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saiyukilover wrote:


clocut wrote:


saiyukilover wrote:

Depends on the girl.

For me, I'm just really shy, and I'm afraid of what'll happen if they don't like me back... I've never approached a guy, I wait for them to come to me. I know thats not the best way, but, its worked so far.


thats fucked up make them do the work ic


=P I'm a lazy procrastinator, similar to someone I could mention Mr. Smart-Ass.


pfft i still put in work where work is needed


As do I. who do you think put all the effort into keeping those relationships going?
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saiyukilover wrote:


clocut wrote:


saiyukilover wrote:


clocut wrote:


saiyukilover wrote:

Depends on the girl.

For me, I'm just really shy, and I'm afraid of what'll happen if they don't like me back... I've never approached a guy, I wait for them to come to me. I know thats not the best way, but, its worked so far.


thats fucked up make them do the work ic


=P I'm a lazy procrastinator, similar to someone I could mention Mr. Smart-Ass.


pfft i still put in work where work is needed


As do I. who do you think put all the effort into keeping those relationships going?



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It not up to them. I like non-aggressive girls, they're usually not easy.
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because it's easier for the guy to start it ;P
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cause guys go to them
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it depends on the girls or the boys character...
but guys start first is the best cuz girls r mostly shy infront of the boy that they like...
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memphit wrote:

I would hate to have to deal with rejecting girls anyways, they aren't like guys(well most anyways). I could see them getting all emotional in front of you, then it turns into a scene. Ughh, man up and take the lesser of two evils.


lol And they say "The worst they can say is NO". They can tell their friends and then they'll all laugh at you.
All of these old sayings need to be adjusted just like "Sticks and Stones".
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Posted 4/17/08

saiyukilover wrote:

Depends on the girl.

For me, I'm just really shy, and I'm afraid of what'll happen if they don't like me back... I've never approached a guy, I wait for them to come to me. I know thats not the best way, but, its worked so far. It's not that I'm trying to foist all the work on them or something, I just don't deal well with rejection, plus I really don't know how to approach guys...


same
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i dont know, i just suck at it..
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PurpleWasabi wrote:
Why do girls hardly try to start relationships with guys they like. Is it cause there actually shy about that or do they expect the guy to do it?

Overall I think that society expects the guys to hit on the girls first. Obviously this is not always the case but generally it seems like girls expect the guys to come on to them if they're interested.
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depends
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I know a lot of girls who are afraid of rejection so they expect the guy to make the first move, but then I also know some who go for it, so I guess it just depends on that girl and what she's gone through with past relationships.

If I liked somebody I would definitely pursue them. The worst that could happen is him saying he's not interested.
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Posted 4/17/08

memphit wrote:

I would hate to have to deal with rejecting girls anyways, they aren't like guys(well most anyways). I could see them getting all emotional in front of you, then it turns into a scene. Ughh, man up and take the lesser of two evils.


i've only been rejected once... and i didn't cry or get emotional... i just smiled at him and said... "well... your loss... coulda had one hell a romp, but i guess you must not like sex.. have a nice night."
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Dusterbayala wrote:


memphit wrote:

I would hate to have to deal with rejecting girls anyways, they aren't like guys(well most anyways). I could see them getting all emotional in front of you, then it turns into a scene. Ughh, man up and take the lesser of two evils.


i've only been rejected once... and i didn't cry or get emotional... i just smiled at him and said... "well... your loss... coulda had one hell a romp, but i guess you must not like sex.. have a nice night."


Yes but you forget you represent a small minority of near perfect women. ^^
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Posted 4/17/08

memphit wrote:


Dusterbayala wrote:


memphit wrote:

I would hate to have to deal with rejecting girls anyways, they aren't like guys(well most anyways). I could see them getting all emotional in front of you, then it turns into a scene. Ughh, man up and take the lesser of two evils.


i've only been rejected once... and i didn't cry or get emotional... i just smiled at him and said... "well... your loss... coulda had one hell a romp, but i guess you must not like sex.. have a nice night."


Yes but you forget you represent a small minority of near perfect women. ^^


near perfect?? NEAR?? what's imperfect about me?

I like sex, i don't want pillow talk, i'll work so you can stay home and watch anime or play video games, i'll cook and clean, and go with you to strip clubs... where's the imperfection?
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