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Can a meaningful romantic relationship exist between an adult and a child?
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Posted 12/15/08
Depends on how old of a child. When the kid doesn't know/understand the full implications of the word "sex", or even dating, I think that yes, it's wrong. However, a girl at the age of 16 or older should have had enough of an education to make the choice on her own. Still, I think if they're really in love, they should wait until she's 18 to make the decision.
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I once heard a science guy, did not really remeber the specifics, but i do remeber him as a guywho knew the psychology of people....maybe he was a psychologist i dont exactly remeber and thereforth wont assume.

But he said that men or women that are attracted to a child do it for the part of them that wants to have controll, like an alfa male in a heard, he just want power....knowing he can gain every aspect of it from a child he then pursues them. Really doing what mankind and any other species has always done, which is the lust of power, and what better way to have it? you can controll them in every aspect, form what they see, how they see it, to what they think.

Because of that explanation i belive that such want for power is what eventually leads a week man to wonder to a level far past him which he can exert full controll, and this is why i belive this despicable action should never be commited.

Ps: actions of a week man is what im triying to say, with a resoning behind it which makes perfect sence to me, its my opinion, and have yet to be proven otherwise.
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Yes it can. Well in my opinion. Same goes for a romantic one. And this is not wrong. That's right people I said it isn't wrong. Pedophilia is a fetish, and although society labels it as wrong, it remains that it is still a fetish. People have all kinds of fetishes, and we don't tell them that their fetishes is wrong. Pedophilia is the only one in that case. That being said, I do not agree or promote pedophilia (or it's actions) for it may (and usually) psychologically damages children, but I simply say that we cannot condemn the pedophile for being wrong, unless we choose to pass the same judgement on anyone with a fetish.
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Posted 12/24/08
i think its ok as long as the rlationship brings joy to the girl it will be fine
Posted 12/24/08
Yes it can, in some states a 15 - 16yr old can get married to a 20 something year old. As long as they have the parent's consent.

If you're going around french kissing ten year olds then answer is no.
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Posted 12/24/08
Hmm...depends on the child and the age.

Lets say...21 vs 10. Now at the age of ten the idea of 'boyfriend and girlfriend' is pretty fresh. So a relationship between the two is possible however would it be meaningful? Probably here is a reason:

1. If they stay in that relationship up until the 10 year old becomes 17 then hey, they had time to develop and grow and still want that person. At 10, its just fun.

Now, it couldn't work at the same time because the ten year old would have to go to school and would meet other people their own age and realize that its puppy love.

So it depends on the parties involved the the mental standings of the ten year old. The twenty one year old has already made their choice, the ten year old is still developing.

Anyway, thats my case for that. In short: its possible with great effort but is still fragile
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Posted 12/24/08
1.Ok do you ever watch dateline they make it clear that that shit is not acceptable in todays society and if it was ok there would be no charges such as rape and shit seriously.
2.Secondly what boy would want to be with a 50 fucking year old man like god damn I dont think even one fucktard kid in the third grade ever wanted to be dating a old hairy pedofile

Sorry popezeke if you meant like Ashton Kutcher instead of Dateline
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Posted 12/24/08
Definitely not. Sorry, but no.

In a lot of cultures they used to allow this.

And in modern countries they don't.

I am very glad.
Posted 1/8/09
dude that freakin' sick i thought this was a gag forum. my answer is no because experience make people and rape hurts people.
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Posted 1/8/09
For some reason, I find a young woman going out with a young boy pretty much ok.....for some odd reason.
Posted 1/8/09
If the adult ask the kid , and he/she accept it , so it's okay right ?
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Posted 1/9/09
Define child. If you talking about 5 year olds then the answer is a big HELL NO!!!!! If you talking about a 17 year old that's turning 18 then maybe it can work.
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22 / F / Arizona
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Posted 1/10/09
No.. Can't people wait until later?
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Posted 1/10/09
if its a 21 year old with a 16-17 year old then it's alright. I mean eventually when the 16 year old becomes 21 then the 21 year old becomes 26 and its much more acceptable.

if it's a 21 year old after a 10 year old... then it's just sick!
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Posted 1/10/09
what a stupidity. How can be a criminal act assimilated to a romantic relationship implying love, affection and physical relation?

child is a child, he lacks experience and knowledge about what is love, what is a sexual game, and still ignore frontiers of moral and immoral, in any case he will be just a toy even if he think he is not Some people are still children even at 18
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