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Do you dare speak about sex to your mom? XD
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hmmmmmmmmmmm.....thats a big NO NO for me
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Why the fuck would I do that?


LoL!! Thats funny but I agree with u !
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lol...no
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I'm pregent ... just kiddin.... I wouldnt dare talk about sex to my mom.
Posted 4/19/08
Me and my mum always talk about that type of stuff, I mean it just seems like im talking to a friend about it so i dont feel awkward or embarrassed about asking her things that i can t ask my friends. Also because we joke about it quite a bit makes it so easy and ive never viewed her as my mum most of the time but as an old and wise friend lol she'd kill me if she saw me writing that hehe
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Posted 4/19/08 , edited 4/19/08

Frozen-Godess wrote:


lestat85 wrote:


Frozen-Godess wrote:


lestat85 wrote:

Why should it be shocking to you? Do you think that your mom and dad are oblivious about sex? Talking to them about it can be a great thing both for you and for her. You won't get better advice about sex from anyone else, so I'd say you should definitely talk to your mom about sex. Girls getting pregnant while on their teen years is the main cause of them not sharing this kind of information with their parents.
duuh, I know she's not oblivious about me having sex with "SOMEBODY TOTALLY STRANGER THAT COULD KILL ME AFTER HAVING SEX WITH ME.." <___<; I dont like talking to her about sex, because she keeps talking about that kind of sick peoples. and btw, I dont think the main cause is "BECAUSE THEIR MOTHERS HAVNT TOLD THEM ABOUT PREVENTION..." I think it's because they dont care at the moment they are having sex, and they forget it.


Aerith.



I just said it was 1 main cause :P. And if they knew of the consequences then they would be more careful to try and not have sex at such a early age.... Btw, I don't think that's all your mother is worried about...


then why did you write "Girls getting pregnant while on their teen years is the main cause of them not sharing this kind of information with their parents." ? o__O; just wondering xD




Because that is a common way in which most teens ruin their lives :P. I know this because my sister got pregnant at the age of 17 and now she's struggling through college and work because of it.

I'm also saying this as advice, I was once a teen and I did have sex on my teen years. I was lucky that she never got pregnant. Not just my sister, but some of my teen cousins have been getting babies and I see how they are struggling, dropping out of H.S., or College and starting to get jobs to support their kids at such a early age.

Anyways, there is no doubt that your mother is just being protective over you. She doesn't want to see anything bad happen to you at such an early age, being it getting pregnant, getting a STD, or getting killed by a guy after having sex with you as you've mentioned lol. She is probably worried sick that something might happen to you, and talking to her and making it clear to both of you that you will try to avoid such things for now will make your mother be more at ease and worry less. This is also an opportunity to make your mother-daughter relationship a bit better, she wants you to know that you can always talk to her about anything.
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My mom just tells me to wear a rubber or make sure the girl is on birth control, nothing other than that.
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the only time i'll ever talk about anything related to sex with my mom is probably when im pregnant. besides that then definately NOT.
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Hell no it doesn't matter weather u have the talks or not our generation is gonna do whatever the hell they wanna do But the best u can do is tell them to at least stay safe and wear protection telling them not to have sex is like tell a kid with ADD don't move around in the chair that just gonna go straight though his ears and he gonna move in that chair anywayz
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Posted 4/19/08

Frozen-Godess wrote:


lestat85 wrote:


Frozen-Godess wrote:


lestat85 wrote:


Frozen-Godess wrote:


lestat85 wrote:

Why should it be shocking to you? Do you think that your mom and dad are oblivious about sex? Talking to them about it can be a great thing both for you and for her. You won't get better advice about sex from anyone else, so I'd say you should definitely talk to your mom about sex. Girls getting pregnant while on their teen years is the main cause of them not sharing this kind of information with their parents.
duuh, I know she's not oblivious about me having sex with "SOMEBODY TOTALLY STRANGER THAT COULD KILL ME AFTER HAVING SEX WITH ME.." <___<; I dont like talking to her about sex, because she keeps talking about that kind of sick peoples. and btw, I dont think the main cause is "BECAUSE THEIR MOTHERS HAVNT TOLD THEM ABOUT PREVENTION..." I think it's because they dont care at the moment they are having sex, and they forget it.


Aerith.



I just said it was 1 main cause :P. And if they knew of the consequences then they would be more careful to try and not have sex at such a early age.... Btw, I don't think that's all your mother is worried about...


then why did you write "Girls getting pregnant while on their teen years is the main cause of them not sharing this kind of information with their parents." ? o__O; just wondering xD




Because that is a common way in which most teens ruin their lives :P. I know this because my sister got pregnant at the age of 17 and now she's struggling through college and work because of it.

I'm also saying this as advice, I was once a teen and I did have sex on my teen years. I was lucky that she never got pregnant. Not just my sister, but some of my teen cousins have been getting babies and I see how they are struggling, dropping out of H.S., or College and starting to get jobs to support their kids at such a early age.

Anyways, there is no doubt that your mother is just being protective over you. She doesn't want to see anything bad happen to you at such an early age, being it getting pregnant, getting a STD, or getting killed by a guy after having sex with you as you've mentioned lol. She is probably worried sick that something might happen to you, and talking to her and making it clear to both of you that you will try to avoid such things for now will make your mother be more at ease and worry less. This is also an opportunity to make your mother-daughter relationship a bit better, she wants you to know that you can always talk to her about anything.




well : ) thanks for writing, and i'm sorry to hear that with your friends and sister : /



hehe no prob, I don't mind :P, I'm sure they have learned their lessons the hard way lol.
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yeah my mom is real cool, me and my sister can talk to me our mom about anything and we know tthat she would not go and tell my dad about what we just talk abut..... so yeah you should be albe to tell you mom about andthings.
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awkward very awkward maybe when i get older much older
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Im comfortable with it. and so is she. she knows im bi and is fine with it.

I would rather have a parent be comfortable knowing youre being safe, than not knowing and freaking out and being wierd all the time.
Posted 4/19/08 , edited 4/19/08

cnw64 wrote:
I'm pregent ... just kiddin.... I wouldnt dare talk about sex to my mom.

Well, I hope you talk to someone about it because you look more like 20 than 13, lol.

This topic got my interest because I recently told my wife she should talk to her mom about some things and she basically said "No way! My mom would think I'm INSANE to talk to her about sex." I think it's more difficult if you're Chinese. If you're Chinese then you're probably lucky if your mom hands you a book about sex then runs off and hides somewhere so you can't find her.
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Posted 4/19/08
eh. sorta.. too awkward lol. maybe when i'm older?
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