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How to break up with him?
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Posted 4/16/08

HeavensWings0x wrote:

Aids,


haha... I don´t understand
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pam-chan wrote:

im finding it hard to
break up with my BF
because
i'm afraid to hurt him

coz im not
happy with him
anymore!
we've been
together for
a year and
a half now...
but...
its not the same anymore

how to break the news to him
in a not so hurtful manner?


if the love has gone stale in like a year how do you think you would do in a marriage. Dump him you won't hurt him. move on. god you are still in high school. in fact why don't you just have lots of casual sex. that way you won't have to be tied down to anyone.
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Posted 4/16/08
tell him now, if you leave it too long, it's gonna hurt him even more later..
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36 / F / East Bay California
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Posted 4/16/08
Look you're gonna hurt him no matter what, but it's just best to be honest. Tell him that you just don't feel the same anymore, that you still care about him, but that you feel that this relationship has gone as far as it can go. Considering you're only 16, tell him that you both need to find out who you are without each other, since you no longer feel that you can grow with him.

That should do it....quick rule of thumb, don't immediately start dating someone else. It'll make everything you said sound like lies.
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Posted 4/17/08
Tell him you're pregnant, and it isn't his.
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tell him you're married
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Posted 4/17/08

pam-chan wrote:

im finding it hard to
break up with my BF
because
i'm afraid to hurt him

coz im not
happy with him
anymore!
we've been
together for
a year and
a half now...
but...
its not the same anymore

how to break the news to him
in a not so hurtful manner?


just be honest with him... just tell him that your not happy w/ him anymore... there's no such thing as a not so hurtful manner... even though you find a not so hurtful way it would still hurt him...

or you could just talk w/ him tell him your problems... maybe if would work out for the better ^_^
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Posted 4/17/08

DarkPriest19 wrote:

tell him you're married


lolz that wont work
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Posted 4/17/08
if u know that u dont love him anymore then by all means break up asap i think its best to do it face to face where there is no one else (i think its best to avoid any misunderstanding) but make sure its what u really want cos u dont wanna cry your eyes out when he's not there anymore... =/ u know think about why u loved him in the first place and if its just not there anymore then yea go ahead..
Posted 4/17/08
Firstly , say that ..heres a bucket . then u kick the bucket . then say ..forget about me ...haha~ just meant to be a joke though ..

Just have some courage and say ..

"Our commuication has fell down steeply ..I hope we can seperate for awhile so that we can take a break from each other, yah . we should .."
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Posted 4/17/08
tell him u need some space for yourself..
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Posted 4/17/08

whazzupkp wrote:


pam-chan wrote:

im finding it hard to
break up with my BF
because
i'm afraid to hurt him

coz im not
happy with him
anymore!
we've been
together for
a year and
a half now...
but...
its not the same anymore

how to break the news to him
in a not so hurtful manner?


if the love has gone stale in like a year how do you think you would do in a marriage. Dump him you won't hurt him. move on. god you are still in high school. in fact why don't you just have lots of casual sex. that way you won't have to be tied down to anyone.



wapak!
no sex!
Posted 4/17/08

khmai_boi401 wrote:

Show him this thread.
LOL


-thumbs up-
Hey this might really work. Lmao. That would be funny. Now that reminded me. I didn't want to apolgize to this friend of mine face to face. So instead i bought this rose thingy, i don't know what flower it was. People was selling for charity in school, and wrote 'i'm sorry' and left it in his bag
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Posted 4/17/08
there's no easy way to break somebody's heart or ego... but i think you should let him know. the sooner, the better. and no matter how you put it, you're still breaking up with him. so it's quite hard to advise someone to say it nicely... coz you can never turn somebody down in such a way that he wouldn't get hurt...

just say goodbye, and say sorry if you think you have something to be sorry about, then give him and yourself space.
Posted 4/17/08

khmai_boi401 wrote:

Show him this thread.
LOL


LMFAO!
Please do.
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