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What makes you a 'grown-up'?
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Posted 4/5/08
hmmm I thought some people would know what "AGE" means. teens are called "teens" cause their age is like sixTEEn or sevenTEEN. Even a 60 year old senior can act like a 5 year old and young people would treat the person with respect.

A "grown-up" would know reality. A "grown-up" wouldn't rely on mommy and daddy to buy him/her a dolly or a bottle to suck on.
Posted 4/5/08
your a grown up is you act and make mature descisons ^^
Posted 4/5/08
not having to call ureself an adult or grown and not having a need to mature
Posted 4/5/08
I think a person qualifies as a grown up when they're mature enough to know having sex, smoking, and doing other stuff like that isn't what makes a person a grown up.
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butter3 wrote:

ok ok i got a friend who is younger than me im 15 shes 13 any ways she looks like she could pass off as 16 or somthin(thaats wat everybody says) well she thinks she grown cuz she smokes and already had sex. and it pisses me off she goin around thinkin shes an adult as far as im concerned she dont pay bills go to work or have kids. and treats me like im ha lil sista or some shit. i just want some opinions. does anyone have a friend like that?


if your a grown up, you have a sense of responsiblity (well, your a responsible person... that constitutes as an adult for me). that's all. -you get ur work done, pay everything to the best of your ability, look after your family and urself, etc.

and i have to say, i feel very bad for your friend i know lots of people like her in my city... i think you should really talk to your friend if you really care about her. i'm sure she'll listen (she may say some rude things but truth is, it'll sink in... i know sometimes i confront my friends and they try to totally ignore me or be like, "You don't know what I'm going through!" but then later they say things that make me think, "wow... she really WAS listening" and i hope you can help her understand that what she's doing isn't cool... and that she's throwing her life away if she continues to smoke (God knows how many people i've loved to smoking...) don't u want to give ur friend a long healthy life? and what if she gets preggers?! that ruins any teenagers social life well, that or her kid becomes one of the kids with all of the problems because their mother never gave them the proper attention or care that a responsible adult has...
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i guess, my age and attitude,..
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Posted 4/5/08
If you friend treats you like shiet, then just tell her straight up. I mean, why should you take her shiet? When she isnt even mature. Your definatly not mature, just by sex or looks. Sometiems, people look mature and is mature, but usually they look mature but are soo immature. So immature that i just wanna slap the shiet out of them, cause they think they are hard asses.. damn.. I'm 15 too, but alot of my senior friends says i am mature for my age, but i look like im 12. it doesnt matter about looks or age really. It just about how you can handle things seriously. And sex at the age of 13? shiet, that girl is screaming for attention and stupidity.. But anyways. this is just my opinion. :] Anyways, when your old, you wanna be young. So be happy to be young right now! ^-^
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Posted 4/5/08
i guess the biggest thing is "being able to see were your limit is" (in more ways than one)
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I feel that I am too mature for my age.

Your friend has sex at 13, and smokes? Wow, that's not right. That doesn't make her mature. Mature people make thought-out decisions. She obviously has a problem and I recommend getting her help. But who am I to suggest that? I'm just a strange 14 year-old boy, rofl.

She could be mature on the outside, but that does not make her mentally mature.
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Posted 4/5/08

Hachimakii wrote:

I feel that I am too mature for my age.

Your friend has sex at 13, and smokes? Wow, that's not right. That doesn't make her mature. Mature people make thought-out decisions. She obviously has a problem and I recommend getting her help. But who am I to suggest that? I'm just a strange 14 year-old boy, rofl.

She could be mature on the outside, but that does not make her mentally mature.



Totally agree.
Well, despite being an Idiot to think that you got your maturity by Smoking and Having Sex, maturity REALLY comes from the inside; On how you think and act.

Might suggest that you tell her to stop being a show-off and try to be mature by thinking like it.
And I don't see a possibility on how you'll be mature by Smoking and having Sex at age 13
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A 13 years old girl already had sex and smokes?! WTF!
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Posted 6/28/08
Well, I'm 19 and haven't g0t b0yfriends yet... That d0es make me an immature 0ne? Ofcourse n0t... s0me pe0ple like t0 act like adults but that d0esn't mean they've already matured.. Maturity d0esn't g0 with age 0r the way we just bump 0n d0ing s0methings we like.. It's the way we d0 things and feel resp0nsible f0r the acti0ns we take...
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Posted 6/28/08

butter3 wrote:

ok ok i got a friend who is younger than me im 15 shes 13 any ways she looks like she could pass off as 16 or somthin(thaats wat everybody says) well she thinks she grown cuz she smokes and already had sex. and it pisses me off she goin around thinkin shes an adult as far as im concerned she dont pay bills go to work or have kids. and treats me like im ha lil sista or some shit. i just want some opinions. does anyone have a friend like that?


Here's my opinion:
You're both immature brats. She's immature for being so stupid. You're immature for having really bad grammar/spelling and posting stuff like this in the internet.

What makes you grown up? When you stop caring about what other people do, especially as someone stupid as that 13 year old slut and when you stop posting in the internet about matters like these.
Posted 6/28/08
Dude, stay young as long as possible. It sucks getting out of college and getting a job. It's not all good times, when you're an adult. I wish I was back in High School, those problems seem minuscule compared to dealing with bosses and co-workers.
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Posted 6/28/08

makix wrote:


butter3 wrote:

ok ok i got a friend who is younger than me im 15 shes 13 any ways she looks like she could pass off as 16 or somthin(thaats wat everybody says) well she thinks she grown cuz she smokes and already had sex. and it pisses me off she goin around thinkin shes an adult as far as im concerned she dont pay bills go to work or have kids. and treats me like im ha lil sista or some shit. i just want some opinions. does anyone have a friend like that?


Here's my opinion:
You're both immature brats. She's immature for being so stupid. You're immature for having really bad grammar/spelling and posting stuff like this in the internet.

What makes you grown up? When you stop caring about what other people do, especially as someone stupid as that 13 year old slut and when you stop posting in the internet about matters like these.


yeah your right about my bad grammer and spelling lol.yeah i was immature at the time and about the situation it is good to stay young but one thing i learned i cant controll the actions of people and what they do in there lives and i do look back and ask myself why the hell i wrote this topic when i just could of talked to her and what not it is my mistake i gotta say it was really foolish but ya gotta learn from mistakes
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