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Why are guys the only ones...?
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Posted 1/21/07
I think its from old tradition and stereotypes of the provider being the man. I have to study hard so dont have a job meaning the guy has to pay! *shame*
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Trying to get the attention of a girl is seen as being a loser in most people's eyes. The best thing to do is wait for a loser to try and impress her and then come in and save her from him.
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^is a genius!!
hehe you save us from the pervey or creepy ones and we will be so sweet!
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^Thank you. I do my best. I hate perveys/ creepy people.
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There is no such thing as this Game that you speak of; Game is a silly male dillusion that girls see through and find obnoxious and irritating. When I say that Game is a ridiculous idea I don't want all those aforementioned ideas, that were clumped into a definition of Game, to be disregarded. Being clean, groomed, and well dressed is something girls tend to believe to be normal... sigh... being presentable is succch a burden. Oh wait...
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Posted 1/21/07

FlyingFirestorm wrote:
It's not like all girls do that,
I do nothing.. perhaps things I do just for myself, not for drawing men's attention..
and I still got the attention of the young man now known as my boyfriend




^ absolutely, i'm with you girl!
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25 / M / The World
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Posted 1/21/07

phyro989 wrote:

^Thank you. I do my best. I hate perveys/ creepy people.


same here....really i think you should just be yourself(although it'll be hard sense your around a girl/guy that you like but try your best)......you don't really need game, wat you need is to get to know each other more and that she'll/he'll feel comfortable around(thats most inmportant)

in my opinion
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30 / M / Canada
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Posted 1/21/07
both sexes are "gaming"
just look around, there will be girls dressed up looking oh so fine, and then there will be guys that are dressed up looking stylish and cool
its a matter of first impression, without that, you're out of the game
which is where i sit lol
i do nothing to go the extra mile (unless i feel like i really want to impress)
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77 / F / in the club
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Posted 1/21/07
^ Once you asked for a date cos you like the person, you'll dress up and would really want to impress.
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Posted 1/21/07

abel89 wrote:

Who have to have "Game" when it comes to dating?, I'm talking pick up lines, grooming,shelling out money for nice clothes, basically trying to be Mr, Cool to get a date


It's because it is far more challenging to pick up a girl than it is to pick up a guy. All a female has to be is willing. Guys have to jump through hoops. The things girls do they do for themselves, because aside from being overweight (and shaving)... guys really don't care how fashionable a girl is, nor could an average guy even notice if she is wearing makeup. It may be appreciated (at best), but it seldom really makes that much of a difference to an average guy.
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Posted 1/21/07
^ It matters to girls. We prefer tidy and neat looking men; trimmed hair, clean fingernails, shaved beard and so on. We will be impressed if that's the case.
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azrael910 wrote:

It's because it is far more challenging to pick up a girl than it is to pick up a guy. All a female has to be is willing. Guys have to jump through hoops. The things girls do they do for themselves, because aside from being overweight (and shaving)... guys really don't care how fashionable a girl is, nor could an average guy even notice if she is wearing makeup. It may be appreciated (at best), but it seldom really makes that much of a difference to an average guy.


Are you capable of reading minds? An hour ago I was going to type exactly what you did, but then I got lazy and went off to work on college application crap.

Though I suppose when I think about it more there are some girls that do dress to impress the opposite sex (which is truely unnecessary and tends to attract the wrong type of male), but I think for the most part most females dress and groom themselves to impress those of their sex that they admire and desire recognition from.
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Posted 1/21/07
^well i think you might be rite there
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Posted 1/21/07
because guys want cute girls cute girls know that they can get what ever they want out of a guy and they will exploit it and thrash the hell out of them and then when the guy has nothing left to give she moves on to the next and the cycle continues thus leads to the term "bitch" and "ho"

jk ladies i know you are not all like that
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38 / M / Wiltshire, U.K.
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Posted 1/21/07
When you start to get old like me it doesn't really matter as much, me and the Mrs share everything these days but when we first started out I guess I did the whole man thing. It's good for a man to treat a lady as it improves his self-esteem so I still make the effort and of course the Mrs enjoys being spoilt so we both win.
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