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Do you hate change?
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Okay im not sure if there is a topic on this but is there every any times where you just wish things could always be the same?
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icalia248 wrote:

Okay im not sure if there is a topic on this but is there every any times where you just wish things could always be the same?


It seems to me you are assuming that at some point things remained the same which is not true. Nothing ever stays the same, it is always changing. Especially you. If you don't notice it or acknowledge it, better start doing it now.
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changes r inevitable. learn to accept it. =)
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In many respects, resistance to change is necessary in life. The concept of homeostasis, both biological and psychosocial can be understood as a resistance to forcible changes from the external world. However, despite this, change IS something that does, and will happen, despite our efforts to avoid/correct it.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that it's not a question of whether or not change exists. We know change exists, but the point of the topic starter is "wouldn't it be nice if things didn't change." Since the body has the tendency to resist change, I think this is a pretty understandable remark.

Honestly, if you don't want your life to change, this may be grounds for you to question your current understanding of who you are and what it is that your really want in life. To reach a certain point in life where you have ceased to strive for a future (i.e. change) is rather "unhuman", and seems to imply a certain level of perfection.

At the very least, I think you understand it as "I feel comfortable in my given situation. Change causes discomfort ~ I'm afraid of such a chain of events occurring in my life." But even with this point of view, perhaps you should realize that we can't strive for anything better if we do not perceive first the sacrifices that are necessary in order to attain it.

Long story short: don't expect to "rise up the ranks" in your life if you don't challenge yourself to do it.
Posted 11/9/07
no i love to change..i wish i change my personaility too..T^T
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nope... i mean i lived with it.....

this reminds me of a song

"i know we've change but change can be so good, so lets not forget what we blah blah... time, look were we are and what we've been through. time, share in our dreams... blah blah bah...."
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Don't like it but I've accepted it
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sometimes its easy sometimes its not.but whether i like it or not, it wont stop changing,would it?
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icalia248 wrote:

Okay im not sure if there is a topic on this but is there every any times where you just wish things could always be the same?

do you?
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change develops urself....^^, it always gets tough at 1st.....
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26 / F / Ft. Sill, Oklahoma
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icalia248 wrote:

Okay im not sure if there is a topic on this but is there every any times where you just wish things could always be the same?

do you?


yes i do because i found out recently that one of my closest friends (my partner in crime) is going to be leaving soon i mean i know shes a senior and graduating but shes also joined the navy and will be leaving so...
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yes i do all the times
Posted 11/9/07
i hate the light. its all i hate. not much changes with me though.
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there is good change and bad change. both of which make individuals develop as humans. it's how you react to those changes that decide whether they are good or bad.

personally i don't particularly like change, so to me change is bad.
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i like change it's so boring to be the same
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