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How come it takes a long time for a girl to recover over a relationship compared to guys??
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Posted 5/23/08

Katorulez93 wrote:

well girls are more emotional like 99% of the time. Also guys usually they act like they are recovered from it. Ive been in many relationships and ive had to break up with a lot of girls and it took me a long time b4 i got over it. girls shouldnt get so sad froma break up! it would be easier on the guys ^_^


katorulez is right. im a girl but i understand how it makes them feel worse even if it was a mutual decision to break up.

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Posted 6/7/08
i guess it's because guys have many sports outlets that they can easily move on... or it's because "Boys don't cry".... even if they are still affected, they just hide it...
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Posted 6/8/08
hmm.. i think it all depends on the person.. kuz we all have different recovering rates.. or something like that.. lolz.. so yeah both male & female have it tough.. ;D
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26 / F / **ANDROMEDA**
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Posted 7/1/08
i dnt thnk its tru.......
Posted 7/9/08
bcoz girls are more sensitive?
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Posted 7/13/08
hmm good question... i guess it depends on how the relationship was as well as the bond between the two people... cause my first boyfriend, it didn't really take me that long to get over him mostly cause we weren't together all the time - he always hung out with his friends.. my recent ex though is a whole different story. we went out for 5 months and we got really serious. then i broke up with him and he got with my best friend.. it got me soo pissed off >-< it took around 8 months until i completely recovered cause i'd always see them together at school and stuff. and all my friends were friends with her so it was hard getting into conversations without them asking me if i was okay..
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Posted 7/15/08
well it depends how emotional strong you are.
Some guys can get really upset if they break up with the one they love
(trust me there are still some deceit guys out there lol)
And also girls are very emotional
So I would say girls and guys are both the same
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Posted 7/15/08
Well ,.....it would depend on how your emotional you are. I mean like if you were in a serious relationship, then it would be hard on both girls and guys to get over it. Guys are more better at keeping thier emotions to themselves , but there are some guys that show it for time to time . Girls aren't very good at keeping their feelings inside sometimes. It's hard because I'm a girl and I know how that feels. For girls, it seems better to let out all that sadness. It makes you somewhat feel better.
And.....thats what I think.....that is all
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Posted 7/16/08
i guess guys dont really show their emotions. and also i think its cuz us girls really overthink those things well....if u think about it...breaking up is hard for a guy and a girl...i mean hello u broke up w smeone u love! how can that not hurt? (unless they were playing u...which they shoudnt do) err...yeah...in my opinionO.o
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Posted 7/16/08
girls are more emotional than boys...
but it depends on a person, ryt?
Posted 7/22/08 , edited 7/22/08

pweTTy_nio wrote:
but it depends on a person, ryt?


right. Depends on the person. You can't judge unless you know them. Never judge a book by its cover.


clam128512 wrote:

thats not completely true. in the last relationship i was in my gf recovered instantly and i was a walking pile of jello for the next month and a half. i felt like garbage and it really sucked.


Thats sad.
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23 / F / behind you..........
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Posted 7/24/08
guys jus like 2 hide their feelings while girls will show it. a guy if he jus got dumped won't go by his bes fren an say evryting bout wat happened an tell him he needs a hug, girls will do dat
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23 / F / Atlanta Georgia
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Posted 8/1/08
haha i agree.. guys are really good at covering up their feelings ^^ but just think about it, you should thank God girls are the emotional ones, because guys can be pretty hard when they show their feelings. they bottle up their feelings so much that when they let it out its worse :] us girls arent afraid to show our feelings because well, we cant keep it bottled up ^^ we r used to people taking care of us :] and thats a guy's job :] cos we are girls ^^
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Posted 8/4/08 , edited 8/4/08
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Posted 10/1/08
well,i think girls are emotional..its becuse they really value the relationship they had..that's why they cry their hearts out if they lost that important relationship that they had..girls sometimes keep in mind all the memories that they had with their bfs and when the time comes that they break up..they will remember all the kept memories and it would be hard to erase them..^^
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