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Can a meaningful romantic relationship exist between an adult and a child?
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Posted 4/27/08
I have thought a lot about this subject, and despite all the bashing about this subject few people really touch on this. They are too busy either defending their lolicon pic folders or screaming bloody murder about those wicked child rapists to consider the real implications of a relationship between an adult and child.

As a proud lolicon, I am growing weary about people ignorantly bashing my compatriots, and Chris Hanson's To Catch a Predator is possibly the most useless effort ever devised by television.

However I do not approve of child rapists, child pornographers and the like. Rape is one of the great acts of evil committed by humans, and people who put children through such pain deserve nothing but the full wrath of a bullet.

But while all this flaming is going on, few people really consider this:

If a consenting adult and a willing child existed, do you believe a meaningful relationship could exist? Us lolicons can dream all we want, and the haters can sputter all they want, but I want to know what you guys think. I'm not trolling. Promise.

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Posted 4/27/08 , edited 4/27/08
Kind of a hard topic. Usually children are waaaay to young to even consider the concept of love, and with an adult, they may feel peer pressured to say yes since, well, most children give in what adults say. True, it happened centuries ago, but most of the time it was arranged or kind of forced into. So in the end, hard to say...
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Posted 4/27/08
I think children are too young to understand what love is.

ugh pedophile relationship.
So freaky anyways
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Posted 4/27/08 , edited 4/27/08
Personally, I think so. People think that children don't really understand what love is and hey, I bet more than half of them really don't. But never say never, I think there's at least some children that understand love and can love a adult romantically. If the child knows what he or she is getting into, realizes that it isn't just a game, isn't raped or molested or hurt in any way by the adult, I think a serious romantic relationship is possible if they both really do like each other.

Edit: Eh. Looked at the other replies. I'm kind of stupid so can someone tell me is a romantic relationship just about sex? I mean, I always thought it was something like some mushy love story but from the replies I've seen it seems like every romantic relationship is just sex sex sex. *shiver* I feel awkward typing that word.
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Posted 4/27/08
um, i don't think so. usually kids don't seriously love people. especially if their "mate" is an adult (at least 10 years their senior)
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Posted 4/27/08
No, children aren't mature enough to fully comprehend the weight of their actions. An adult who thinks that it's reasonable, is fucking retarded and perverse.
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Posted 4/27/08
hmm... the child will grow up eventually.. what will you do then..? will you break her heart because she's not young for your tastes anymore..?
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hum ..........I guess I'm not against this but their are many reasons why old guys and young kids shoudn't be together like yeah lets see if a young girl not older than 6-10 get married and gets pregnant she could die am I right but if not she might have an infection in her body but if they really care for each other they should talk this over right?
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Posted 4/27/08
hmm this is a toughy
i always say love can be between whoever and whatever (meaning gender and races not like human and chair)
but there are times when things like this can cross the line
idk the thought of someone older checking out a 6 year old bothers me
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71 / F / Pearl of the Orient
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Posted 4/27/08
Like many said, children won't be able to understand the whole situation. Although there will be exceptions, over-all, it's a baaaaad idea.
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26 / F / Himitsu♥♥ ~_^
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Posted 4/27/08
Well, it depends on how young they are... if you are like 20~30 and say you like 4-14 years old kids, then that's kind of scary... that makes a person pervert.
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Posted 4/27/08
lol....wtf?? hahaha
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28 / M / 7th Heaven
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Posted 4/27/08
If a girl is say 20 and the guy is 65 is it still considered pedo?

Or only the age of illegal consent is considered pedo?
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Well this IS a toughy. As a person who studies child and youth psychology i will tell you that no child is able to make that rational kind of a decision which is needed for a romantic relationship. By child i mean prepubescent kids. After that it is still a very gray area since some develop quicker then others. I personally believe that it is wrong to have a sexual relationship with a child since it damages them psychologically whether you intend it or not. I have met quite a few children who have been molested/abused and i can't say they are perfectly happy. And i don't mean the "forced" kind of abuse, but the one where the child says that they are in love, they love their abuser as they see it and want to be together ... but that is questionable since most of the time they are raised to believe that what is going on is okay. Anyway, this is getting long. As a final thought no child should have a sexual relationship with an adult in my opinion.
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Posted 4/29/08 , edited 4/29/08
convincing a child that they love you and WANT to consent to sex is called GROOMING and it is a pedophile tactic.

not all child rape victims are pinned down and have sex forced physically upon them. they are psychologically manipulated into thinking 'its the done thing'. a child without the necessary experience can be convinced that this is what everyone does.

children want to be loved, and if they are innocent you can make them think they are consenting to any sexual activity between the adult and the child. how many victims of child abuse when they are young say "but my daddy loves me, this is how he shows me he loves me"? once an abuser moves on to the abused's younger sibling the former abuse victim can experience confused feelings of rejection and jealousy even though they have been abused. when they grow up into adulthood they dont register the relationship as a loving one, because they learn about what is normal and what isnt. therefore they are totally screwed up and are aware of the thing that has happened to them. children will often want to please the adult and cannot tell the difference between the different forms of love. its only when they mature and become older that they realise that often what they thought was romantic love was in fact not.

if the adult actually loved the child they could wait as long as it took for the child to become and adult and be with them then

if them BEING young is what the adult wants, then it has nothing to do with the child involved's personality. they are simply into kids.

consequently if the adult cant wait for a child to become an adult they dont actually love the child at all.



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