to live with him?

And you are now a 15-year-old girl, why don’t you try to bring your family together again?


I live with my dad. The reason is because the truth didn't spill out untill after my mom moved out. We had all already decided who to live with already.

Yeah, i know i'm 15 yrs old, but even though if i tried i couldn't. My dad talks with so many girls. If I try to talk with him he'll give me a big lecture, and he'll go on repeating himself over and over again. If you try to oppose on anything he says, it'll just result into a longer lecture then what you could've have, a short one.

It's not just my dad now, my mom has started to talk with lot's of guys now too. So now they're both bad people and they both blame each other. Then it all comes back to us kids. They tell us how bad it is and all, they don't give us a chance to recover, and take it all in. More and more pressure is just added.

Anyways, it's all really complicated now, even my 19 yr old sis ( the eldest child) can't do any thing about it. What i'm afraid of is how it'll affect my young siblings in elementry like in the future, this isn't a really good thing for them right now, know what i mean?


XsYackosX wrote:

awww 5foryou my family life is kinda like urs, we have much to discuss lolz


lol
i feel your pain
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