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Is It Offensive To Call A Woman Gorgeous? Or Let her know she's Beautiful?
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Only if you aren't looking at her face when you say it.
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If she's hideous and knows it, then yes...
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71 / F / Pearl of the Orient
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Awe, what a gentleman. Well, girls kind of know when they look like shit, so, yeah. A lot of the time, we see what others don't, because we're soooo self-conscious and all. If women know they look bad an dthey're told they're beautiful, it's then considered a lie, which leads to thunderstorms for the rest of her day, ROFL. But not all of them are so sensitive. If you're going to tell a woman she looks beautiful to lighten up her day, say that YOU think she's beautiful, so she can't deny it and say you're not telling the truth. How would she know? xD

EDIT: Platonic love-wise, if she's not used to it, I think she'd feel awkward about it and think that you like her and all. Younger girls are like that. D: So... just slip in that you mean that as a guy friend. xD
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Women considerate sexist in general now. I am the same way but women hate it when I do it because they feel I am being sexist.
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Well, if you didn't mean it and somehow she finds out that you were just saying it just to say it then she could give you hell for that. But in my opinion, saying a woman is gorgeous and actually meaning will definitely make her smile.
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blakram74 wrote:

Does it apply if he's never seen her. If I never saw your picture but told you, you were beautiful because I saw that as a person, would you be upset. Would I be wrong?

D'awww. That's very sweet. Two things: She'll either deny and/or point out her physical flaws OR she'll say thank you. In both cases, tell her that you think she's beautiful as a person. We appreciate that people look at our personalities, since most men (an women, even) judge by looks nowadays. You wouldn't be wrong, but it would be wrong if she got offended at all.

Go ahead, tell her she's beautiful. Make her smile. =D
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I don't see any problem with telling a woman she's beautiful though I don't think I'd do it often since I find my gf to be the most beautiful woman in the world. ^_^
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i think it really depends on each girl. i hate it when i get notes from random guys who are like, "hi, my name is blah blah blah, whats yours? you're really pretty btw." it makes me feel as if the guy only noted me because he thought i was pretty and nothing more. if i was hideous or something then he would have just past my profile and be like, eh... whatever to that chick.


now if a guy commented something about what i wrote on my page or something, an example would be myspace, then he would get my attention. but if he just comments only face wise, yea... i just loose all interest.
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er.....i dont know

i usually say it 4 fun or just to flirt
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lol depends, but most likely if you know the girl and they're average looking or better,
then they'll probaly like that you're calling them beautiful or cute, unless if you're kinda
creepy or she hates you, lmao
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22 / F / Area 11-Brittania...
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No.. it's offensive to call them ugly in their face... no matter how ugly a girl looks, you don't say it.
However. when a girl knows she's having a bad day with looks, and you call her beautiful she's going to kill you for that.
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Posted 4/12/08

blakram74 wrote:


Arrtos_Tarne wrote:

I don't see any problem with telling a woman she's beautiful though I don't think I'd do it often since I find my gf to be the most beautiful woman in the world. ^_^


Congradulations...your one lucky man...


Thank you very much *bows* so how are you doing tonight?
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yeah i would see it as a nice thing , even though cause i'm like an almost tomboy, I don't know how to take such compliments lol and it shows in my lack of knowing what to say afterwards xD
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