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Marriage is pointless....
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I know someone who's going to be alone when he's old <_<

*cough*
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masterluc90 wrote:

Marriage is FOOL when the FOOLS gonna MARRIED.


i totally agree
Posted 4/24/08

Raikuga wrote:
50% of marriages FAIL completely leaving 50% that 'work' out (number keeps getting lower year by year)...In that 50% that 'works', how many of those couple are truly happy, have cheated etc etc...gotta say AT LEAST 50% of that group which leaves 25% of good marriages now...of that group, Im guessing a good % of those peeps are simply ugly, unsociable or social retards so they fit know they wont be pulling anythign better than they have....

I will stay single, date hot girls and be free

Really at 16 you're about 10 years from any age at which you should even be thinking about this, so I'm not sure why you care right now. In any case it seems a bit sad that you think you're in the stupidest 75% of the population who aren't smart enough to know who they should marry and who they shouldn't, and be able to keep a relationship together even if they do.
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koreangirl111 wrote:


masterluc90 wrote:

Marriage is FOOL when the FOOLS gonna MARRIED.


i totally agree



thanks,sweetie ^^
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NO! I wanna have a family and wear the WHITE DRESS!
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thalidami wrote:

No offence is meant to anyone, but do you know how hard it is to look at happily married couples when all the ones close to you failed? My parents are divorced and they have been for a while and so I can live with that for it would be weird for them to be together again but I can't stand the remarriges. Both of them have gotten remarried and both had been divorced before that. Even their parents were divorced, these are the people that I love but it leaves scares upon the soul.

It is a demon to conquer but I don't think that I ever will for I DON'T believe in the institution of marriage. It doesn't work out for people ALWAYS put themselves first and I DON'T believe that sharing a life is possibe or likely for most humans. I believe that there are a lucky few who have the chance to love one another their entire lives but for the most it doesn't work.

So don't judge... please. It's the way that we are raised, they say "oh, marriage is a happy thing and it's all for the best" but then they do something different and yeah, I know that I am young but because of this I know that I will never marry for I can't learn to trust someone that unconditionally.



dont take this as an insult on your age, but trust me, when you are a little older you will be able to see exactly why your parents and grandparents marriages failed. the fact that your parents marriage didnt work out when their parents didnt hints that they passed on their issues to their children. just as they have been passed on to you. this in fact leaves you in a good position to examine just what went wrong and to avoid making the same mistakes. i doubt very much that their marriages just didnt work. there would have been some root cause of it that could have been avoided or fixed.

you dont learn to trust people, you learn how to make them earn your trust, and how to give your trust in return.

NOT marrying doesnt mean you will be happy, just as marrying doesnt mean you will be unhappy.

my parents had a brutal break up, and there was years of me stuck in the middle of their bitching, but when i got out into the world more, and i grew and was able to choose my own life paths i started to see how many other relationship possibilities out there. i also had the time to get over a lot of the crap associated with my parents divorce. when you are younger the divorce and its effects are essentially in your face every day. when you get older and move out you'll be out from under all that.

Posted 4/24/08

snottyenglishgirl wrote:
you dont learn to trust people, you learn how to make them earn your trust, and how to give your trust in return.

Yea, and you also learn who you're never going to be able to trust and that you shouldn't marry such a person.
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shibole wrote:


snottyenglishgirl wrote:
you dont learn to trust people, you learn how to make them earn your trust, and how to give your trust in return.

Yea, and you also learn who you're never going to be able to trust and that you shouldn't marry such a person.


exactly

recognizing the person NOT to marry is as important as finding the one you SHOULD marry

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but all my life problem will be solved if I marry a rich girl
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wow thread maker, ur gonna be lonely
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at the end of your life, you wont have anyone to care for you because all of your hot girls will be interested in young guys
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welook wrote:

wow thread maker, ur gonna be lonely


no i can get a girl. i dont have to get married. if you married and it doesnt work out. she gets half your shit.

if you dont get married and it doesnt work out. well no worries lol

why bind yourself when the bind can be terminated and hurt you.
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masterluc90 wrote:


koreangirl111 wrote:


masterluc90 wrote:

Marriage is FOOL when the FOOLS gonna MARRIED.


i totally agree



thanks,sweetie ^^


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such a terrible tread
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NiNaBoN wrote:

NO! I wanna have a family and wear the WHITE DRESS!


me 2 i dont wanna grow old alone
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