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Would you choose the one that you love or the one that loves you?
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Posted 1/20/07
mhhhh that´s difficult.....i would choose the one who won´t hurt me..
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Posted 1/20/07
id say non of the above. its better receive and give love =D u know.. reciprocal respect of love .

this thread makes me say mushy things.. its ickky...
Posted 1/20/07
I'd pick the one I love, there is a reason you love him and not the person that loves you.
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I agree with bellus-vae. love is a very hard emotion to deal with and it won't work if both parties give and take.

I'd pick the person whom I love with the reasoning that if I truly loved them, they'll love me back...
Posted 1/20/07
It depends a lot of the context. A youngin' in the throws of puberty deals with different circumstances than a middleaged housewife sneaking her toes over the line into an affair.

If you have love, you should follow it. This means that someone outside of a relationship, when they find themselves getting tangled with two suitors, go with the one that pushes the most of your good buttons, as opposed to the one that can give you the most candy or affection. Odds are you'll grow weary of someone you never really loved all that much, regardless of what they could offer you.

Also, if you have love and are being pulled into another love, only do so when the love you had has keeled over dead and is really stinking up the place. Affection is never constant; sometimes you meet the right people at the right times and you ask yourself what direction you will go. Start with what you know before you even think about what might wait in the new direction. If it really, really, really is dead, there isn't much you can do, and you ask yourself what kind of love you want at your stage in life. So if the fun leaves at seventy, you truly might not want anything more. But if the fun leaves at thirty, considering it wouldn't be a crime. But I'd say that it is far better to stay somewhere good than go for that mystery prize; I think middleaged married people forget how much dating sucks. And yes, leaving a marriage makes you an asshole, but I think there are times when it is appropriate (to leave a marriage, and even to be an asshole).
Posted 1/20/07
oh i prefer,, the one I love.. But if that person won't accept u ,, then so be it la!!!
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Posted 1/20/07
I couldnt be with someone who didnt love me back. So it would either be the one who loves me or none of the above.
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It would depend on if the one who loves me is caring and stuff. If they're a snob or something then I'd go with neither.
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Posted 1/20/07

Thayet wrote:

It would depend on if the one who loves me is caring and stuff. If they're a snob or something then I'd go with neither.


i agree

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i think id choose the one that i love
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Neither. If the person you love doesn't love you, then they are obviously not your soul mate, and if you don't love the person who loves you, then they arnt either. So I'd have to say neither
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Posted 1/20/07
The one I love , because just because they love me, does not mean I love them
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First, I'd like to point out how much the question leaves unsaid. Like most questions, its necessary to fill in the holes to have an adequate answer. First, there seems to be some unstated implication which is (or similar to): If I choose the one that I love, that means they won't love me. If I choose the one that loves me, then I won't love them.

If that implication (or similar) is not present what is the point of the question? As then we could easly both love each other.

A better way to put this idea would be, which situation would you rather choose. 1) You love someone, but they only "like" you. Or 2) Someone loves you, but you only "like" them. Or try it again by substutiuting the words "only like" above with "dislike".

I find at least one answer easy. I simply would not want to be around a person who loves me but I dislike them. I love someone, but they dislike me? Maybe I'd want to be around them, but I think its clear this would not work out. As far as love/like, taking into consideration the easy answer above, I think I would rather have the love in my head, so to speak, as thats all I really have access to, and at least they like me.

But really, a silly question all around. If they don't love me doesn't that mean they might look for some other action, and break my heart? Or turn it around, and would I just settle for liking someone?
Posted 1/20/07
>>Well is depends, if the person I love does not love me then it is not true love.
>>But if a person that loves me the most and I do not love him back then maybe he should just be a friend to support you.
>>Love is very complicated
>>I think that people show only start a relationship if they like each other.Or else they might get hurt at the end.
>>However there are people who just start a relationship even tought one do not like the other. I think they would only get hurt along the road.
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Posted 1/20/07
i'd pick the one i love...because why go with the one that loves you when you have no feelings towards that person then it would be one sided love and then it would hurt the person who loves you deeply and you'll end up not knowing what to do
When you're with the person you love you'll be more happy. But if he/she doesn't love you but has interest it'll eventually become love, if not, why go on right?!?
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