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Have you ever been used before and how did you stopit?
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Posted 4/24/10
I've been used before by my job. Its so demeaning, but the pay is good. Hooray!!!
Posted 4/24/10
Depends in what context. Like if you're going out with a guy at school and suddenly there is an uproar like "omg so and so is going out with blah blah" then people will just pretend to be you're best buddy just to get gossip out of ya.

I've never been used for sex or anything like that. Sometimes when you go to clubs guys have competitions between their friends of who can score the most. If they ask me and its obvious they are having a little competition I just turn away. I want a kiss to mean something.
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Posted 5/1/10
Yeah. mostly for homework. Now they dont ask me anymore. next time I would just say no to someone i dont talk to
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Posted 5/1/10
Really, tbh if a person wants to use me for something it really doesn't bother me all that much...
I'm not saying I'm all like, "OH FINALLY SOMEONE WANTS ME!", but yet in still, if I can be of use I really can't see too much error in that.

Seeing as the topic does also say, "how did you stop it", I would say if it turned bad, I'd just nip that s*** in the bud. Stop leeching off me and learn your damn self and if you can't, I'll help til' you can. After that, you're on your own. (Never was a person to leave a person without tools for life if ya' catch my drift).
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Posted 5/1/10
yes...felt stupid..but learned from it.
Posted 5/1/10
yeah i've been used... how'd i resolve it? well probs in a way that shudnt be used i told all the secrets i knew bout the person and turned her into a loner so much so that she needed to move shcools... now lookign back on it i feel really bad but even at her new shcool she was obsessed and wouldnt stop talkign about me to people that didnt even knwo me untill i went to her school and threataned her, so in a way she deserved it
Posted 5/1/10

mystic17 wrote:

Yes. by both family & people at school. At first I fell for it cause of that stupid line "I'll be your friend."
Being anxious for a friend made me fall for it until I realized I was being used. I stopped giving those kids things & shrugged them off.


Same with me. As you grow older though, you start realizing who your friends really are.
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Posted 5/2/10
In like grade 5 two of my mates started going out with two chicks (we were what like 10 at the time?). The two cunts kept making me go back and forth between the girls as they didn't want to talk directly. One day they gave me money to buy the girls some food, instead like the ass I went and bought myself food and feasted that day.

Never been used since then, I remember people in high school (I got picked on allot) would try to use me to try and get me to buy them shit (as they'd be like, "we will stop picking on ya if you buy us shit") and I'd tell em to get a life and go fuck themselves.
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Posted 5/2/10
yea i've been once but not directly and i didn't realize it early it was really late.... it was like she was like "ur my best friend!!" and all.... and i had always listen 2 her problems and give her ALOT of my time... in the end it seems she just wanted my best friend cause she like in love with her or something
Posted 5/2/10
use them back.
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