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Posted 10/17/07

narutosangelz wrote:


Dusterbayala wrote:

I still can't talk about the second one.
*deep breath*
It involves more than one attacker.
Never trust Marines. EVER.


Didnt u take action against him???like reporting him to police??..just curious


the action i took against him was to tell my roommate and he and his best friend went with me to kick thier asses...
and let's just say.. the main guy... will never have a straight nose again.
and i'll always have a lump in my finger where it broke from the force of hitting him.
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Posted 10/17/07

ChrisOnline wrote:

Hmm.. its best that most girls should learn self defence or carry a anti pervert kit round with them(etc, pepper spray..). but still, Girls can Prevent this.

Always be with a friend.
Dont take deserted routes.
Never wear anything that might trigger the perv's attention.. blah blah blah.. Zzz..


i once heard (from a raped girl) that those 3 things are useless...
"always be with a friend" will make ur friend get hurt so they can rape u
"dont take deserted routes" rapist are not always on deserted routes (although that can't be really proved)
and about the wearing, in this century, even a girl wanna be dressed as cute at least

i also heard that rapists (the very sick ones) just stay to their profile girls no matter anything else, and might not even touch another kinda kid :S
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The thing about rapists is that they are all mentally unsound. God made humans good at birth but they were polluted by sin. Can you imagine a little 4-year old boy raping a woman when he's 20? When someone is a rapist , it usually happens becaue they were exposed to bad influence since young. maybe their parents or someone else raped them...love the sinner but not the sin. We should not condemn rapist but the sin. We should feel sympathy for the rapist as they were warped to be into the sick being they are today. as such , as much as i feel rape is a despicable act , i will not hate the rapist.
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Duster i admire you for telling everyone about this i wish i was strong enough to share my experience. especially wit the police. <3
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it takes more heart and bravery to share the expreance you had than to fight at that moment which would have most likely made your situtation even worse from what I understand rap is about power not sex I think that just BS and I think that the laws for lesser crimes are harder than what they are for rape think about it this way in New York if your cought twice with in a ten year period driving while you are intoxocated you go to jail 4 years no plea barganing yet theres guys that get out of jail for rape after 2 years they should have a possable life or even the death sentince for it depening on the situtation of course anyhow those are my ideas on the topic I hope I didn't offened anyone if I did it wasn't my intention just please take it at face value and thank you for your patiates in reading this I know there are many miss spelled word and its a run on but look for the meaning of the message not how it was presented Thank You once again

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I was sexually abused by my older brother for 2 1/2 yrs. He made me play his games and do his stuff and if I didn't or if I fought him he would hit me and yell at me and throw things at me. He pulled a knife on me once. He threatened that if I ever told anyone then he'd kill me and I knew he was serious. He no longer lives with us for other reasons but no one in my family besides me n him knows what happened. Everyday after he did whatevr he wanted to to me that day I'd kneel at the end of my bed and pray for God to make it stop. After a year I stopped praying. A year 1/2 later I tried to commit suicide but I couldn't do it. There were always thought running through my head that if I killed him it'd all be over but so would my life so I didn't. After attempting suicide I started cutting and stopped at the end of may this year until august when i did it some more, haven't done it since. I have nitemare often and can only tell my mom that I keep getting raped but can't see the persons face even though always know its him. The only thing I ever had control over was that I never technically lost my virginity. And I never ever did anything to him or with him. It was all done to me. My mom used to leave me home alone with him alot cause she thought he was a responsible babysitter. If only she knew the truth. I don't tell my family or adults cuz the only time I've really talked to any one about it was to my ex. Thats why he's my ex. He called me a dirty whore. Said I must of taken it for so long cuz I liked it. [I broke his nose] and he broke up to me but swore not to tell anyone. I think he was more shocked then hurt. I've told a few more friends that have gone through similar situations so they got it and tried to get help once but that didn't work out so well. Because I got molested I can't get intimate with people in fear of hurting them. Occasionally a simple kiss can triger a memory and I get stuck and fight anyone near me. I know I need help, so don't tell me. I just can't get it.


"all u need is love" ^_^ let the by gones be by gones... u are who u are right now and that's what should matter, all u need is to find ppl that can understand at least that much ^_^ i've never talked to a girl that has been raped before, but i can bet that i wouldn't freak, i'd actually help her as much as i'm able to ^_^
Posted 10/17/07
Yeh Rape bad but I believe some females can provoke it and some sicko's out there so stay safe and learn how top cripple men and women in a move =3
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^ and how did i provoke it? i was sitting in a bar where i knew the owner and was good friends with his son. A guy who was a little drunk was leaving (the owner knew him) and i assumed he was a nice guy when he offered to walk me to my car since all the "terrible things that could happen to a nice girl" like me.

And how is that provoking?

Women can tease and flirt all night, but i'm sorry NO means NO

If a guy can't understand that... then HE is the one at fault. Date rape is very similar.

Edit:
and fyi since that night, i have learned Tai Kwon Do and and am learning Kendo and Iaido.
I'm also military trained in basic fighting.
I also know how to box.
and i fight dirty.
Posted 10/18/07
^ that wasn't directed at you btw
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xce91 wrote:

Yeh Rape bad but I believe some females can provoke it and some sicko's out there so stay safe and learn how top cripple men and women in a move =3

My Dude thats like sayin something like my sister,mom,aunt,cousin was out at a partie she has the really amazing dress on looked unbelieveable on her and she a flirt was rapped because if that I don't mean to be mean it just think of it as a family member of yours most people dont want to put themselives on those shoes but maybe if more ppl did this wouldn't happen as much
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hope no one i know ever gets rape.. cause if they ever did.. it'd probably make me rage, enough to try and kill the fuker if i ever found out who did it.
p.s discussed this during my religion and society class. small percentage of ppl actually get pregnant cause of rape due to the shock of the event.
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Rhyhl wrote:

hope no one i know ever gets rape.. cause if they ever did.. it'd probably make me rage, enough to try and kill the fuker if i ever found out who did it.
p.s discussed this during my religion and society class. small percentage of ppl actually get pregnant cause of rape due to the shock of the event.


i thought you were catholic or whatever. "thou shall not kill"
Posted 10/18/07
But If you provoke the wrong person you don't know everyone who is out that night so flirting with a sicko could leaded to many bad things even if he just stalks you some people are damaged in the head so you should be careful even talking to randoms
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Posted 10/18/07
This thread says alot... I'm feel really sorry for the people who had to through this thing called "RAPE"! scary word btw.
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Posted 10/18/07
^ this is good advice, however impossible to follow.

how else do you meet people than by talking to random people?
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