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Can a meaningful romantic relationship exist between an adult and a child?
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Posted 1/10/09
If this is thread is still going I´m going to assume people are saying yes to this.

A child by law in defined as a young person or child. A child is from the ages of 0 - 11. A young person is someone from 12 - 20 (depends on where). However for this a child is from 0 - 17.

A child cannot possibly form an adult relationship with an adult. It is not possible. The use of power within the relationship is very obvious and wrong, because obviously there is that power that can be used to manipulate the victim. I use victim because there is no possible way that a still developing child who have no concepts of self identity or concept of sex, and relationship and even right and wrong can really make a conscious and rational decision from something like this, and so that ensues that is it in fact rape.
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umm...well, being a child, i would have to say NO.
i mean, i've had experiences on the bus where i get these creepy old men (probly around late twenties and up) staring at me in "that way" and frankly that just creeps me out...there are old men out there EVERYWHERE, and PLENTY of them will think of sexual things when they see a kid, but that doesnt mean that the kid will think the same thing...

so, that is why i would say no. if most kids are like me, and i honestly hope they are in this case, they would probably not even THINK of going into a "relationship" with an older man like that...or maybe im wrong. idk, really
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Posted 1/10/09

popezeke wrote:

If a consenting adult and a willing child existed, do you believe a meaningful relationship could exist?


LOL?
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h3ntie wrote:


popezeke wrote:

If a consenting adult and a willing child existed, do you believe a meaningful relationship could exist?


LOL?


This has to be the most win reply in this entire post.
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Posted 1/10/09

popezeke wrote:


h3ntie wrote:


popezeke wrote:

If a consenting adult and a willing child existed, do you believe a meaningful relationship could exist?


LOL?


This has to be the most win reply in this entire post.


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Posted 1/11/09
that's disgusting to even think about!!!! romance?? a kid?? old guy?????

uhm NO.
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You've GOT to be kidding me.

Pedi alert on the move, for REAL.
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Why not?
I'm 15, and if I fell in love with someone who was legal, then I should be able to do what I want, without the other person getting in trouble with the law. "Age of consent" and that stupid shit is ridiculous. All that needs to be recognized is whether sex is rape or consensual. Age doesn't matter, as long as nothing's forced.

No girl here can possibly say that they weren't dreaming of getting married to the perfect guy when they were in kindergarten. Love isn't a foreign concept to children. You don't give them enough credit!

Sure, it's not like one-year-olds can understand love, and once they get to about three, they understand bonds. But they're young, young kids, and if you want a meaningful romantic relationship with them, that's not going to work.

By about nine or ten, yeah, they understand love. Some kids have sex by twelve now. Just because it's unacceptable in society doesn't mean it's wrong.
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Posted 1/13/09

popezeke wrote:

I have thought a lot about this subject, and despite all the bashing about this subject few people really touch on this. They are too busy either defending their lolicon pic folders or screaming bloody murder about those wicked child rapists to consider the real implications of a relationship between an adult and child.

As a proud lolicon, I am growing weary about people ignorantly bashing my compatriots, and Chris Hanson's To Catch a Predator is possibly the most useless effort ever devised by television.

However I do not approve of child rapists, child pornographers and the like. Rape is one of the great acts of evil committed by humans, and people who put children through such pain deserve nothing but the full wrath of a bullet.

But while all this flaming is going on, few people really consider this:

If a consenting adult and a willing child existed, do you believe a meaningful relationship could exist? Us lolicons can dream all we want, and the haters can sputter all they want, but I want to know what you guys think. I'm not trolling. Promise.

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wot r u classifying as a child?? 12-15 r u still counting that as a child? a 15yr old wiv a 19 yr old, a 14 yr old wiv a 20 yr old or a 13 yr old wiv a 40 yr old. i guess it all depends on how old the child is, a 15yr old and a 19yr old i dnt find that wrong, a 20 yr old wiv a 14 yr old is getting slightly weird a 13yr old wiv a 40 yr old NOOOO. i think while still a child if ur partner is moe then 8 yrs ur senior its a bit iffy

Posted 1/28/09
only if the child isnt immature.
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Posted 1/28/09
yes.
Posted 5/17/09
i think pedophiles are sickasses. if you WAY older than the child and you have an attraction to them. umm your a failure. you need to get a hobby. friends. A LIFE. its disgusting. if you are on cr and your like 25 or something (theoratically speaking) and your buddying little 13 year old girls. than you have a problem. i dont care if your a "proud lolicon" or pedophile, same thing you need to talk to people YOUR age. in YOUR mindset. mkay?

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Posted 5/17/09 , edited 5/17/09
No, not romantically or sexually. I don't believe a child (18 years and younger?) is mentally mature enough to handle and cope with a romantic relationship, and in younger children, they don't even understand what it is. In the younger cases, because they have such a low understanding of romance (they aren't meant to I guess, they're too young to breed. That's what puberty is for) I see the adult at fault, manipulating them, perhaps. When you get into the late teens it's confusing I suppose, that stage where teenagers/children become adults. But I seriously don't think anyone under 18 is capable of handling a proper mature relationship, especially not with someone much older than them.

I don't have a problem with age gaps in romance, but I do when one is considered a child. For the very reason I've given, they're naive.
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Posted 5/17/09
NAHH I DONT THINK SO.
KIDS ARE TOO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND THE
REAL MEANING OF LOVE
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Posted 5/17/09
I think it depends on how young a child we're talking about. Because a child under the age of 14 hasn't even fully DEVELOPED yet, in an emotional and mental sense. Their brains are still growing and learning to process things. I seriously doubt a young child has the brain development to be able to harness the complexities of the emotion of love.

While it's probably quite possible for an adult to feel strong, powerful affection for a child (be it in a parent-like sense, or even a romantic sense who knows), I have my skepticism at the child be able to return those feelings, simply because of the biology of it.
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