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Marriage is pointless....
Posted 4/24/08
Some marriage are pointless, I agree.......
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Posted 4/24/08
lol interesting topic.
Personally, I do believe in marriage. Having someone there for you until you die, sharing your pain and joy. I think everyone needs it, or else life becomes lonely. Reality check, 'hot girls' won't stay hot and what makes you so sure they'll keep dating you when you're old?
I need emotional support, and that's why I believe in marriage. I guess I have had the pleasure of having a stable home and parents who love each other, probably influencing my choice.
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Posted 4/24/08

mkgal wrote:

lol interesting topic.
Personally, I do believe in marriage. Having someone there for you until you die, sharing your pain and joy. I think everyone needs it, or else life becomes lonely. Reality check, 'hot girls' won't stay hot and what makes you so sure they'll keep dating you when you're old?
I need emotional support, and that's why I believe in marriage. I guess I have had the pleasure of having a stable home and parents who love each other, probably influencing my choice.


my parents got divorsed when I was young ect. but i still want to get married and pretty much agree with you I want to get married but I dont want to make the same mistakes they did lol
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Posted 4/24/08
you know when you're about 5 or 6, and people ask if you have a girlfriend or boyfriend, and you say EWWWWWWW NOOOOOOOOOOOOO, girls/boys are ICKYYYYYYYYYY!!!!

my point is, you'll get over it. its a teenage thing

just dont rush into marriage. no reason why yours has to fail.
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Posted 4/24/08
^ lol very good point
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Posted 4/24/08
*is reminded of the thread of the 15 year old who wrote about indirectly about his failure with getting together with a girl he wanted to marry*
Posted 4/24/08
i dont believe in marriage after seein my dad divorce twice you wont have the same nature 4 it
Posted 4/24/08
I don't believe in NOT getting married
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Posted 4/24/08
Youll totally change your mind when you fall compelely blindly in love with a girl, but than she'll break your heart anyway.
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Posted 4/24/08
It definitely isn't.
You're only 16, you still have alot to learn my friend.
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Posted 4/24/08
you dont need to look to your divorced parents and be scared of marriage. just find other married couples/role models and find out why their marriages worked when your parents didnt. there are a lot of things you can do to prevent a relationship disintegrating - starting with not marrying the wrong person or marrying quickly.

my parents are divorced, and im getting married in the not distant future
Posted 4/24/08
i think marriage works when you have true love and deep respect for who your marrying..if you just get married in a rush without really knowing who your getting involved with it will fail.
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I really think you should check your facts, because people used to marry at 15 and younger...
Posted 4/24/08
Well , what if you`re 78 ? What would happen then ?

It`s not pointless . That`s your opinion .
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Posted 4/24/08
No offence is meant to anyone, but do you know how hard it is to look at happily married couples when all the ones close to you failed? My parents are divorced and they have been for a while and so I can live with that for it would be weird for them to be together again but I can't stand the remarriges. Both of them have gotten remarried and both had been divorced before that. Even their parents were divorced, these are the people that I love but it leaves scares upon the soul.

It is a demon to conquer but I don't think that I ever will for I DON'T believe in the institution of marriage. It doesn't work out for people ALWAYS put themselves first and I DON'T believe that sharing a life is possibe or likely for most humans. I believe that there are a lucky few who have the chance to love one another their entire lives but for the most it doesn't work.

So don't judge... please. It's the way that we are raised, they say "oh, marriage is a happy thing and it's all for the best" but then they do something different and yeah, I know that I am young but because of this I know that I will never marry for I can't learn to trust someone that unconditionally.
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