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Womanizers and Players...
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Posted 4/14/08
Its not fair to the people being played .

Its just disrepectful !
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Posted 4/14/08

blakram74 wrote:


Terminator_kun wrote:


blakram74 wrote:


Terminator_kun wrote:

You know,

Oskar Schindler, one of History's most important people... was a womanizer. FACT

St. Ignatius of Loyola, before becoming a saint....yes! you got it! was a womanizer


As was George Washington, John Taylor and several of history's most known people from Langston Hughes to Alexander Bell to Malcolm X. In retrospect name a recent popular leader who hasn't been, however was it there womanizing that made them great, or was the insatiableness of that desire a factor that diminished an other wise great man. Vices happen, should they be celebrated?


We do not Praise a popular person because he's background as a womanizer. nobody in history has. we praise them for their actions not only to themselves but to the good of their own people.

What I gave you are facts visible and limited in my knowledge. Im not celebrating them as womanizers, Im celebrating them for being such a man of compassion and comitment.


I wasn't directing my response directly to you, I was asking an open-ended question that your response made possible...


oh ok my apologies
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Posted 4/14/08
i havent been played before,
and haven't played anyone.
its not fun toying someone's heart.
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Posted 4/14/08
I don't approve of womanizers or players because playing with others' feelings is just so wrong. However, I also believe that they're playing in order to do not get attached to people of the opposite sex, they're playing because they're afraid to love, to let others see their true self. So they just hurt others first, in order to protect themself...Well, for some, they just play and don't have any reason, they're the ones whom I despise the most...Lol
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For guys it is mostly because it is expected of them... If you are attractive to be considered normal it is expected of you to have been in a lot of relationships. Also, desire is involved in there somewhere...

For girls most just want to prove that they can play men as well as they can play women...

Others both men/women have been hurt... now they want to forget the pain, and boost their ego... What better way is there?
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Posted 4/14/08

memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


blakram74 wrote:


wolflee wrote:

I think they are entertaining to watch.


Agreed wolf...related shows were created for this reason...lol




Dude, what happened to his kids?


I'm hoping that retard wasn't smart enough to figure out how to reproduce.


Damn, then he doesn't know the greatest joy in life. I feel sorry for him.
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pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


blakram74 wrote:


wolflee wrote:

I think they are entertaining to watch.


Agreed wolf...related shows were created for this reason...lol




Dude, what happened to his kids?


I'm hoping that retard wasn't smart enough to figure out how to reproduce.


Damn, then he doesn't know the greatest joy in life. I feel sorry for him.


Having a kid? Yeah right dude, if you think having a kid is the greatest joy, you are just as dumb as him!
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Posted 4/14/08

memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


blakram74 wrote:


wolflee wrote:

I think they are entertaining to watch.


Agreed wolf...related shows were created for this reason...lol




Dude, what happened to his kids?


I'm hoping that retard wasn't smart enough to figure out how to reproduce.


Damn, then he doesn't know the greatest joy in life. I feel sorry for him.


Having a kid? Yeah right dude, if you think having a kid is the greatest joy, you are just as dumb as him!


I meant the process of having a kid. Not actually having one.
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pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


blakram74 wrote:


wolflee wrote:

I think they are entertaining to watch.


Agreed wolf...related shows were created for this reason...lol




Dude, what happened to his kids?


I'm hoping that retard wasn't smart enough to figure out how to reproduce.


Damn, then he doesn't know the greatest joy in life. I feel sorry for him.


Having a kid? Yeah right dude, if you think having a kid is the greatest joy, you are just as dumb as him!


I meant the process of having a kid. Not actually having one.


You are 15, you should still be a virgin. How are you aware of lifes greatest joy. -.-
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Posted 4/14/08

memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


pyromaniachaos777 wrote:


memphit wrote:


blakram74 wrote:


wolflee wrote:

I think they are entertaining to watch.


Agreed wolf...related shows were created for this reason...lol




Dude, what happened to his kids?


I'm hoping that retard wasn't smart enough to figure out how to reproduce.


Damn, then he doesn't know the greatest joy in life. I feel sorry for him.


Having a kid? Yeah right dude, if you think having a kid is the greatest joy, you are just as dumb as him!


I meant the process of having a kid. Not actually having one.


You are 15, you should still be a virgin. How are you aware of lifes greatest joy. -.-


I remember some perverted guy at school calling it that. It kinda cracked me up.
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blakram74 wrote:


Lena_08 wrote:

For guys it is mostly because it is expected of them... If you are attractive to be considered normal it is expected of you to have been in a lot of relationships. Also, desire is involved in there somewhere...

For girls most just want to prove that they can play men as well as they can play women...

Others both men/women have been hurt... now they want to forget the pain, and boost their ego... What better way is there?


In response to the last sentence, self betterment for one. Pain may drive you to extremes but is dropping your values something that can be sacrificed?


I've seen it happen many times. When you truly love a person and are willing to give up your life for them. Have already planned to marry them, and they leave you with nothing but a broken heart. All you can feel is pain. Everything else won't matter. You will end up hating their sex. The person you trust and love the most has betrayed you. You start blaming their whole gender for the way they have acted. You decide that they all are the same. No hearts, no brains, and not human. You'll show them... You'll make them feel 100 times worse than you did... They'll never forget not to mess with you...

This is just an example, but the stories only slightly vary. The main point is that they end up with a broken heart. Most people who play the field are still young. They do not have a very good understanding of self. They are still being molded into the person they will become. Most of the values that they have come from their parents, friends, & media, but they have refined them so to speak. When they get their hearts broken they decide to see if those values were correct especially the ones pertaining to relationships. Most of the other values have already been tested and proven, so those can hold. The others must be objectively tested. What better way then trying it out on a good number of specimens. To have it proven as fact the experiment must always prove true. But when they "experiment" all they see is the same thing... they are all just like their ex who broke their heart... Their friends, family, and the media had all lied. Plus at the same time their seeking revenge, but most won't admit it...
Posted 4/14/08
I've been played lots of times...so not cool...just stick to one girl and be faithful...thats the kind of relationship you want...not one with random girls that really have no meaning
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lots of scenarios are like that. guess if youre not committed then its ok to do that as long as the partner is willing, you know like no strings attached. but when in a serious relationship youd have to avoid that. Karma will come to bite you in the ass two folds.
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Posted 4/14/08

Terminator_kun wrote:

You know,

Oskar Schindler, one of History's most important people... was a womanizer. FACT

St. Ignatius of Loyola, before becoming a saint....yes! you got it! was a womanizer


haha yes Oskar Schindler womanizer and a drunk
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Posted 4/18/08
they're horrible people
Posted 4/18/08

blakram74 wrote:

an animalistic urge that must be recognized.


In other words, they just like to bust nuts.

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